When the Supreme Court Approved Gay Marriage, What ALL Happened to the USA?

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Mitspa

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Just two things Elysian -

The wild, sweeping statement that "the state is their god" is just silly.
Apart from their sexual orientation, homosexuals are people - with the same range of beliefs and standards as anyone else.

And the part which I realize is hard for you to get your head around ....
there are billions of people, including some homosexuals, around this planet for whom your 'bible' means nothing.
In terms of the law and justice and fairness and equality and tolerance, those people are entitled to all the same choices that Christians demand. Including state-sanctioned marriage.
These people have all the protection and rights of all citizens, they don't deserve a special right to justify their sexual perversions. We are not call as Christians or citizens of this nation to promote or encourage sexual deviants.

There should not be a IM SPECIAL because im gay card. In fact we should as a society be speaking against this destructive lifestyle, just as we would drug abuse or any other social problem.
 
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STOP IN THE NAME OF LOVE, BEFORE YOU BREAK MY HEART!

Homosexuality is wrong, just like sexual relations outside of marriage between heterosexual couples is also wrong, a sin.
Jesus Christ said if you look at someone lustfully, you have already sinned with them in your heart. We're all sinners. Jesus died to save gays and lesbians from their sins just like he died to save us from out sins. We are ordered to love God and our neighbors and ourselves. We must also love our enemies.

Love is the most important thing for Christians. Young people are deceived and seduced by the homosexual media. If someone has those thoughts, feelings and urges, they can get help before doing anything wrong. There is a difference between having an artistic temperament and certain hobbies, talents, style, looks, gestures, way of talking, etc., and really being homosexual. Some people are teased and taunted, bullies, and then the social gay recruiting media crowd convince teenagers that they are gay, that they were born that way there brain is wired that way, there's nothing wrong with it, they should embrace it and be proud. What a horribly monstrous lie from Satan!


People are tempted with all kinds of lusts, sin, immorality, evil, stupid and shameful things. They are afraid to tell someone else and try to get help to stop that sin because their parents or pastor will be shocked and angry, and a secular counselor or psychiatrist is no use because they are not believers. Going to the Lord, praying, reading, confessing before the Lord, keeping a journal, and it is good to find someone trustworthy and wise in the word to help, give advise.

Jesus told us not to judge or condemn, to look out for the log in our eye instead of the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye. I have been guilty of being hypocritical and judging other people in the past. God disciplines me. If you meet someone you suspect is gay, be nice, kind and loving. A lot of gay people suffer greatly, but in these days many people of all difference walks of life suffer. Sometimes suffering is a result of sin, other times there are people like Job.
I remind you that the word JUDGE in the Greek means to PASS SENTENCE UPON, and has NOTHING TO DO WITH DISCERNING RIGHT FROM WRONG!

That is a nice sounding theory from the easy believism false gospel, but how do you square that with these Verses:

2 Timothy 3:1-7 (NIV)
[SUP]1 [/SUP] But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days.
[SUP]2 [/SUP] People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy,
[SUP]3 [/SUP] without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good,
[SUP]4 [/SUP] treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God--
[SUP]5 [/SUP] having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them.
[SUP]6 [/SUP] They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over weak-willed women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires,
[SUP]7 [/SUP] always learning but never able to acknowledge the truth.

2 John 1:10-11 (HCSB)
[SUP]10 [/SUP] If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not receive him into your home, and don’t say, “Welcome,” to him;
[SUP]11 [/SUP] for the one who says, “Welcome,” to him shares in his evil works.

Ephesians 5:11-12 (NIV)
[SUP]11 [/SUP] Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.
[SUP]12 [/SUP] For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret.

Romans 1:18-32 (NIV)
[SUP]18 [/SUP] The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness,
[SUP]19 [/SUP] since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them.
[SUP]20 [/SUP] For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature--have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.
[SUP]21 [/SUP] For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.
[SUP]22 [/SUP] Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools
[SUP]23 [/SUP] and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.
[SUP]24 [/SUP] Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.
[SUP]25 [/SUP] They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator--who is forever praised. Amen.
[SUP]26 [/SUP] Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones.
[SUP]27 [/SUP] In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.
[SUP]28 [/SUP] Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done.
[SUP]29 [/SUP] They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips,
[SUP]30 [/SUP] slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents;
[SUP]31 [/SUP] they are senseless, faithless, heartless, ruthless.
[SUP]32 [/SUP] Although they know God's righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.

James 4:4 (HCSB)
[SUP]4 [/SUP] Adulteresses! Don’t you know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God? So whoever wants to be the world’s friend becomes God’s enemy.

Hebrews 5:14 (NASB)
[SUP]14 [/SUP] But solid food is for the mature, who because of practice have their senses trained to discern good and evil.
 
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JesusIsAll

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I remind you that the word JUDGE in the Greek means to PASS SENTENCE UPON, and has NOTHING TO DO WITH DISCERNING RIGHT FROM WRONG!
"Judge not" is just the old canard of the evil, translated don't shine any light on them, keep quiet, that it means we're not to have good judgement. Christ was speaking solely of unrighteous judgement, and, to the contrary, we're commanded to judge righteously,

John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.

But wolves love the old "judge not" card.
 

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The unthinkables of yesterday are the facts of today; the unthinkables of today will be the facts of tomorrow. - Francis Schaffer.
 
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The unthinkables of yesterday are the facts of today; the unthinkables of today will be the facts of tomorrow. - Francis Schaffer.
Then it's as good a time as any to get a bet down. It's unthinkable the world is going to hell in a hand basket.
 
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[HR][/HR]For me I think a great deal happened.

GOD may have just washed his hands of protecting the USA.

We CEASED to be One Nation Under GOD.

I lost my pride in what the USA has become.
Those who analyze the Supreme Court decision with some measure of objectivity and rationality know what happened.

The same thing happened as when the Supreme Court ruled to revoke the tax-exemption of Bob Jones University because it barred interracial dating.
 
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Mitspa

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Those who analyze the Supreme Court decision with some measure of objectivity and rationality know what happened.

The same thing happened as when the Supreme Court ruled to revoke the tax-exemption of Bob Jones University because it barred interracial dating.
Oh yea? Being gay and being black is the same to you? Please explain your logic.
 
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They are afraid to tell someone else and try to get help to stop that sin because their parents or pastor will be shocked and angry, and a secular counselor or psychiatrist is no use because they are not believers. Going to the Lord, praying, reading, confessing before the Lord, keeping a journal, and it is good to find someone trustworthy and wise in the word to help, give advise.
This is important IMO. A pastor that has the gift..........already knows that He and everybody he teaches are fallen creatures and WILL sin. So He teaches the word of God and gives his sheep the tools to handle problems BEFORE they come up. Or tells His sheep to shut their mouth and learn the word of God and the solution to their problem will eventually be taught.........so we don't need counseling or confessing to other people.........we are fed, so we can solve our own problems through the doctrine in our own souls.

I truly don't understand why the gay thing has everybody in an uproar.........the hand writing has been on the wall for years now.

For the most part, people are in an uproar, because they don't have the problem solving devices to deal with it.

Faith rest........rest in the faith of God.

personal destiny............we all have a personal destiny, this world and the present darkness is not going to stop that destiny.

Occupation with Christ........the things of this world matter very little if we are occupied with Christ.

Impersonal love for mankind.........we see all as one who Christ has died for.

And many more, but these alone should make us back up a little and see the bigger picture.

I am a Patriot to the core and this whole mess has made me look a little closer to God, I LOVE my country, but it is going to end. I don't like it, but its going to happen. But a new earth and a new heavens is going to be USA on steriods in the end.
 

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Illegal discrimination is the same to me.
So we aren't to discriminate against pedophiles, thieves liars etc?
Would you hire a thief to run your jewelry shop?
 

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So we aren't to discriminate against pedophiles, thieves liars etc?
Would you hire a thief to run your jewelry shop?
I would have thought thieves and paedohpiles are in a different category to gays from the perspective of legal jurisprudence for the reason that homosexuality itself is a 'victimless crime', whereas the others necessarily require a victim.

And, of course, the other issue is that in both the case of hiring a thief or a pedohpile, in most cases (depending on your jurisdiction), you are not actually prevented from doing so. Certainly, there is no case where a persons record for theft would inherently prevent you from employing them, except maybe legal professions, law enforcement, etc.

In Australia, it's not unlawful to discriminate against people on the basis of a criminal record, but doing so can mean your case is referred to the Human Rights Comission and be obliged to undergo a conciliation process. Usually, the only time this would happen is if the criminal action is irrelevant to the occupation (i.e preventing someone from working in a supermarket because of drug offences) - in other cases, you are generally ok to discriminate on the basis of a criminal record that relates to the job they are applying for, within reason, but you are not required to.

There are specific protections prevent child sex offenders from working with children in most states, and various protections relating to law enforcement occupations, political office, etc but otherwise, there is nothing actively preventing you from employing a criminal.

Personally, I would have no issue employing a convicted thief in my jewellery store (if I had one), depending on when they were convicted, the nature of the crime, their other qualifications, and my own appraisal of their character. Certainly, it doesn't incentivise ex convicts becoming functioning members of society if they can't gain lawful employment.

All of which is to say - there are reasons why criminals can be discriminated against (namely recidivism and creating opportunity for further criminal acts against others), and even then they can only be discriminated against in certain circumstances - they can't be prevented from gaining employment in toto. I'm not sure the same argument can be applied to homosexuals in a legal sense, no matter what we think in a religious sense.

I'd actually be interested in finding out more about outcomes in other countries that have legalised same sex marriage (particularly the likes of Belgium and the Netherlands, who have had it for the better part of ten years now), and what the run off effects have been. Not sure how to go about finding that out, though.
 

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Sorry, it was the American College of Pediatricians who came out and said same sex marriage is bad for children:

American College of Pediatricians on Same-Sex Marriage Ruling: ‘A Tragic Day for America’s Children’ - Breitbart

"The College itself has maintained that a significant body of research has demonstrated that “same-sex marriage deliberately deprives the child of a mother or a father, and is therefore harmful.”

The American College Of Pediatrics (whatever crud this is);

"Despite being certified by almost all major social science scholarly associations—indeed, in part because of this—the alleged scientific consensus that having two parents of the same sex is innocuous for child well-being is almost wholly without basis. All but a handful of the studies cited in support draw on small, non-random samples which cannot be extrapolated to the same-sex population at large. This limitation is repeatedly acknowledged in scientific meetings and journals, but ignored when asserted as settled findings in public or judicial advocacy.The College itself has maintained that a significant body of research has demonstrated that “same-sex marriage deliberately deprives the child of a mother or a father, and is therefore harmful.”

1) I took a quick look at these "studies"
--First this association started as Bias. Only to back their own beliefs. This is not a "neutral study" and only campares "same sex marriages who have kids" to "those who have a mom and dad"
--Of course two dads or two moms are going to raise the kids. I really feel there should be a strong female or male influence in this.

--Did they do these studies compared to:
-Single moms or dads?
-"non traditional, blended families? (divorced and remarried)"
- Parents in poverty?
-Kids who had to raise themselves
-or a Mom and dad who are too strict...or kicked their kid out of the home for "being gay or lesbian?"
- The orphan who never got even one parent and grew up in the foster system
-The kid who lost a parent at a young age.
-The parent (or parents) have some sort of substance abuse issue.
-The parents are physically, mentally or emotionally abusive.


--One they do studies on all of these "scenarios" in addition to the "perfect traditional family" Then the findings may be of interest to me. Until then; this is a bias and void case study.



President, Michelle Cretella, states “The court must understand the gravity of their decision in its impact upon children around the world. Every child needs a mother and a father. Same-sex marriage directly disenfranchises children of this right.”

NO Every kid needs a loving parent or parents.

If you build a "case study" ONLY expecting to find the answers you want, then that is what you will get. The article does not even specifically specify how loving parents (LGBTQA couple) are "detrimental to kids"

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There is unequivocal evidence of the fundamental value of the married, father-mother family unit to the optimal development of the child"
-While I DO agree this is really great for a child- we live in the real world. Not everyone can live in this "optimal life"

Null and Void.
 
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VCO

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Illegal discrimination is the same to me.
Obediance to Word of GOD is not discrimination:

Romans 12:2 (NIV)
[SUP]2 [/SUP] Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Ephesians 5:11 (NIV)
[SUP]11 [/SUP] Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.

1 Peter 3:16 (NIV)
[SUP]16 [/SUP] keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.

Titus 2:8 (HCSB)
[SUP]8 [/SUP] Your message is to be sound beyond reproach, so that the opponent will be ashamed, having nothing bad to say about us.

2 Thessalonians 3:13-14 (NRSV)
[SUP]13 [/SUP] Brothers and sisters, do not be weary in doing what is right.
[SUP]14 [/SUP] Take note of those who do not obey what we say in this letter; have nothing to do with them, so that they may be ashamed.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 (NASB)
[SUP]9 [/SUP] Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
[SUP]10 [/SUP] nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
[SUP]11 [/SUP] Such were some of you {meaning homosexuality is a repentable addiction to sin}; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.

Mark 2:17 (NKJV)
[SUP]17 [/SUP] When Jesus heard it, He said to them, "Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance."
 

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discrimination = discernment
No government should have the right to pretend they know my thoughts, or insinuate my biases.
 
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[HR][/HR]For me I think a great deal happened.

GOD may have just washed his hands of protecting the USA.

We CEASED to be One Nation Under GOD.

I lost my pride in what the USA has become.

It will be hard to have the same deep sense of Patriotism that I once had.

The USA has become the leader of the world in the Great Falling Away.

The USA has become a nation that snubs her nose at GOD.

SOON pro-gay marriage people will be filing Law Suites against Churches that refuse to Marry them or refuse to permit them Membership.

My Flag now flies ONLY FOR THE VETERANS AND OUR SERVICE MEN, and no longer for the USA.

For the fist time in my life, I would like to live in another Country.


Isaiah 5:20-21 (ASV)
[SUP]20 [/SUP] Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!
[SUP]21 [/SUP] Woe unto them that are wise in their own eyes, and prudent in their own sight!



2 Thessalonians 2:1-3 (NKJV)
[SUP]1 [/SUP] Now, brethren, concerning the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ and our gathering together to Him, we ask you,
[SUP]2 [/SUP] not to be soon shaken in mind or troubled, either by spirit or by word or by letter, as if from us, as though the day of Christ had come.
[SUP]3 [/SUP] Let no one deceive you by any means; for that Day will not come unless the falling away comes first, and the man of sin is revealed, the son of perdition,
According to the word/teaching of GOD, through Apostle Paul, we are not to take our 'spiritual' family matters to the court of the Gentiles/sinners. But to settle them ourselves when one day we are going to judge angels.

And also the world's sin is, 'They did not believe in ME (JESUS the Gospel of Salvation).'

GOD bless them in the name of LORD JESUS CHRIST.
 
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Yes they are absolutely entitled to state sanctioned ''marriage'',and if God's authority is absent from a marriage licence (which it is) and replaced by the state(which it is) then that is Idolatry (THE STATE BECOMES THEIR GOD) Christians need to understand that the marriages they are entering into today are a sham in the eyes of God,who gives a stuff if homosexuals win the right to these business contracts.What homosexuals can never have is a God sanctioned marriage because God said a marriage is between a man and a woman and the state can do diddly about that.For goodness sake there are websites that will explain this very well and one that comes to mind is CREATION LIBERTY.
 
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Oh yea? Being gay and being black is the same to you? Please explain your logic.
It's not that being gay and being Black is the same thing, it's what the Supreme Court did that is the same thing. They went went above the state's head and "created law" (interpreted law) that went against certain state's marriage requirements/definitions.

Are you familiar with Loving v. Virginia? The Supreme Court did the same exact thing. No one had a problem with them "creating" law then.
 
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USA a Christian founded nation by their 'forefathers of faith', who fled from 'persecution' of the Roman Catholic rule in England, forgot their 'spiritual marriage' with CHRIST of the New Covenant/Testament and have become one with the world, even through their 'wild influences', while being 'unfaithful' in their marriage. They have gone ahead from CHRIST's word/teaching and have not GOD. Sadly they have grown to men's deceptive way of 'love' for the community, ignoring the 'fact' that they have 'enslaved' the community to their 'system of commerce and science' and finally erase GOD of their forefathers Salvation' out of their mind.

They are not born from above, in order in time to come, to utterly feel shameful about their unfaithfulness to CHRIST of GOD. They are 'outsiders' and Apostle Paul instructs the church, "Why should we judge outsiders, when GOD is their judge. Should we not judge our own members", according to the New Covenant/Testament.

Apostle Peter said in his 'epistle', that;

"You deserve to suffer if you are a murderer, busybody and an adulterer."

This is as 'a reminder' and 'a stir up of memory' to Christians about all that have been written and given for our 'practices' and 'abiding' in HIS word/teaching and 'bear much fruit', perhaps 'good fruit' in faithfully honoring CHRIST.

Thank you and may the Good GOD bless you all in the name of LORD JESUS CHRIST.