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Taradacktell

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I so desire to fellowship. my life is not my own anymore you know what I mean?
my spirit is desiring Truth light and mature teaching. I receive great blessings from my home church but then I go home and
feel like I am wasting time that could be better spent advancing our fathers kingdom and it hurts. I am blessed to know Yeshua " Jesus " is in control so I was delighted to find this site is here I am not looking for a date i am looking to be able to mature in Christ with my brothers and sisters in a eternal fellowship. I hope I am in the right place. I do not yet know how to be a part of a chat group . I am used to Facebook but this format seems daunting Pleas pray I will b able to learn how to use this site well to Gods Glory thanx ...Any advise?
 
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your words are filled with wisdom and understanding:) The format can be hard to get used to at first glance but it becomes easy soon. One thing I have learned is that we can further God's kingdom through cc far more than we realize. I am one who cannot go anywhere at least not anything past walking distance and in my time of cc I have seen how God's hands is used so greatly by us here, connections made hearts reached and changed all across the world from many countries
 
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Taradacktell

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thank you for your quick reply I have a tear in my eyes as I so want true fellowship praising who he is and talking about His desires for us to reach out into a lost and hurting world. I want to do this yet I feel I am being held back. what better way to seek him then among those that desire to praise Him and hopefully mature and engage each other to motivation. I have to go in half an hour or so but Lord willing I will keep trying to use this opportunity to do His will all things are possible according to His purposes...
 
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Taradacktell said:
thank you for your quick reply I have a tear in my eyes as I so want true fellowship praising who he is and talking about His desires for us to reach out into a lost and hurting world. I want to do this yet I feel I am being held back. what better way to seek him then among those that desire to praise Him and hopefully mature and engage each other to motivation. I have to go in half an hour or so but Lord willing I will keep trying to use this opportunity to do His will all things are possible according to His purposes...
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My friend something you will learn about me is that I have a very deep and rich passion and love for him and I constantly am speaking praises about him and I openly share all the secrets and hidden things of his heart and his kingdom on here. I always speak my heart and he always pours his heart into mine revealing things about him about his ways about his kingdom to me and then I in turn speak on it here. God has used me to touch and to help so many many people on here just by me speaking my heart.

Everyday God is searching the world searching the hearts of man seeking a heart that is truly after his own a heart that truly loves and adores him with every fiber of their being seeking a heart of fire for him and for his children
 
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Bate

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Delighted to have you here at CC; you're welcome! :)
Hope you like it here.
 
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NeedGodsHelp

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I just found this site and hoping I can make friends. I could also use some advice if anyone out there doesn't care to listen!
 
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Jesus is in control. Savior and Lord. Great Healer and Physician. Bear in mind that!
 
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NeedGodsHelp

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My husband is supposed to be a Christian! He let his 18 year old son who is gay, move back in with us after 5 years of not wanting anything to do with him. Today he let his "friend" come to our home to spend the weekend with him. I did not want this to happen but he let it anyway! They went in his bedroom and shut the door. I say something to my husband about it but he dont care what I have to say! His son has always caused problems between us and now he's doing it again! I am on the verge of leaving because of him! Since he's been back here he has caused arguments between me and his dad. I can't take this anymore!
 
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Taradacktell

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oh troubled sister...before I regained my relationship with Jesus I was that troubled child My step Mom was very hurt by the trauma I caused in there world...It is hard for most families with troubled teens but even more so if Mom and Dad are not in agreement...I have heard that when we marry someone with children already we are best to let the Birth parent do the parenting but I have never been on your veiw of these troubled days...I would sit as a family and make a rules and points chart if rules are broken these are the consequences One of the rules being Go to church as a family. Pray together spend time one on one with each member so that communication and love can be nurtured... My Son is severely disabled and I am concerned no Man would love me so much that he would help me with Him but I know to trust and seek the Lord be patient and all things will work to the good of those who love the lord. Your marriage is a bond in Christ Jesus will not abandon You keep seeking and venting is ok to wherever we are in this life we will have trials prayers for your family you are loved and He will not abandon you He promised...
 
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Taradacktell

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halo hope you are having the best night you can I am just heading of line but Lord willing back tomorrow maby send me a post and I can catch up with you later<><
 
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NeedGodsHelp

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Thank you for your response!! It doesn't do any good for us to pray together. We have tried in the past! We dont read the bible together and lately we haven't been going to church. Right now I cant walk or drive because of a knee injury. Earlier I told my husband something about his son and he went off on me and called me a few bad names! His son knows he is driving a wedge between us and I know he's loving it! As for my husband, I have prayed for over 6 years for him and nothing has changed. He verbally and mentally abuses me and makes me feel like i am worthless and belittles me if front of everyone! He calls me stupid and among other names! So therefore, I dont consider him a christian! A person can't be and act the way he does. I dont know if he asks for forgiveness or not but if he does, i feel its not fair to God to keep asking for forgiveness for the same thing over and over again. I just want out if this loveless marriage but I have nowhere to go!
I am so stressed, drained and depressed that I just dont know what to do. I know God is in control and I have to learn to trust Him and Him only!,
 
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NeedGodsHelp said:
Thank you for your response!! It doesn't do any good for us to pray together. We have tried in the past! We dont read the bible together and lately we haven't been going to church. Right now I cant walk or drive because of a knee injury. Earlier I told my husband something about his son and he went off on me and called me a few bad names! His son knows he is driving a wedge between us and I know he's loving it! As for my husband, I have prayed for over 6 years for him and nothing has changed. He verbally and mentally abuses me and makes me feel like i am worthless and belittles me if front of everyone! He calls me stupid and among other names! So therefore, I dont consider him a christian! A person can't be and act the way he does. I dont know if he asks for forgiveness or not but if he does, i feel its not fair to God to keep asking for forgiveness for the same thing over and over again. I just want out if this loveless marriage but I have nowhere to go!
I am so stressed, drained and depressed that I just dont know what to do. I know God is in control and I have to learn to trust Him and Him only!,
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Hello Sister NeedGodsHelp,


I have not abandoned you. I am on my way to church this morning and will come back and answer you. Be of good cheer, God is not slack concerning His promises as some men count slackness but is longsuffering to us-ward, but that all should come to repentance. 2 Peter 3:9. God says also that He makes a (positive) way of escape in every situation. Hold on sis..God is still in the deliverance business. He knows your limitations...God always shines..but more so in our most unseemly impossible situations. No one can tell you to leave or stay but God. He knows the end from the beginning. Will be praying concerning your situation.
 
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Taradacktell

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I wonder if someone from your old church could come and visit with You so you could have a time of fellowship one on one .? sometimes it can be hard to ask but often people want or feel blessed even to help. And then you can have supporters right there and here. Our church here in BC has someone who is scheduled to pick people up for services and get them home safely.. My heart pangs for your situation I of course want to fix your problems But I know I can only be here and pray with you It is our loving King our Holy Father who are ultimately in control. I feel really blessed by this site I hope you keep checking in hear sometimes just knowing someone hears you can be helpful. You are loved Just as you are By your Holy Shepard I hope you keep seeking Him...Do you sing? often listening to the praise station can really help my trials just to listen even I go to youtube and watch the praise music I find it really helps. it looks like rememberthesabbathday is going to connect with you soon keep reaching out you are sooo precious to your family in Christ and God himself
 
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NeedGodsHelp

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Thank you so much! And I couldn't sing my way out of a paper bag! Lol I do love to listen to music though!
 
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NeedGodsHelp said:
My husband is supposed to be a Christian! He let his 18 year old son who is gay, move back in with us after 5 years of not wanting anything to do with him. Today he let his "friend" come to our home to spend the weekend with him. I did not want this to happen but he let it anyway! They went in his bedroom and shut the door. I say something to my husband about it but he dont care what I have to say! His son has always caused problems between us and now he's doing it again! I am on the verge of leaving because of him! Since he's been back here he has caused arguments between me and his dad. I can't take this anymore!
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Please create your own thread in the Family forum to talk about your post. It's rude to hijack someone else's thread, and this forum is ONLY for introducing yourself, not talking about personal family issues.

To the OP, these are the forums, NOT the chatrooms.. To get to the chat rooms, click the big blue "chat now" button on the top right of the login page..
 
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Taradacktell

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Thank you so much us newbies probably keep you pretty busy ..I will check out the chat buttons...
 
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Taradacktell

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I think this is a lovely place to find fellowship ill try frending you and we can go to the chat rooms somehow ahah hope to hear from you soon <><
 
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Taradacktell said:
I think this is a lovely place to find fellowship ill try frending you and we can go to the chat rooms somehow ahah hope to hear from you soon <><
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I'm a forums dweller. I never go into the chat rooms unless I'm in search of a moderator.. :)
 
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