The treadmill of this issue, the arguments and counter-arguments don't seem to me to be bearing any fruit. American Christians need to prepare themselves to the reality that the collective good morality that we enjoyed, or at least the perception thereof, is gone. I remember thinking in 08, "there is no possible way decent Americans are going to vote for this obviously wicked man" and then again in 12 "ok, many voted for this guy, for good or ill, merely because he was black, but now that they see how utterly wicked he is, there really is no way they would vote for him again". The question now becomes are our hearts ready for the coming real persecution.
What will happen when YOUR Church refuses to marry homosexuals? Will it cave, or be willing to face bankruptcy or prison?
Homosexual marriage is just the begining. How about Polygamy, Incestuous, Pedophillia marriages? If they argument is that 2 loving people should be allowed to do what they want regarding marriage, who is to say the other unions should be outlawed?
It's at this time we must remember Paul's various imprisonments and how he handled them. God Bless you in that endeavor.