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Well, here is his name: exbi-savedbygrace
(You can click on it to PM him)
Here is his testimony: http://christianchat.com/testimonies/54750-testimony-my-conversion-sexual-perversion.html
(Just click on the link)
Can't hurt if you read what he has to say, right?
Sorry I could not help you out beyond this.
(You can click on it to PM him)
Here is his testimony: http://christianchat.com/testimonies/54750-testimony-my-conversion-sexual-perversion.html
(Just click on the link)
Can't hurt if you read what he has to say, right?
Sorry I could not help you out beyond this.
Playing with fire is what you guys are doing...
I don't ask the question "Is there any female who has a problem with lustful thoughts towards men, so they can understand my position..."
Just saying that this is strait up playing with fire... Because one of the first things you will talk about is your sexual sins and struggles... If I did that with a female or even offered the notion, many here would scream and yell... Yet, we have come to the cultural standard that only homosexual's can consult homosexuals... I find it funny because it is not deemed the same with other sexual sins, such as adultery.
I don't ask the question "Is there any female who has a problem with lustful thoughts towards men, so they can understand my position..."
Just saying that this is strait up playing with fire... Because one of the first things you will talk about is your sexual sins and struggles... If I did that with a female or even offered the notion, many here would scream and yell... Yet, we have come to the cultural standard that only homosexual's can consult homosexuals... I find it funny because it is not deemed the same with other sexual sins, such as adultery.
Hi, I'm a Christian kleptomaniac and I'd like to find another Christian kleptomaniac with whom I can chat. Do you know of anyone?
BTW, I'm not interested in acknowledging my sin or changing my behavior or being healed of my sin, I just want to talk about my sin with another person who has the same sin condition.
That's okay, right?
BTW, I'm not interested in acknowledging my sin or changing my behavior or being healed of my sin, I just want to talk about my sin with another person who has the same sin condition.
That's okay, right?
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all I was looking for was to discuss the issue, with another Christian who as come up against the same difficulties as I have, you say I can't go to another gay christian male, but as a Christian male, most women wouldnt feel comfortable talking about issues like this with me, so who can I turn to exactly?
You should go to a elder, preferably in your local church...
Going to "gay men" on the internet to ask for help on your issues is playing with fire... if you must go with the internet I suggest talking to someonee who have either for a fact concurred this issue (which is risky to discern) Or someone who is very wise and knowledgeable in their faith...
If I have a problem with lust for men I won't go to fellow men who have the same problem... You might as well get two promiscuous teenagers of opposite sex alone in a room to consult each other in how to deal with the fact that they are promiscuous...
Your heart is in the right place... But one of the faults you are falling into is that "Homosexuality is such a grave sin". Don't listen to the modern world... A sin is a sin, everyone has a sin they will strive to concur, for some people it could be lieing which sounds trivial at most but in all actuality could be harder then for you to concur homosexuality... And with that person who struggles with lies, it could be helpful for him to consult fellow people who have concurred the sin... But to have that as his outlet could be very dangerous... ESPECIALLY if both of them are trying to concur it through each others help...
Going to "gay men" on the internet to ask for help on your issues is playing with fire... if you must go with the internet I suggest talking to someonee who have either for a fact concurred this issue (which is risky to discern) Or someone who is very wise and knowledgeable in their faith...
If I have a problem with lust for men I won't go to fellow men who have the same problem... You might as well get two promiscuous teenagers of opposite sex alone in a room to consult each other in how to deal with the fact that they are promiscuous...
Your heart is in the right place... But one of the faults you are falling into is that "Homosexuality is such a grave sin". Don't listen to the modern world... A sin is a sin, everyone has a sin they will strive to concur, for some people it could be lieing which sounds trivial at most but in all actuality could be harder then for you to concur homosexuality... And with that person who struggles with lies, it could be helpful for him to consult fellow people who have concurred the sin... But to have that as his outlet could be very dangerous... ESPECIALLY if both of them are trying to concur it through each others help...
That is lusting and that is a sin...
Also I think this verse applies too Matthew 5:28 But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust in his eye has already committed adultery with her in his heart
So I think that applies to people who lust over another sexually in their minds... No matter your sexual orientation or your gender...
Also I think this verse applies too Matthew 5:28 But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust in his eye has already committed adultery with her in his heart
So I think that applies to people who lust over another sexually in their minds... No matter your sexual orientation or your gender...
its not a quick fix... think of this as a broken arm...
It is going to take some time to heal but what you do can either speed up the healing or keep your bone broken for ever...
Every time you think lustfully you are accidentally hitting your arm against something... It can cause some irritation and impede on your bones health but you can still keep on relative track... If you think about lustful thoughts too often then you are starting to shift the bone causing a further time until its healed...
When you start to entertain the thoughts (such as a sexual thought pops into your head but instead of praying and asking for forgiveness and strength) You instead start to entertain the thought for a while, what you are doing is taking a accidental bump and then slamming your arm against the wall in anger...
And every time you actually carry out a sexual thought, no matter how fully healed the bone you will snap it like a twig...
And view God as your doctor and prayer as medicine... Anytime your arm hurts or you bumped it consult your doctor and take your medicine...
It is going to take some time to heal but what you do can either speed up the healing or keep your bone broken for ever...
Every time you think lustfully you are accidentally hitting your arm against something... It can cause some irritation and impede on your bones health but you can still keep on relative track... If you think about lustful thoughts too often then you are starting to shift the bone causing a further time until its healed...
When you start to entertain the thoughts (such as a sexual thought pops into your head but instead of praying and asking for forgiveness and strength) You instead start to entertain the thought for a while, what you are doing is taking a accidental bump and then slamming your arm against the wall in anger...
And every time you actually carry out a sexual thought, no matter how fully healed the bone you will snap it like a twig...
And view God as your doctor and prayer as medicine... Anytime your arm hurts or you bumped it consult your doctor and take your medicine...
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Well, take a moment and think about the human body and how it is made. A man is designed to enter a female. A female cannot enter a female. So, men leaving the natural use of a woman (to lay with her) burns or desires or is tempted and lusts for other men. Now, the Lord says because they do this I will give them over to a reprobate mind. Reprobate means damned. (Forever away from God)or(sent to Hell) Romans 1:28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
