Did God Tell Hosea to Marry a Prostitute?

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God was able to say this to Peter because Jesus fulfilled the OT Law of Moses with His death upon the cross. For it is why the Temple veil was torn. In other words, God cannot break His own Word. For He fulfilled the Law and started a New Covenant by his blood.
The thing is God is the word, and is the law maker.

He can change, cleanse, or sanctify anything He wants whenever He wants.

The laws He gave to us do not apply to Him, that is a false assertion for any of us to make.
Example: God told us not to have jealousness, but yet He himself said He is a jealous God.
 

SolidGround

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If a man lays with a prostitute, they become of one flesh.

Why would Paul say this is it was not true?
 
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Well he did didn't he, Just as God chose the prostitute of Israel.
Covenants are made by blood. When God chose Israel to be His nation He delivered them by them putting blood on their door posts. Israel was not initially an unfaithful nation when he chose them.
 

SolidGround

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Under the Old Covenant, it was lawful to have multiple wives.
Under the Old Covenant, it was lawful to have sex outside of marriage (as long as the woman was not married, and was compensated for the humiliation if rejected from marriage)
Under the Old Covenant, it was lawful to rape an unmarried, unbetrothed woman, as long as you extended an offer of marriage.
Under the Old Covenant, it was lawful to stone an adulterous woman and/or and adulter.
(I will give references only if you cannot find it. It will be good for you to search Scripture, as you seem to know very little of the Law of Moses)

Who are you to pass judgement over the morality of God's Law?
You are not God, and have not say in the morality of what was and wasn't lawful under the Old Covenant.
 

SolidGround

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Have you not considered what it means if you are wrong?
It would mean that you have judged the action of God, and called it immoral.

If you are not 100% sure that Homer was not a prostitute, then I would repent, and remain in silent prayer, for you have accused God of sin.
 

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I read one of your major posts within this thread. I was going to reply to it but I realized that nothing I would really present to you would matter. In your mind, God told Hosea to marry a prostitute. There is no changing that idea for you. Neither Scripture nor morality will alter your locked interpretation on this passage.
Then I have to ask - why are you here? I could equally argue that you are just as locked in your thinking, and neither Scripture nor morality is changing your mind, particularly evidenced by your seeming reluctance to engage with my posts that SPECIFICALLY deal with the texts. Whenever I've attempted to engage with your reading of the actual words of Hosea, you either don't reply, or you retreat to the "but God is good" fallback, which simply begs the question. No one here is disagreeing God only does good things, and doesn't do bad things.

For the record, I'm quite ready to have my mind changed. There is no particular doctrine or position I hold that is going to be totally thwarted by whether or not Hosea actually married a prostitute. I'm just not convinced by what 'evidence' you've mustered.

Also for the record, I've been doing more reading and actually view as fairly plausible the idea that Gomer was not a prostitute at the time she married Hosea, but became one later, making Hosea's words in the first few verses of chapter 1 a retrospective interpretation of the events prophetically (i.e., he sees the marriage retrospectively as being at God's instruction). Of course, this doesn't change the fact that Hosea quite clearly saw the events of his life as being ordained by God for prophetic purposes, and doesn't really change the underlying morality of the situation, as I don't see how it's any better for God to get Hosea to marry someone He knows WILL DEFINITELY be a prostitute during the marriage than if she was one currently (which I referred to earlier and have yet to hear a response on). H Wheeler Robinson puts forward this view quite clearly, although he also agrees that Hosea knowing she was a prostitute before hand is a possible reading as well.

In any case, even that view is still quite removed from the argument you put forth, which is that Gomer was never sexually promiscuous, but was simply an idolator. I've already engaged with those parts of your argument, so as you say, it's entirely down to your discretion whether you want to engage with me on this or not. That's your prerogative, but please don't turn around and say that I'm intractable in my position when it is in fact YOU who is failing to engage with my position. If I'm wrong, please show me.

Also, seeing you nor anyone else here did not really reply to my answer on how it is moral and good for God to tell Hosea to marry a prostitute, it is only fair that I don't reply (at my discretion), as well.
I'll give you a reply now, but I also want to note that if you were genuinely interested in convincing people, I can't understand why you wouldn't take every opportunity to answer people. Anyway, seeing as you asked so nicely :) here is why I think it is morally defensible for God to give that instruction, and provide a net good not possible without that instruction. I'll keep it to a few key points, mostly because at this point I'm not sure you will reply. But here we go...

Theological grounds: I think we can both agree God does not do things that are evil or sinful. So, if we can establish Hosea is saying exactly what most people in this thread are saying it says, it is obviously not sin. This is why it matters what Hosea means, and why it is not acceptable to simply override Hosea with whatever other texts you can find - God's thoughts are not our thoughts, and we should be very careful to see what it is that God is saying, and not what we think it is that God should be saying. So, if we conclude that the text of Hosea allows for some readings and excludes others (e.g., if the text of Hosea clearly talks about sexual promiscuity on the part of Gomer), it is essential we accept that reading, and not throw it under the bus of our own suppositions about what Scripture should be saying.

Scriptural grounds: The pivotal texts in your argument are, I assume, Leviticus 21 and 1 Corinthians 9. I'll try and deal with these briefly, and then it's up to your discretion whether to continue.

Firstly, Leviticus is obviously concerned with the requirements for the priesthood, and not with requirements for the general population. Leviticus instructs priests not to marry prostitutes, but also not to marry divorcees (which is permitted for regular people under certain circumstances, cf Deut 24), or widows (which is obviously acceptable in places like Ruth, etc) or to be near or handle corpses (which, obviously, regular people would have to do from time to time, even though they would have to purify themselves later for reacceptance into the Temple). Therefore, Leviticus 21 is not a relevant text in this regard, either for Hosea or for the church population in general.

Secondly, 1 Cor 9. It's important to note first of all that Paul is primarily concerned not with prostitution per se, but prostitution as an allegory for spiritual indecision. He begins his discussion with those who will not inherit the kingdom of God at 9-10, then discusses the idea that all things are lawful, but not beneficial, with what is beneficial seeming to be that which is 'for the Lord' (v.13). Then, he proceeds to the discussion of being raised with Christ, of being Christ's body, and therefore not being joined (it does not use the concept of marriage here) to a prostitute, precisely because the two shall be made one flesh - it mirrors quite closely the "you cannot serve two masters" discourse in the gospels.

So, then, the focus is not on prostitutes per se, but on prostitutes as a TYPE. It is not a discourse dealing with individuals marrying those who are or were prostitutes, and certainly has nothing to do with marriage as an institution. It is focused on prostitution as a spiritual reality, a particularly sordid distraction from the Lord, temptation, etc - which is precisely what the image of Hosea and Gomer is intended to portray. This is the key to Hosea, and where most of its rhetorical power comes from - the shock of Hosea allowing himself to be married to a prostitute, even though she is utterly undeserving, is precisely the shock we are to feel when we consider that OUR SIN and OUR IDOLATRY and OUR PROSTITUTION is so, so heinous, but that God still pursues us and calls us out.

The scenario of Hosea: With all this in mind, if we assume God is literally telling Hosea to marry someone who is known to be a prostitute or promiscuous woman, does he essentially command Hosea to sin?

Well, it would seem that act itself is not under the jurisdiction of Leviticus 21, as Hosea is not a priest and does not serve in the temple.

Similarly, 1 Cor 9 does not apply, partially because obviously it post dates Hosea, partially because 1 Cor 6 is concerned with the spiritual reality of prostitution in so far as it detracts from union in Christ, and this clearly does not apply if Hosea is doing as instructed by God in order to call people back to the Lord.

Hosea is not himself sinning because all sexual conduct is conducted within marriage, and Gomer is otherwise not sinning any more than she already would have been in her extra or pre-martial liaisons, and although the text is vague on the biographical details, it is possible the action resulted in a net good for Gomer, morally speaking, compared to if she hadn't been married. It certainly resulted in a net good for Israel, and for us, as this instruction called people back to worship the one God, not prostituting themselves before the Baals, and has been retained as part of the Scriptutres that are God breathed.

Therefore, there is no reason to say that it was anything but a moral and good instruction for Hosea to have joined himself to Gomer, under God's instruction.
 
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The thing is God is the word, and is the law maker.

He can change, cleanse, or sanctify anything He wants whenever He wants.

The laws He gave to us do not apply to Him, that is a false assertion for any of us to make.
Example: God told us not to have jealousness, but yet He himself said He is a jealous God.
I am not saying God's Laws were made for Him. God's Laws were made for man. For God cannot murder. He is the giver and taker of life. God cannot steal. He owns all of creation. What I am saying is that any Laws He makes for man is:

(a) An expression of His holy and righteous character.
(b) Cannot change or be altered unless there is a New Covenant by blood that sets a New standard of rules.
 

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I am not saying God's Laws were made for Him. God's Laws were made for man. For God cannot murder. He is the giver and taker of life. God cannot steal. He owns all of creation. What I am saying is that any Laws He makes for man is:

(a) An expression of His holy and righteous character.
(b) Cannot change or be altered unless there is a New Covenant by blood that sets a New standard of rules.
Then give an example of where the Law says a person cannot marry a prostitute.
 
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I am not saying God's Laws were made for Him. God's Laws were made for man. For God cannot murder. He is the giver and taker of life. God cannot steal. He owns all of creation. What I am saying is that any Laws He makes for man is:

(a) An expression of His holy and righteous character.
(b) Cannot change or be altered unless there is a New Covenant by blood that sets a New standard of rules.
(c) Cannot change if it is an etenal moral law of doing right or wrong in any given situation.
 

SolidGround

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(c) Cannot change if it is an etenal moral law of doing right or wrong in any given situation.
There is no such thing.
Morals are subjective and situational.

There is absolute truth,
But absolute morals are only whatever God commands of us at the moment.
 

SolidGround

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In the situation of Hosea, the message to Israel superseded the wisdom of choosing a faithful and blameless wife.
Just as taking an ox from a pit supersedes the Sabbath rest.
Just as the conquest of Canaan superseded the command to "not kill".
Just as David and his men eating the holy food superseded the Law.

Does an emergency vehicle follow the speed limit?
Does a police officer obey gun bans in the city?

God's purpose was saving more than just one injured man, and He can use whatever method He deems worthy to save His People.
 
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Then give an example of where the Law says a person cannot marry a prostitute.
It's not about marrying someone in general who used to be a prostitute and is no longer that way anymore (Like with Rahab). I have already stated these Laws within this thread already. Deuteronomy 23:17 states that there should be no harlots of the daughters of Israel. Meaning, they are not approved of by God if they are a practicing prostitute. In addition, 1 Corinthians 6:15-16 says we are forbidden to be joined to a harlot. It says this is a part of fornication which is a sin. Fornication is wrong no matter what time period you live in. It's a moral law. So if Hosea joined with a practicing prostitute, he would have been fornicating.
 

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It's not about marrying someone in general who used to be a prostitute and is no longer that way anymore (Like with Rahab). I have already stated these Laws within this thread already. Deuteronomy 23:17 states that there should be no harlots of the daughters of Israel. Meaning, they are not approved of by God if they are a practicing prostitute. In addition, 1 Corinthians 6:15-16 says we are forbidden to be joined to a harlot. It says this is a part of fornication which is a sin. Fornication is wrong no matter what time period you live in. It's a moral law. So if Hosea joined with a practicing prostitute, he would have been fornicating.
Define fornication, and give OT Scripture.

Did the Lord sin when He hardened the heart of Pharoah against the Israelites?
Did He not cause Pharoah to continue in sin by opposing the Chosen People?
Far from it! The Lord brought about goodness!

You see what the Lord does as sin when you claim that God is bound by our morals.

You are wrong on both angles.
First, Hosea marrying a prostitute was not immoral or against the Law.
Second, even if it was against the Law (which it wasn't) then God is still above the Law,
as He made the Law, and does whatever is for the completion of His Will,
even if it is outside of what is in accordance to His Law for man.

If God tells you to kill,
and you disobey,
you are faithless in God.

God does not sin in the command. We only sin in disobedience to commands.
God cannot sin, because only God commands Himself,
and He obviously does whatever He wills Himself to do.

You have issue with the will of God,
not the state of Gomer in her marriage bed.
 

SolidGround

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I hand you over to the trials of Job.
There is no more I can do for you, but pray.

You have accused God of sin, yet say you are defending Him.
He needs no defense, only our submission to His Word and Will.
 

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Let's just cut to chase. Do you think it is possible today that God would want you to marry an unbelieving prostitute?
If you'd like to cut to the chase, then you can ask me, "Does God call marrying a woman, who has prostituted herself in her past, a sin?" And I'm not seeing that he has. Either it's a sin or it's not. And we see nothing from God on the topic. In fact we even see laws in the Torah that imply it would be permissible for most Israelites to marry non-virgins, with the only exceptions being the priests.

You can ask me, "Do you think it's possible that God today would want you to kill your neighbor when he said to love your neighbor as yourself?"

Exodus 32:27 Then he said to them, "This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: 'Each man strap a sword to his side. Go back and forth through the camp from one end to the other, each killing his brother and friend and neighbor.'"

Context is key. Generally I don't believe it's the best idea to marry women who have prostituted themselves in the past. But it's not explicitly condemned by God, and in Hosea's case it served a greater purpose by revealing God's love to unfaithful and undeserving Israel.

Anyway, I understand your inability to come to terms with God telling a man to marry a woman who has prostituted herself. But in the end I think this stance is based more on your own particular brand of morality. And I would tend to agree with your judgment in most cases. Just not in this case.
 
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When I was widowed in 07, I chose to remarry a younger Christian lady ,a virgin with no children; Looking back, I would be aa bit more careful to check her disposition. Hoffco
 
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There is no such thing.
Morals are subjective and situational.

There is absolute truth,
But absolute morals are only whatever God commands of us at the moment.
No, no. Pretty sure murder, lying, fornication, drunkenness, hate, witchcraft, cheating, etc is always wrong no matter the situation or circumstance.
 
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I hand you over to the trials of Job.
There is no more I can do for you, but pray.

You have accused God of sin, yet say you are defending Him.
He needs no defense, only our submission to His Word and Will.
I did no such thing. I believe most folks here are twisting one verse out of context. They cannot:

(a) Explain the morality of Hosea 1:2.
(b) Provide another verse to back up their false interpretation (Whereas I have provided verses).

In other words, Calvinists believe that God directly creates evil based off pointing to a certain passage within the Bible. Yet, I don't believe that this is so. God did not directlly create evil and I believe it is wrong to say that God directly creates evil. God is good. He is not evil. That is what I am supporting.
 
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Also, how exactly can your version of God find fault in me believing it is wrong He could tell Godly people to marry a practicing prostitute? Is not such an action wrong? If it is not wrong, then please explain it to me. I would love to know.
 
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If you'd like to cut to the chase, then you can ask me, "Does God call marrying a woman, who has prostituted herself in her past, a sin?" And I'm not seeing that he has. Either it's a sin or it's not. And we see nothing from God on the topic. In fact we even see laws in the Torah that imply it would be permissible for most Israelites to marry non-virgins, with the only exceptions being the priests.

You can ask me, "Do you think it's possible that God today would want you to kill your neighbor when he said to love your neighbor as yourself?"

Exodus 32:27 Then he said to them, "This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: 'Each man strap a sword to his side. Go back and forth through the camp from one end to the other, each killing his brother and friend and neighbor.'"

Context is key. Generally I don't believe it's the best idea to marry women who have prostituted themselves in the past. But it's not explicitly condemned by God, and in Hosea's case it served a greater purpose by revealing God's love to unfaithful and undeserving Israel.

Anyway, I understand your inability to come to terms with God telling a man to marry a woman who has prostituted herself. But in the end I think this stance is based more on your own particular brand of morality. And I would tend to agree with your judgment in most cases. Just not in this case.
Already just addressed this point in Post #332 above.