where is all the young adult single guys?

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lost_suzie

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Ive noticed that its more ladies here who is single and well it makes me wonder... I just want to talk to a guy my age who would understand the troubles of being in this generation....
 
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Hellooo

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What about all the fantastic things about being in this generation?
 

Lynx

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Which generation is yours? I have no idea how old you are...
 

DuchessAimee

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Each generation have the EXACT SAME problems. Nothing is new.
 

Lynx

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Actually I was kinda thinking the same thing... but then I considered she's in another country and might have some problems I don't.
 
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lost_suzie

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Im from south africa... And 24 bur its late here. Good night and God bless!
 

spunkycat08

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Ive noticed that its more ladies here who is single and well it makes me wonder... I just want to talk to a guy my age who would understand the troubles of being in this generation....
What troubles?

If you want help, it would be best to explain exactly what troubles you are dealing with. We cannot help you until you let us know the troubles you are dealing with.

Why only a guy to talk to you about the troubles you are dealing with?

Why not talk to a girl about the troubles you are dealing with?
 

peacenik

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As for me, I'm looking for a wealthy wife.

Heck, it says in the New Testament that as you give to others you get back a 100 fold increase (Matt 19:29; Mark 10:30). I've been plenty good to people over the years so it is time for that promise to be fulfilled.

Anybody know where I can find that wealthy heiress?
 

JosephsDreams

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The American society has developed to where if a woman wants to stay single until later in life, or maybe never marry, she can. The economical restraints and societal pressure to marry younger have been removed. The question I have is what does that say about the psyche of a younger woman? The fact that so many more as opposed to years ago are waiting until their mid to late 30's to marry.
Is it a comment about marriage, or a comment about men, or both, or money and/or career and power, or exploring sexual desires, self fufilment, or something else?
 

peacenik

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The American society has developed to where if a woman wants to stay single until later in life, or maybe never marry, she can. The economical restraints and societal pressure to marry younger have been removed. The question I have is what does that say about the psyche of a younger woman? The fact that so many more as opposed to years ago are waiting until their mid to late 30's to marry.
Is it a comment about marriage, or a comment about men, or both, or money and/or career and power, or exploring sexual desires, self fufilment, or something else?



Good question.

As I've mentioned before, I never married and women didn't care for me very much. The one type of woman that I could attract (for a short period of time) was intellectuals. They usually found me to be rather witty, well spoken, and saw me as an intellectual equal. However, once they discovered that they made much more money than I did, they would immediately lose interest. That's because women are very materialistic in this society and their measure of a man is how much money he makes. Men with little money just aren't of any value to them (in general). At least that was my experience.

In all honesty, in this materialistic society that we live in you cannot blame them for being that way. Money talks. That's just the way it is.
 

JosephsDreams

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Actually I do place responsibility on anyone who makes a decision based on materialism.
And I have witnessed plenty of woman going for guys without money, Christian or non Christian.
Yes, society is more money driven then ever, but there are still boat loads of men and woman who have their priorities straight.
It sounds like you had the bad circumstances of meeting the wrong woman. Christian woman, by the statistics, should be less money driven then non Christian woman.
 

peacenik

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"a man can have nothing unless God gives it to him"

"a wife is a gift from God"
 

peacenik

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"girl with a hat is so vogue"



ladies do look more glamorous with hats on, especially with a cloche:



 
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I am a 26 year old guy in the sweet land of the usa, but it stinks, since I haven't been able to attend college yet, and I really want to go to college, and get my degree, but I want to do more life experience things like traveling, going on mission trips, helping people. It's just a thing of nature, I've had issues in the past where rejection has caused me to kind of loose interested at the moment of anybody. I am on christianmingle.com, I kinda of don't like it because it's mostly based off of pictures, and the profile, you can't talk to someone on it... Which I rather get to talk to the lady, women of God, however you say it. but it's just simple things I like in lady (girl) woman, I want them to have a dorky sorta of personalitily, be fun to hang out with be serious when necessary. someone that can help me with my grammar (lol) Who can sign, I like to sign a lot I am not deaf but I would like someone to learn with. But I don't know it seems like I think God might have some person in mind for each of us, it maybe someone at church, college, but I don't know sometimes people end up alone, and sometimes it's might be our own fault or God's plan. I don't know. .
 

peacenik

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Well, you can at least be glad you didn't go to college as that experience has been a huge waste for a lot of us, especially guys.