So I've been dating a girl I met at uni for the past four months. She is Filipino, I am a New Zealander. When we began dating, I didn't know her parents, so therefore hadn't met them. I recommitted myself to God again, and became a Christian a month into our relationship. - I was a half-hearted Christian before, you see. This girl made me realize I need to sort out my Christian self, so I can lead this relationship in a God-glorifying way. - She hasn't really made the commitment for herself.
Anyway, due to various reasons, four months later, I finally met her parents officially today, and we all had a coffee at a café. About two months ago, I took a keen interest in relationship books, including Boy Meets Girl. And I see that it is an significant thing to do, to ask the girl you interested in's father for permission to start dating her. Well, due to how we met, it didn't work out that way. One thing I had told the girl I'm dating about two months in, is that I wasn't going to enter into a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship with you, until I had met her parents.
Well now I have, and I've been wondering over the past few hours; should I perhaps write a letter or something to her father asking permission to ask her daughter to become my girlfriend? - As a nice gesture, and to show that I value their input. By the way, the meeting with her parents today went really well, and they told me that they were happy I was dating their daughter (they are both Christians themselves). If so, what should I write? Your opinions/advice would be great, thanks!
Anyway, due to various reasons, four months later, I finally met her parents officially today, and we all had a coffee at a café. About two months ago, I took a keen interest in relationship books, including Boy Meets Girl. And I see that it is an significant thing to do, to ask the girl you interested in's father for permission to start dating her. Well, due to how we met, it didn't work out that way. One thing I had told the girl I'm dating about two months in, is that I wasn't going to enter into a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship with you, until I had met her parents.
Well now I have, and I've been wondering over the past few hours; should I perhaps write a letter or something to her father asking permission to ask her daughter to become my girlfriend? - As a nice gesture, and to show that I value their input. By the way, the meeting with her parents today went really well, and they told me that they were happy I was dating their daughter (they are both Christians themselves). If so, what should I write? Your opinions/advice would be great, thanks!