Ladies- no man can complete you.

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Ladies - no man completes you!! *


This is for the women.. Please don't think that a man completes you. He doesn't and he can't. Instead make yourself complete first. Then he may come your way if that God's will. Therefore you and him will become One flesh - complete with the help Jesus Christ. You are married to Christ first figuratively typing. Ladies don't look because he isn't lost. Put God first he will give you the desires of your heart - what u need not what you want.. NO One is perfect & no one ever will be...
It's appalling and Shameful that Some Men are not being accountable and responsible for the children they've made.. Please don't get me wrong am not a father but If i was one and fell in this category then it ridicule and reproof me too. There are too many children without fathers. Where the shoes fit wear them. Man up fellas. It's like bad apples are spoiling the whole bunch. You are giving ALL Men like the bad treatment from women like we are "sperm donors." Yes there are situations of circumstances ie a father who dies and Ieaves the child(ren) with the woman. Why does the Law automatically give the children to the unmarried mother if the father breaks up with her the mother?? The Courts should be reformed and to mandate the fathers to pay for the children. No excuses if you lay down N make babies then I think you should have money to pay for the child support regardless of whether you are currently with the mother or not. But I guess Government won't intervene with family affairs unless the child is endangered or lack there of suitable care and welfare. This is just my opinion but am not alone in the matter.!!
A real man who is a father will take care of his seed (s) no matter what or who.
 

NotmebutHim

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Um.....wut???

It's times like this when I wish "AgeofKnowledge" was still here......
 
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This individual posts this type of stuff too much IMO.. Belongs on Facebook or Twitter
Um.....wut???

It's times like this when I wish "AgeofKnowledge" was still here......
 

EmilyNats

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You already posted this in the family forum...
 
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You already posted this in the family forum...
He's obviously very passionate about telling women what they need to do. I wonder where he gets his authority, not being a woman.
 

NotmebutHim

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Also, Jesus is not any woman's husband. He is the bridegroom for the entire Church.
 
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I also dislike when folks minimize the importance of a mate.. Adam was alone and God brought out eve into existence for some level of completeness... Balance it
 
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I also dislike when folks minimize the importance of a mate.. Adam was alone and God brought out eve into existence for some level of completeness... Balance it
I agree with you, it annoys me at times, considering the vast majority of the population is called to be married and not single. Very few people are called to be single.
 
Dec 22, 2016
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Also, Jesus is not any woman's husband. He is the bridegroom for the entire Church.
I typed figuratively typing.. If we are the church.. Our bodies are the temples of the living God therefore are not we each married to Christ? Metaphorically speaking??
 

JosephsDreams

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Ladies - no man completes you!! *


This is for the women.. Please don't think that a man completes you. He doesn't and he can't. Instead make yourself complete first. Then he may come your way if that God's will. Therefore you and him will become One flesh - complete with the help Jesus Christ. You are married to Christ first figuratively typing. Ladies don't look because he isn't lost. Put God first he will give you the desires of your heart - what u need not what you want.. NO One is perfect & no one ever will be...
It's appalling and Shameful that Some Men are not being accountable and responsible for the children they've made.. Please don't get me wrong am not a father but If i was one and fell in this category then it ridicule and reproof me too. There are too many children without fathers. Where the shoes fit wear them. Man up fellas. It's like bad apples are spoiling the whole bunch. You are giving ALL Men like the bad treatment from women like we are "sperm donors." Yes there are situations of circumstances ie a father who dies and Ieaves the child(ren) with the woman. Why does the Law automatically give the children to the unmarried mother if the father breaks up with her the mother?? The Courts should be reformed and to mandate the fathers to pay for the children. No excuses if you lay down N make babies then I think you should have money to pay for the child support regardless of whether you are currently with the mother or not. But I guess Government won't intervene with family affairs unless the child is endangered or lack there of suitable care and welfare. This is just my opinion but am not alone in the matter.!!
A real man who is a father will take care of his seed (s) no matter what or who.
Who even cares? They have their issues, we got ours. It'll all work out. Write a book...you'll make a few bucks instead of wasting your wit here.
I hear Amazon offers some fantastic book writing opportunities.
 
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I agree with you, it annoys me at times, considering the vast majority of the population is called to be married and not single. Very few people are called to be single.
I concur.. We as Christians need to uphold the principles of the church so much so it is permeates through unto the homes as well..
 
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I also dislike when folks minimize the importance of a mate.. Adam was alone and God brought out eve into existence for some level of completeness... Balance it
I typed that we must be completely inclined with God first then we may be appointed a mate.. Adam was perfect but by his freewill he decided to eat the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good & evil therefore all have sinned as a result of it.
 
Dec 22, 2016
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Who even cares? They have their issues, we got ours. It'll all work out. Write a book...you'll make a few bucks instead of wasting your wit here.
I hear Amazon offers some fantastic book writing opportunities.

It is attitudes that yours which makes unbelievers not want to be Christians. Selah

Matthew 25:31-46New International Version (NIV)

The Sheep and the Goats
31 “When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

34 “Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

41 “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’

44 “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’

45 “He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’

46 “Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.”
 
Dec 22, 2016
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Who even cares? They have their issues, we got ours. It'll all work out. Write a book...you'll make a few bucks instead of wasting your wit here.
I hear Amazon offers some fantastic book writing opportunities.
Matthew 7:21-23New American Standard Bible (NASB)

21 “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter. 22 Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many [a]miracles?’ 23 And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness.’
 

Tommy379

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Ladies - no man completes you!! *


This is for the women.. Please don't think that a man completes you. He doesn't and he can't. Instead make yourself complete first. Then he may come your way if that God's will. Therefore you and him will become One flesh - complete with the help Jesus Christ. You are married to Christ first figuratively typing. Ladies don't look because he isn't lost. Put God first he will give you the desires of your heart - what u need not what you want.. NO One is perfect & no one ever will be...
It's appalling and Shameful that Some Men are not being accountable and responsible for the children they've made.. Please don't get me wrong am not a father but If i was one and fell in this category then it ridicule and reproof me too. There are too many children without fathers. Where the shoes fit wear them. Man up fellas. It's like bad apples are spoiling the whole bunch. You are giving ALL Men like the bad treatment from women like we are "sperm donors." Yes there are situations of circumstances ie a father who dies and Ieaves the child(ren) with the woman. Why does the Law automatically give the children to the unmarried mother if the father breaks up with her the mother?? The Courts should be reformed and to mandate the fathers to pay for the children. No excuses if you lay down N make babies then I think you should have money to pay for the child support regardless of whether you are currently with the mother or not. But I guess Government won't intervene with family affairs unless the child is endangered or lack there of suitable care and welfare. This is just my opinion but am not alone in the matter.!!
A real man who is a father will take care of his seed (s) no matter what or who.
Oh be quiet. The government does drag money out of men or they go to jail. Child support has become a back door alimony payment. Men whose wives decide to take the kids and go chase butterflies are paying a lot more money in child support than the kids and wife cost when they were all together.
Just shut up.
Maybe where you're from they don't expect a whole lot.
 
Dec 22, 2016
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He's obviously very passionate about telling women what they need to do. I wonder where he gets his authority, not being a woman.
You missed my point.. Shoot me for standing up for women who have to raise children by themselves...
 
Dec 22, 2016
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Oh be quiet. The government does drag money out of men or they go to jail. Child support has become a back door alimony payment. Men whose wives decide to take the kids and go chase butterflies are paying a lot more money in child support than the kids and wife cost when they were all together.
Just shut up.
Maybe where you're from they don't expect a whole lot.
If a man does not work he should not eat
Read the Bible then come back to me..
2 Thessalonians 3:10
 
Dec 22, 2016
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Also, Jesus is not any woman's husband. He is the bridegroom for the entire Church.

This betrothal period is presupposed in many of Jesus’ teachings, such as his parable about the virgins who hadn’t prepared themselves for the returning bridegroom. Jesus was also alluding to this betrothal period when he told his disciple’s that he was “going away to prepare a place for them” so that they could always be where he was (Jn. 14). Once he’d made his declaration of love and pledge of life by dying on the cross, he would have to go away and prepare a place for he and his bride to live together. This betrothal period is also presupposed in the New Testament’s teaching about the need for the bride to “make herself ready” (Rev. 19).

The Betrothal Gift. It was customary for a first century Jewish groom to express the sincerity of his pledge to his newly betrothed bride by giving her a precious gift. It was the bride’s assurance while her groom was away that he would indeed return for her.

Jesus gives us the precious betrothal gift of the Holy Spirit (John 16). Jesus knows we cannot prepare ourselves for his return on our own, so he places his own Spirit inside of us to empower us and teach us how to live in his ways. He also doesn’t want us to feel abandoned or distressed in his absence, so he gives us “the Comforter” (John 16:7) who is the assurance of our future inheritance in Christ (Eph 1:14).

The Consummation of the Marriage. Finally, when the home was prepared and the bride had made herself ready, the groom would return for his bride. The whole community would engage in a magnificent wedding celebration and the couple would consummate their marriage and become “one flesh.” Given the marriage framework of the New Testament’s understanding of our relationship with God, we’re not surprised to discover that this is precisely how heaven is depicted in the book of Revelation.

After witnessing a symbolic portrayal of Gods’ victory over the Powers, John heard a multitude proclaiming:

Hallelujah! For our Lord God Almighty reigns.

Let us rejoice and be glad

and give him glory!

For the wedding of the Lamb has come,

and his bride has made herself ready (Revelation 19:6-7).

- See more at: What Does It Mean to Be Married to Christ? - Greg Boyd - ReKnew
 

JosephsDreams

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Matthew 7:21-23New American Standard Bible (NASB)

21 “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter. 22 Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many [a]miracles?’ 23 And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness.’
Lighten up. Its called humor. You know how may times I have been the butt of a joke and just went along with it. Some of them were even funny, and maybe true...
Your seemingly humorless. Maybe your not. I could be wrong. But it seems that way to to me. So what, not many interactions with them irl, your making up for it here?
I love God too.