advice on surviving infidelity

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Dadzof2princesses

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i haven't been a very religious person. in fact i thought, the spirit within me is what carries me through in life ... up to now.

after learning my wife's infidelity, learning strong enough and that i found myself praying for strength. plenty of times, i whisper under my breath (please god- get rid of these thoughts, please god- i need strength, please god- hope my girls will be okay)

i'm seeking counsel from my church in how to properly pray, what is it to be saved, how to just let go and believe.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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My advice would for you to start attending a Christian co-dependence support group such as Celebrate Recovery. You need it more than you know.
 
maxwel

maxwel

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Dadzof2princesses said:
i haven't been a very religious person. in fact i thought, the spirit within me is what carries me through in life ... up to now.

after learning my wife's infidelity, learning strong enough and that i found myself praying for strength. plenty of times, i whisper under my breath (please god- get rid of these thoughts, please god- i need strength, please god- hope my girls will be okay)

i'm seeking counsel from my church in how to properly pray, what is it to be saved, how to just let go and believe.
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Are you and your wife in the same country?
 
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Dadzof2princesses

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yes.. we still live under the same roof.
 
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Dadzof2princesses

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I have a church counselor, a personal therapist and also we're going to marriage therapy.
I have supportive friends and family.

All i know is that whatever road i am in.... its going to be a long one.
 
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Little_Woman

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All I can say,

the road you choose,
the road you live on.

For each things,
there are good and bad sides
attached on the road.

I can't really understand
the situation you're facing on,
I've never get married.

But,
next time,
think more than twice
before taking a real solution.
In that way, it won't ended up
by sadness or even big madness.
 
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