Say No to Porn

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Dan_473

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when people say Porn, they usually mean Guy Porn, like pictures


if we include Lady Porn, like sex/romance novels, the numbers go up even higher
 

Dan_473

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from what I've heard, true addictions are only successfully handled when the underlying psychological needs are dealt with.



imagine only feeling alive when you're doing a particular activity?

it gets extremely hard to stay away from
 

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This has no been discussed enough---- stuff like that affecting women...
 
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This has no been discussed enough---- stuff like that affecting women...
Now, you are touching on the very heart of what I have been aiming at.
 
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I believe my parents did most of the right things. They didn't let me watch anything inappropriate in regards to sexual relations in movies, while at the same time they did talk about sexuality and what is wrong and right. They didn't really hide things from me in as much as they discussed such issues with me. There is a great deal of a difference between discussing an issue in an informative matter and watching a sex scene on television. I was informed as well as sheltered by them. Yet it was I who stepped out of that shelter, despite the precautions they took.
You're catching on. These are things to remember when you, yourself, become a parent. It is a wise teen who thinks deeply and well on these things, long before they are faced with them as parents. We can only pass things on. Will we chose to emulate what might not have been the best in our own upbringing, or are we going to see that our parenting is an exercise in advancement?
 
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This has no been discussed enough---- stuff like that affecting women...
And even expressly male-oriented porn negatively affects women in several ways....... Even women the porn adherents don't even know.
 
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Porn is nothing new.
It seems to be everywhere.
As for children, you can not totally shield them from it, so it is best that they be taught how to identify it and the dangers of it.
Our children should feel free to discuss anything with us knowing we will be honest and open with them. Even porn.
I will do my part to limit their access fully understanding that that is not full proof.
 

EmilyNats

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You're catching on. These are things to remember when you, yourself, become a parent. It is a wise teen who thinks deeply and well on these things, long before they are faced with them as parents. We can only pass things on. Will we chose to emulate what might not have been the best in our own upbringing, or are we going to see that our parenting is an exercise in advancement?
What is comes down to is that different children need to be handled differently. The things that didn't work in me have worked for others. Really, the only thing a parent can do is pray hard, be attentive to the habits and individuality of each of their children, and do the best they can with what they know.
 

lastofall

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"But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." (Matthew 5:28)

"I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?" (Job 31:1)

Usually there is nothing more to say if we will just hear His Word.
 

prove-all

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Do you realize your entire post was simply about attempting to regulate and legislate morality?
what about Europe that made , regulate and legislate sunday law.?
one of the 10 commandments they have changed, by there power alone.


what about the vatican agenda for the world free time on sundays.
this applys if you are a christion or not. forced observince


Germany’s Quiet Sundays’
For Germans, whether religious or otherwise, Sunday is a sacred day of rest.
That’s what the Wall Street Journal said in its Life & Style section on March 23.

“Germany holds to much the same Monday-to-Friday workweek rhythm as the rest
of the world, but on Sundays it skips a beat,” wrote Frankfurt-based assistant news
editor Sarah Sloat in her article
From the WSJ Expat Blog: Germany’s Quiet Sundays - WSJ

She continues:

This uber-efficient country, which puts more restrictions on Sunday activities
than nearly all of its neighbors, nearly shuts down. …

Opening Sundays to shopping is fiercely resisted .… Efforts by retailers and businesses
to loosen the rules have also been unsuccessful. But a blanket prohibition was lifted in 2006,
when states were allowed to designate a certain number of Sundays as open for shopping.
In Hesse, where Frankfurt is located, four are permitted each year.

So normal labor and commerce are tightly restricted on Sundays. But what if residents
want to spend their Sunday doing yard work around their homes? Sloat answers this:

Laws regulating shopping hours and noise levels mean stores shut, lawnmowers fall silent,
and woe unto him who flips the switch on an electric tool. … Sonntagsruhe is one term
they use. It simply means “Sunday rest.”

Anyone considering undertaking outdoor chores or home improvements will be in
for a surprise. Regulations limit noise levels, forbidding the use of electric tools
like drills and leaf blowers, as well as hammering, sawing and loud music.

At recycling containers, it’s even prohibited to throw away glass jars and bottles
on Sunday because of the noise. Heavy trucks are banned from German roads on Sunday
… to relieve streets and cities of noise and traffic, and to give drivers a break.

The wsj article makes only a passing and vague mention of the influence of “churches”
on Germany’s reverence for Sundays. But there is one specific church which lies at
the very heart of why Germany “skips a beat” on Sundays: Roman Catholicism.

the Brussels-based European Sunday Alliance, a network of dozens of religious
and nonreligious organizations from 27 European nations whose purpose,
according to its website, is to “raise awareness of the unique value of synchronized
free time for our European societies.”

At the helm of these crusaders for Sunday rest is the Roman Catholic Church.

On March 3, the European Sunday Alliance met in Brussels with politicians from
all around the European Union for a “Call for Action” about banning Sunday work.
European Sunday Alliance - ESA Resolution Signatories

The press release for the meeting says:

Stop Sunday Work Now! … Europe is not only an economic but also a social and
cultural community. … The “economization” of Sundays and public holidays
deepens social divisions at the expense of workers and their families.

The common weekly day of rest is a clear and visible sign for the reconciliation
of personal, family and professional life. … We need a Europe-wide Sunday protection.
[T]he European Sunday Alliance draws attention to Sunday as the common weekly day
of rest which enables EU citizens to live their citizenship together.

Why does this Sunday alliance exist and work so arduously to influence Europe’s
labor laws? Why is the Catholic Church so adamant about instituting a Continent-wide
day of rest? And why must it be Sunday instead of another day of the week?

In large part, it is because it was the Catholic Church—in intentional violation
of biblical teachings—that appointed Sunday as a day of rest and worship.

The Vatican is proud of the success it had in this colossal feat, and Sunday rest
has become a mark of the Catholic Church’s authority.
 
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prove-all

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This truth is best explained by the Vatican’s own:

¦“Sunday is a Catholic institution and its claim to observance can be defended only on Catholic principles. … From beginning to end of Scripture there is not a single passage that warrants the transfer of weekly public worship from the last day of the week to the first” (Catholic Press, August 1900).

¦“Of course the Catholic Church claims that the change was her act. … And the act is a mark of her ecclesiastical authority in religious things” (letter from the office of Cardinal Gibbons, Nov. 11, 1895).

¦“The church is above the Bible; and this transference of Sabbath observance from Saturday to Sunday is proof positive of that fact. Deny the authority of the church and you have no adequate or reasonable explanation or justification for the substitution of Sunday for Saturday in the Third—Protestant Fourth—Commandment of God” (The Catholic Record, Sept. 1, 1923).

¦“Perhaps the boldest thing, the most revolutionary change the church ever did, happened in the first century. The holy day, the Sabbath, was changed from Saturday to Sunday. ‘The day of the Lord’ (dies Dominica) [or “Sunday”] was chosen, not from any direction noted in the Scriptures, but from the church’s sense of its own power. … People who think that the Scriptures should be the sole authority, should logically … keep Saturday holy” (Saint Catherine Catholic Church Sentinel, May 21, 1995).

The March meeting, and the European Sunday Alliance’s ongoing efforts are bringing the Vatican-influenced EU closer to declaring Sunday as the official Continent-wide day of rest. Any steps in that direction should alarm religious liberty watchers, those concerned about a failure to separate church and state, and anyone familiar with Catholicism’s violent history.
 

prove-all

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Do you realize your entire post was simply about attempting to regulate and legislate morality?
Gods laws of love- the ten commandents, by his very finger.
Does God in the bible regulate and legislate morality?
what is lawlessness, or sin defined in the bible?
 
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Only one reply for all that verbiage...... "So?" (This somehow justifies you thinking morality can be legislated?)
 
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Morality can be legislated.

Our parents generally teach us certain basic things, and generally people adhere to them.


What is the key to beating an addiction Willie?

I suspect quite a lot of males in the room struggle with, or have struggled with porn.

What makes your knowledge superior to theirs if you don't mind me asking?
 

tourist

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well I listen to Gods word in the bible, not a man.
the bible says to teach and disipline our kids.

some say we are what we eat, how bout we are what we watch.

If I had a kid in school age now, they would be home schooled.
The school system is so corrupt nowadays.
To say a father or mother can not protect kids from somethings is false.

To say that "anyone" can not protect kids or people from porn is wrong .
If our government had upheld Gods morals, and "protected" our kids from this.
[even kid porn]this online porn thing would be faint or non issue.

but U.S. Courts are Defenders of Porn, U.S. is the porn capital of the world.
they could have blocked this, but they feed it to the masses because they want it.

but this is just one of many ways the morals of this country are falling.
there was a time when you could not even show a navel on t.v.,

what shows parents should let or prevent them to see at home is there job.

one of the next evils popping its ugly head
People Are Trying to Normalize Pedophilia now
https://www.thetrumpet.com/article/13207.2.0.0/get-ready-people-are-trying-to-normalize-pedophilia

Hollywood’s Pedophilia Epidemic Exposed in ‘An Open Secret’
Hollywood’s Pedophilia Epidemic Exposed in ‘An Open Secret’ - The Daily Beast#

Many researchers taking a different view of pedophilia - latimes

so just controling what children at home watch on tv or movies is "protecting them"
you might call it teaching, I'll call it protecting our kids or governing what they do.
The US has freedom of speech so it would currently be unconstitutional to prohibit pornography. I sure do not want the government telling me what I can or cannot do more than they already do. I don't think that the US is the porn capital of the world either. That distinction would probably go to Europe.
 
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Morality can be legislated.

Our parents generally teach us certain basic things, and generally people adhere to them.


What is the key to beating an addiction Willie?

I suspect quite a lot of males in the room struggle with, or have struggled with porn.

What makes your knowledge superior to theirs if you don't mind me asking?
Actually, it isn't. And I have never said it is. What I taught in Court Mandated classes for more than two decades wasn't bad, but it only had about an 80% success rate.

What I have discovered in the last five years, or so, however, is astounding. And it actually works because it makes Biblical sense.
 
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I believe you; can you tell us what it is?
 
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Morality can be legislated.

Our parents generally teach us certain basic things, and generally people adhere to them.


What is the key to beating an addiction Willie?

I suspect quite a lot of males in the room struggle with, or have struggled with porn.

What makes your knowledge superior to theirs if you don't mind me asking?
BTW, morality cannot be legislated. Behavior can be regulated, but not what is in our hearts.
 
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I believe you; can you tell us what it is?
Only if you request it by PM. This is nothing to do with me, and just the introduction to it is too lengthy for this forum to accept, due to posting limits. But, it will go through on a PM. What you will receive, however, is only about one/one hundredth of the book.