how to move on?

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pinkalchemist

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Have you been cheated on by your spouse/bf-gf/friend ? How did you cope up? HOW TO MOVE ON?
 

maxwel

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If you're wanting useful and specific advice, it might be best to discuss what has actually happened to you, and what you're actually dealing with.

If that's too personal to discuss in public, then I'm sure one of the girls here in the Filipino Forum would be happy to talk to you privately, or recommend some other mature Christian women here for you to counsel with.

God Bless.
 
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odet

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Well...moving on is NOT really to forget the past...its how u accept and understand what happened..coz things in the past is maybe meant to be happened...
 
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maverickman

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Pink, you basically have three choices if this happens to you. Leave, forgive or both. I am most in favor of the second option personally. Anyone can make a mess. few try to clean it up. If you find that the one that cheated is truly remorseful and actively seeks a change towards a Christ-like life, give them the chance you would want for yourself.

Mav
 

jangel

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If you ended the relationship and just want to move on then...
Do kickboxing and imagine it was him you were kicking and punching on. Or just simply get a punching bag and imagine it was him.
Cry it out loud. Cry until you get tired.Cry until no more tears to shed. Scream if you want.
And then...treat yourself a beauty rest. Go to a spa, have a very relaxing massage. Go to a parlor, be pretty!
Wag mo ipakita affected ka. Ipakita mo siya ang nawalan!

But on a serious note, gusto ko rin sabihin na ... forgive. Accept the things you cannot change, accept the fact that there are people who will hurt us, accept the pain, learn the lesson and learn to let go. Pagkatapos, ask God's wisdom that next time when you finally learn to trust your heart again to someone sa right guy mo na mabibigay. :)

hehe actually hindi ako makarelate, thankfully mabait naman yung sakin pero yun lang gusto ko sabihin. :)
 
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LoL..leave the past behind and learn from it.........it's hard to move on but you shud really move on LoL.

The moment we escape from the perfect will of God,the outcome is really disaster. Next time, do it wisely, seek God, seek His perfect will and not yours.
 
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CSNY

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Worry will just torment us. Move on and enjoy life as he has promised. Not an easy thing to do. Get encourage by teachings and sermons and read the word of God daily.
 
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Psalm23

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Maybe this is a little bit different, pero every time naaalala ko ang lahat sa amin I speak a blessing sa kanyang parte at pray for victory sa akin. hehe. At yung mga pagdaramdam lahat iniiyak ko kay Lord. Sabi ng preaching nung linggo sa church namin if di siya karapat-dapat sa blessing na in-utter mo, tatalbug yun, at pupunta sa iyo. lol

Is someone brokenhearted is hear? lol. But Jesus can make us whole. Amen.

Ngayon natatawa at napapangiti na lang ako pag naaalala ulit ang nakaraan. hehe

kumain sa labas sina boss kaya may time mag-net. hehe
 
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maxwel

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Apr 18, 2013
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If you ended the relationship and just want to move on then...
Do kickboxing and imagine it was him you were kicking and punching on. Or just simply get a punching bag and imagine it was him.
Cry it out loud. Cry until you get tired.Cry until no more tears to shed. Scream if you want.
And then...treat yourself a beauty rest. Go to a spa, have a very relaxing massage. Go to a parlor, be pretty!
Wag mo ipakita affected ka. Ipakita mo siya ang nawalan!

But on a serious note, gusto ko rin sabihin na ... forgive. Accept the things you cannot change, accept the fact that there are people who will hurt us, accept the pain, learn the lesson and learn to let go. Pagkatapos, ask God's wisdom that next time when you finally learn to trust your heart again to someone sa right guy mo na mabibigay. :)

hehe actually hindi ako makarelate, thankfully mabait naman yung sakin pero yun lang gusto ko sabihin. :)
This is why I never see ex-boyfriends posting in the Filipino Forum.
Apparently they're all dead, lol.

: )
 

JCluvsme

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Forgetting what lies behind...setting our hearts on the PRICE always keeping our EYES on our LORD JESUS..

BE faithful in our calling ... for we are able to keep us from falling..FOR there were a promises of GOD we should trust HIM.:D:rolleyes::confused: