What Would You Do With $20 Million? (With a Small Catch.)

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seoulsearch

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Hey everyone,

With all the talk in the forum about finances (and selling one's own limbs in order to obtain them), I was wondering what you all would do if money was no object. If you had $20 million, what would you do with it? Now, we've had LOTS of threads about this type of subject in the past, and there was some discussion about this in the "Selling Your Foot for $20 Million" thread, so I'd like to add one small twist.

Have you ever thought about why having lots of money might actually be HARMFUL to you?

I was thinking about the fact that most big lottery winners go broke within a few years; child actors who hit it big usually wind up in rehab; and famous athletes often run out of money that seemed unending.

Several years ago, I knew of someone who inherited about a quarter of a million dollars. It was gone in 2 years, because the person had never learned to be responsible or disciplined with money in the first place, so obtaining more money just meant spending all the more money until there was nothing left.

If you had $20 million, tell us:

* 3 things you would do with it,
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* 3 reasons why having that much money would NOT be good for you.

I'll go first. If I had $20 million, I would make sure to:

1. Hopefully invest the principal amount wisely so I would only take the interest and never touch the original $20 million (and could pass it along to good causes when I die.)

2. Pay off several of my friends' debts, buy one of my best friends a new car, and fulfill my dreams of helping out the churches I charities I support in much larger ways than I am able to do now.

3. HAVE FUN. I would constantly travel around the world, take people on vacations, and probably try to theme park myself to death. If I had lots of disposable income, it would be spent on experiences!!

However, I also know that if I had a lot of money, it would probably be a bad idea because:

1. I would pay to have everything done for me (oil changes, laundry, cooking) and probably never do anything for myself ever again. Having that much money would make me lazy to the nth degree.

2. I would never be able to make a new friend ever again, because I wouldn't know if they liked me for me... or because of the money. I would become depressed and feel isolated because I'd never know if the people I met could ever like me for me, unless I was able to keep what I had and did completely anonymous.

3. Having lots of money would send me into full-blown food addiction. I would pay to have the best, most tasty, and probably most fattening foods in the world made for me everyday, and my health would go down the garbage chute in a few months because of it. And no amount of money can truly buy back original health if you had it to begin with.

How about the rest of you?

We've all dreamed of what it would be like to have incredible amounts of money.

But what would be the real price we'd be paying?
 
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cmarieh

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Well, let's see my grandma founded a Christian non profit organization that gave food and clothing to families that needed it and every year our family would get together and put Christmas boxes together and that was great family time so I think I would like to do something like that because I admired her faith and generosity to do that. I remember seeing her pray with people that walked in and being able to witness them accept Jesus Christ was awesome and I can't even put into words how I felt as she did that.

I have also thought about getting my dad's pickup fixed because that's where my dad asked my mom on a date on their way home from the hospital and were then engaged two weeks later so I know that truck means the world to them.

I can only think of one downside is that by knowing one would have that amount in the checking account would be very tempting to spend on myself
 
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MissCris

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I would...

1. Design and build a house (you know, pay other people to do it for me but bug them every hour to find out how it's going).

2. Start a couple of groups/organizations locally that are badly needed and would help out single parents, homeless, and those who are just struggling to stay afloat. Without having to stir up financial backers in this stagnant, cynical area...so much would be possible.

3. Put a lot of it towards helping people get off drugs and turn their lives around.

But, having that kind of money would...

1. Leave me constantly dissatisfied with what I already have. As things are now, I don't often really Want anything. It's scary to imagine how fast that could change if money wasn't an issue.

2. I would probably spoil my kids. It would be hard to draw the line between giving them more than I had growing up and outright spoiling them.

3. It would be all too easy to forget the lessons I've spent so long learning through hardships in my life. Compassion, gratitude, patience, self-control...I mean, I would like to say for sure that having money wouldn't change me, but the lack thereof changed me, so it makes sense that it could work the other way as well.
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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1. Invest a portion of it.
2. Give a large amount of it away.
3. Leave everything behind.

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1. Might make me complacent; I'd still want to learn some trades but might not be willing to go work.
2. I may indulge in things simply because I can, i.e. "waste" money.
3. I'd probably eat way too much sushi.
 

BruceWayne

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I would

1. Buy my mom a house wherever she wanted.
2. Buy myself a new house.
3. Get a butler. It's only logical.

It would be a bad idea because:

1. I'd probably spend way too much time in my home movie theater lol
2. I already feel like I have most everything I need, so I'd probably spend a lot of it on friends/family.
3. I wouldn't donate any of it to charity. *gasp* "You monster!" Just being honest. Don't hurt me :p I'd rather keep it and help those I know when they're in need, whether that be with college, debt, etc. That's just me.
 
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JeniBean

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Okay so assuming the taxes were taken out and the 10% to GOD...

Then I would

1.) make sure my kids were covered for college and I am covered for retirement - So Investing accordingly
2.) Take all the vacations to all the places I wish to go.....
3.) I can't do a third as I am out of money now!!!!

Would it be bad????

1.) Probably not, because all those relatives and friends coming out of the woodwork for money would be shooed away.
2.) I am a gracious giver, so my church would benefit as would the community
3.) I may trust people even less wondering what they really want from me.
 
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biblicalsandy

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I would like to tell you, but I will not. I wish to tithe in private, so that when I give, they give thanks to God, and not me.
 

Lynx

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I picture in my mind a swarm of people lined up on the sidewalk just waiting for their chance to walk in front of your house so they can slip and fall and sue.
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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Just a few thoughts, and I've really enjoyed everyone's answers!!! Keep them coming! (I hope I'm answering everyone here... sorry if I missed anyone!)

Cmarieh--Loved the story about your parents' pickup truck. Now that's true love. :)

Cristen--I understand what you're saying about possibly overdoing it when giving to people, especially kids and young relatives. Part of the inspiration for this post is that we've almost all dreamed of having money, but the older I get, the more I think about it realistically... and I realize that for many of us, it probably wouldn't be a good thing. I know that for myself, it would probably only exacerbate certain negative aspects of my character that I'm already trying to eradicate.

Siberian--I totally agree about complacency. I struggle with complacency enough on my days off as it is, let alone if I could afford to do or have anything I wanted.

Bruce--I love your honesty. In the past several years, I've gotten into the habit of never giving to people who ask me for something unless it's a close friend or family member. Instead, I like to listen for needs and make a surprise or anonymous donation. The charities I choose to support are those I've worked with personally.

Jeni--Loved the humor in your answer! :) I'm totally with you when it comes to travel and going places! And yes, the original post was assuming taxes and tithes were already made. ;)

Sandy--Wonderful and humble answer. :) The thing for me is that I only talk about my most private matters with my closest friends, so if I happened to stumble upon $20 million, they'd be the first to know. They'd also be able to figure out what happened when they found out that their mortgages had been "anonymously" paid off. :D

Jeni and Lynx--Having people running from every direction with their hands out would be my biggest fear--to never again be seen for who you were, but what you have.

Being adopted with no records, I have always wondered if I won a giant lottery (which will never happen because I don't play it; I'm just saying...), how many people would stand in line claiming to be related to me? It would be interesting to see what the DNA tests would bring out..

And I've always said that if I had that kind of money, the first two things I'd purchase would be: 1. the best legal team money could buy; and 2. a private island with no other outside access.
 
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Okay...I'm breaking a few of the rules with my response...but what the hay!

My best friend and I have actually had the "what would we do discussion" regarding a big lotto win. Here's what I'd do.

1. Pay off my parents' home and provide for them in their retirement.
2. Provide homes for my siblings and their families (modest homes, btw).
3. Sell the home I have and buy a microhome that is portable.
4. Invest a bunch and live off of the interest.
5. Set up a college scholarship fund.
6. Go back to college.
7. Travel like mad.
8. Organize my finances so I'm living off of like 10% and giving away 90%.

It wouldn't be dangerous for me to get $20 million because obviously I'd be the exception to the rule...hahahahaha.

You know how a little knowledge is a dangerous thing? I'd be back in college studying everything I ever wanted to learn, so obviously my danger-level would increase.

I have a feeling that my expectations might not match the reality, so that I'd experience a lot of disappointment. Also, they say, "mo' money, mo' problems," I know that dealing with huge sums takes a lot of skill that I likely don't possess (could I acquire it is the big question).

Also, I think having all that money could be isolating. I mean, I'm not one for a lot of conspicuous consumption, so I wouldn't be Gatsby-ing it up or anything. However, having all that bank would make it easy for me to be like, "See ya, I'm going to ____ now!" I could easily become the person who jumps to a new location to avoid drama.
 
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Miri

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Faint ! ! !
 

zeroturbulence

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I haven't read the entire OP, but I just wanted to share a quick story/sidenote..

A client where I used to work owned a contractor business and he told me how one day a couple of his guys hit the lottery and decided to quit their jobs. They had won over $200,000. Well a couple months later they were asking for their jobs back because they said that they had spent all the money. They said they went to las vegas and drank and partyed it all away and didn't realize how much they had spent until it was gone. He did give them their jobs back.
 

Blain

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Well in all honesty I would be blessing everyone with large sums of cash like giving a 4,000 dollar tip or simply just handing a big wad of cash to some random person or however I can to help others but in all honesty I know how money can change people and I don't trust my own heart so I don't want to be rich I only want to be able to live comfortably but it would be even better if I learned how to live joyfully even when I have nothing like Paul did. That to me is worth far more than 20 million dollars
 
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I would:

1. Divide the tithe and give portions to my church, missionaries I support and other ministries.

2. TRAVEL!

3. Invest the rest and live off the interest.

Having $20,000,000 would not be good for me because:

1. I would lose focus on God in the midst of my perceived independence.

2. Material things would lose all value and all meaning to me, and therefore would be taken for granted.

3. I might become disconnected from the real needs of others. (Poverty, starvation, homelessness - real issues that I might not come across or think about much because I'm living in such a different lifestyle.)
 

cinder

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Let's see if I found myself with a 20 million dollar windfall I would:

Set up some sort of annuity so that I would always have money (although simple math says that 20 mil is 200 k per year for the next 100 years without any interest considered and I think that's plenty for me to live off of). Money management, financial planning, etc. I can't imagine not having some sort of budget for my spending so overspending shouldn't be an issue.

Pay off family debts to help them out, and buy everyone whatever new cars they wanted just because I could.

find the perfect spot and design and build my personal dream house (well pay people to do it for me, I don't have those skills)

Visit family and friends all over the world because I have plenty of money to do so and don't have to ask for time off work.

And that would be bad for me because I'd have little purpose or usefulness in life, people who were just after my money would annoy me and I'd isolate myself majorly, and it would be hard to relate to people if I had no common denominator like a job, financial stress, or family to raise (heck it already is and I don't even have $20 million). While I like the idea of working even if I have that much money (maybe as a full time volunteer), I hate job hunting enough that I probably just wouldn't want to be bothered with getting started.

Oh and I'd definitely eat really good food, maybe take some cooking classes so I'd know how to cook it.
 

zeroturbulence

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I have another boring story...

A lady I used to work with's son was married to a woman who's parents won the big lotto jackpot. I don't want to say how much but it was more than $20 milion. Before they won the lottery, the parents were each working two jobs and living modestly in a small house. The mother had played the same six numbers for 13 years. After they won, they bought a multi-million dollar home in an exclusive community and gave their old house to my cowoker's son and his wife (their daughter), but with one stipulation.. they were not allowed to change a thing. They had to keep the same furniture, decor, etc. So of course they did not want to remain there, but the parents would not help them buy a house. Apparently they never really accepted the son into their family because they wanted their daughter to marry another filipino (yes, I know that is prejudice). Anyway, the mother and one of her other daughters would take a limo to go shopping sometimes and they bought a second house in las vegas which was basically a mansion (I saw the pictures). How do I know all this is true? Because the mother also happened to be in my aunt's prayer group. Small world huh.
 
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Sirk

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1. Invest a portion of it.
2. Give a large amount of it away.
3. Leave everything behind.

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1. Might make me complacent; I'd still want to learn some trades but might not be willing to go work.
2. I may indulge in things simply because I can, i.e. "waste" money.
3. I'd probably eat way too much sushi.
Yup....Me too.
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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We can overdose on sushi (rolls?) and get some back stage passes to a Rush show together. Best $20 million ever spent. Lol.
 
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MollyConnor

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1) I would buy my mom, aunts, uncle, and brother a house and car each.
2) I would go to a music and dance school.
3) I would throw a huge CC party here in Texas and invite everyone that wants to come...I would even pay the airfair for them! ;)
 

seoulsearch

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One of the things that made me think of this thread is that pretty much every person wishes they had more money, and many will say that they'd give most of it away and do a lot of good with it.

A long time ago, there was someone I wanted to help, and it's a long story, but I felt like God was telling me no. The person I wanted to help was a wonderful, loving person who was trying to help someone else, and that's why I wanted to help them (I have a soft spot for people who help other people.) But the person they were supporting was a drug addict, and they were willfully choosing that life.

I felt like God was saying, "No, Kim. If you help X, X is going to use what you give them to help Y, and Y is going to use it for (their addiction.)"

I think that if I had unlimited funds, I would be even more apt to ignore God and go my own way, especially if it was to "help" people. Something God has dealt with me about a lot in the past several years is to stop enabling people, and I didn't always listen (then wondered why I got burned.)

Something else I think about is observing people who might have recreational habits (drinking and drugs on the weekend) and it could be very possible that they'd do a lot of good with a lot of money, but they'd also probably develop a full-blown, life-sucking, 24/7 addiction (which is what I think happens to a lot of athletes and celebrities.) I'm not saying this in judgement at all, because as I said, I think tons of money would bring out my own worst traits as well.

My point is, we all wonder sometimes why God doesn't give us more--not that there aren't legitimate needs, but rather, I'm talking about massive excess--and maybe, when we really think about it, these are some of the reasons why.

If a person obtains a lot of money, people will often say they've changed. I personally believe that money doesn't really change people--it just makes people less likely to hold back, and so it brings out what was there all along.