Feeling lost, worthless and filled with fear and anxiety

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Shine

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#21
@ Batya

Your message has two sides to it, sincerity and a bit inconsideration. But I do respect your testimony and how you have learned a great deal from the disconcerting accident, your mistakes and God's awesomeness. I will surely take a lot of positives when trying to minimise having any regrets as a Christian.

But I'm astounded by the ignorance you exuded in lightening other people's burdens relative to the one you once carried. Don't get me wrong the accident you encountered is something I'm not taking any lightly and I'm very grateful to God for his miracle in your life but that should not make us sidetrack our brothers and sisters in Christ. I believe that to scold someone you need understand their situation and also their upbringing. What usually breaks a men is rarely the physical wounds but the emotional scars. That is why this world is infested with murderers, rapists, thieves, to mention but a few.

I think that I'm still a toddler in Christ but have a passion for seeing all souls getting saved. and Christian truly loving one another. If we, in Christ, are creating an intimidating atmosphere in the spiritual world are we not falling into the devil's trap. Would you be happy to find that your message made a new soul backslide. Again just to reiterate myself I'm not castigating your message but I think that the tone of it was high pitched. Is it not nice to see that Christians want to overcame their obstacles in consecrating themselves fully in Christ.

As the heavens are above the earth so are God's thoughts. Rather than lambasting other people's prayers why don't you encourage them on what you consider as effective prayer with Jesus Christ's affection. I'm always taken aback by the path Jesus laid for us when he was on earth. When someone was ill,sick troubled or whatever he never mentioned anything about cause and effect as he new that the devil was wreaking havoc in people's lives and confusing them. He was always always gentle and tender. Is the gospel nowadays different from Jesus time on earth. Definitely not. There is only one truth and God speaks to us in different ways, so How can we be the judge of other people's prayers. That is who are we to judge and berate souls with a high affinity for God. That is why I'm mystified at how you conducted your survey. We can never know what is in the heart of a person save for oneself and God. "Not everyone who says to me 'Lord, Lord' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only those who do the will of my heavenly Father". This is a reminder of the deeper mysteries in God's kingdom.
"Repentance and faith are to be measured by justice, mercy and love".

I'm not trying to vilify you but I think that we have to guard against losing sight of others and expecting our standards to be met by everyone. For the tongue of a child of God is very powerful. New born babies need to crawl before they walk.

I'm very concerned by the fact that the tendency nowadays is to be inconsiderate of the young ones in Christ.
I for one believe that the house of God should be one full of love(unconditional), devoid of pretence and always open to new souls. Not only stopping at bringing new souls to Christ but helping them feel welcomed and part of the family otherwise the devil lurking in the shadows will scoop them away.Jesus worked tirelessly to bring souls into salvation we shouldn't be content only with our own standing with the awesome God but should be deeply worried at the number of people getting lost each day or sinking deeper into darkness. The disciples were always affectionate in their preachings, I wish that we not deviate from that.

Remember "Do not judge, and you will not be judged". This message always keeps me in check. I hope I did not get carried away.

All I said is with love and you can correct me where I misconstrued your intentions Betty.
Love you Sister.
 
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kc4JC

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Wow, I stumbled onto this page. I am not so technically inclined. I wanted to get involved with a Christian chat room because I am and because I guess at 46, I want to scream and say to all of you what are you talking about. Perhaps, at 20 or so I felt that way at one time or another...until one day I had an accident one year after my marriage that left me paralyzed from the hip down on the right side for ten years. I had smached my sciatic nerve, or so my some 18 doctors said. On your own can you - Tell me can you brush your teeth, go to the bathroom, give yourself a bath and yes you can name the so many other unables. If you will allow me I will take you on a journey that will create a life of total bliss and paradise for you. Everything that is happening in your life, you've invited it and it will never go away until you stop it. You are responsible for you not God, he paid the price with his precious blood, suffering and shame that he took to calvary. God does not answer prayers, he answers before I am fininshed asking. I wished you knew or can discover your power and who you are, where you came from. What your life is meant to be. ps. The doctors said - i would never be able to walk again, I am. I used every dime on my recovery - now I am one of the richest people I know and do you know why. My heavenly father and your heavenly father owns the world, that makes us his heirs. Please don't think I am making you wrong, just my desire you don't wait till you are 40 to discover your power...in joy Batya...my name is Betty, my hebrew name is Batya - means daughter of God...
Hi! I am new on here but because of you. I find your knowledge to be amazing and very inciteful.. I would love to talk with you further on this, if you don't mind. PLEASE! :)
 
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Ugly

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Hi! I am new on here but because of you. I find your knowledge to be amazing and very inciteful.. I would love to talk with you further on this, if you don't mind. PLEASE! :)
kc4JC .. this person you quoted and said you wanted to talk more too is no longer part of this site. His response is from Jan 4 2010. A year and a half ago. He's listed as a guest, which means he likely has quit the site. I've not seen him post anything recently, so it appears your attempts to meet him are missed. Sorry.
 
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BarbieBlank77

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#24
I'm 20 now, and I can say I've been there too. I've got anxiety disorders, which just makes all those feelings so much worse, but I think we all go through this. Like what do we do with our lives, what do we study, where do we work, what's it all for? Like I'm studying at uni now (1st year) but I still don't know what I'm gonna do with my life. Think the easiest thing in life is just to go with the flow and trust God. Just remember that whatever you're feeling or going through, you serve a God who is greater than all of that. You have the Spirit with you, God's power in you, and therefore you are strong enough, through God, to overcome all your feelings, emotions, fears and other things stopping you from living your life..

Take it from someone who's nearly been depressed because of anxiety, it's all in your mind. Not like we're crazy, but its thoughts, and we can control them, we can choose how to feel. Decide that you're gonna not go on how you feel, but you're gonna do what you need to and that you're going to choose to live like a winner, the way God intends for you to live. And if you feel lost in life, like what you're here for, God has revealed to me that the purpose of living, is to make and keep good relationships with people. Strip everything away from life, all thats left is people. Read the Bible, all that God commands is to preserve relationships. So don't focus on yourself, focus on helping someone else with their lives, and you'll be amazed how God shows you what steps to take and how happy you'll become.
(I say all this from experience.) :)

Don't worry too much about life, don't let it all get you down, just focus on the little things each day that make you happy. I think by the time we're 25 we'll look back on who we were at this age of 20 and see how we were growing. :)
God bless..!
 
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Likewise

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#25
Been there many times, but the depression and emptiness brought me to seek God for peace. I sought God through prayer, bible study , fasting, and fellowship, and memory of scripture. There were times I had to believe God's word when it didn't make sense, but it still was the best counsel I had. In Hebrews it says "through faith and patience, we inherit the promises of God." Hope this is helpful
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