Calvinists,Im Asking...

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Ariel82

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For what specifically?
Lol i don't know. This is Kayla's thread ,let's sea what she wants to talk about?

Personally,
I am still trying to understand how you view free will and predestination.

Do you believe regeneration/New birth happens before profession of faith?
 
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For the record - I don't believe everything any preacher or church believes about every subject.

But I can see slander when I see it and it is horrible, un-Christ-like behavior no matter how much we try to disguise it as "defending the truth" or "rightly dividing the word of truth".

We should be ashamed of ourselves in the body of Christ for such foul behavior.

It's time to grow up in the Lord and stop this malice and the slandering of others in the body of Christ.

1 Peter 2:1-2 (NASB)
[SUP]1 [/SUP] Therefore, putting aside all malice and all deceit and hypocrisy and envy and all slander,

[SUP]2 [/SUP] like newborn babies, long for the pure milk of the word, so that by it you may grow in respect to salvation,


The above post reflects cultic thinking. You are not allowed to think on your own, or test the Spirits if they come from God. That is all thrown out by misused proof texts. All sects misuse texts to control others in order to deceive.
 
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By the Church's standards, I am a 5-point Calvinist.

I have mixed feelings on the word "Calvinist." (Which, btw was my point on trying to come up with another word for Arminians. Calvinist is often used in a mocking tone, as is Arminians. I don't like to be called a Calvinist because of that, so I don't want to call non-Calvinists Arminians for the same reason. BUT Pelagan is a full-on insult to all Christians, so I really hate that word. And so I tried Wesleyans, because no one gets insulted by being called a Wesleyan. That was exactly what I've been trying to say, but I get this distinct feeling that Wesleyan ticks you off, because I don't know enough about Wesley. :p So, now I'm really stuck on what to call non-reformeds that isn't insulting, because I don't like to be insulted. lol) BUT so few non-TULIPers (better word? lol) understand the words "Reformed Theology," that it's hard to call myself Reformed because so few know what the heck I'm talking about.

So, I consider myself Reformed, (and, in all honestly, I don't really consider 3-pointers or 4-pointers Reformed. They're a mixed bag), but I don't mind Calvinist just as long as there is no mocking meant by the word.


And, just so people understand, darn tooting! The mockers insult me. I'm not stupid enough not to notice. I'm begging like crazy to God to give me the strength not to go snarky! Or to defend myself. I also use the ignore feature on this site quite often, because I'm not good at letting that alone. You can seriously judge when I remember to do that and when I don't. You can tell when I don't because I'm still practicing the art of ignore. Not mastered yet. Practicing!

And, one other thing about me -- I will tell you the truth of what I see no matter who you are. When you do wrong, I'll call you on it. When you do right, I'll "like," agree, high-five, or let you know that too. I give what I want to get. This is who I am. No defense needed.
Yeah I know no defense need. However I always try and make peace before placing people on ignore. Doesn't always work, but I can at least tell Dad I tried.

We are all human. It's hard not to react to insults.
 
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The slandering of others in the body of Christ and have malice towards them are no different then those that live the homosexual lifestyle. They are in the same list together.

Paul tells us what to do with these types of behaviors that are amongst us.

Romans 16:17 (KJV)
[SUP]17 [/SUP] Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.

1 Corinthians 5:11 (NASB)
[SUP]11 [/SUP] But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with any so-called brother if he is an immoral person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a swindler—not even to eat with such a one.

3034. [FONT=&quot]λοίδορος[/FONT] [FONT=&quot]loidoros[/FONT] noun

An abusive person, reviler, slanderer.

Complete Biblical Library Greek-English Dictionary, The - The Complete Biblical Library Greek-English Dictionary – Lambda-Omicron.

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hi grace777x70 i have read your posts all over the forum and i must say you are my favorite person here, i agree with you also on your previous post #603 not just this one..... gave a like God bless!!
 
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I like Calvin but I don't think he'd be anything without hobbs. You need both I guess. So I guess I'm undecided unless you include hobbs which then I am a Calvinist.
I'm more of a Hobbes kinda gal. lol
 
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Ariel82

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Revelation 3:14 And to the angel of the church in Laodicea write: ‘The words of the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of God's creation.

3:20 is in the context of the church of Laodicea, so Jesus is knocking on the door of that church, not on peoples hearts like so many people add to the Scripture.
Does that mean none of Revelation 2 or 3 can be applied to people's lives?

I have never heard anyone preach on that verse and it NOT mean that Jesus knocks on our heart,
 

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Do you believe regeneration/New birth happens before profession of faith?
Not sure about your vocabulary, but if you are talking about "you must be born above" or "He reborn us by His word", its before.

Because "natural man does not understand the things of the Spirit".
 
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kaylagrl

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But not everyone has the light of Jesus.



They are already dead (Eph 2.1-3). What they NEED is life, but it is only given to some.



He breathes life into those chosen by God (John 6.37-42).


And yet He said "I am the light of the World."
 
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kaylagrl

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Perseverance of the Saints. To me, that's the deep soil the seedlings grow in. God is the soil. He holds on to us, and we hold onto him.

But if/when we walk away, he'll horse-collar us with the ferocity he big-fish-bellied Jonah. He will get us back, until we aren't kicking and screaming. We must persevere, but he gives us that ability too.

Dumb question but from your POV if you are the elect you will persevere,you cannot fall away from the faith correct?
 
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I'm super late to the thread, just like I was super late to declare myself Reformed!

I fit best with Baptists. I think Lynn asked which Baptists were Reformed? Well, any Baptist that wants to be. Baptists are not a homologous group. True, there are independent fundamentalists, but they are pretty top down driven, which defies the basic Baptist principle of "authority of the believer." In other words, find it in the Bible, and believe it. Forget about the words of men. In the Southern Baptist Convention, where I went to seminary, (the Canadian version, of course!) we had a separate convention under the general umbrella for Reformed Baptists. They had conferences, brought in speakers, and generally fellowshipped with one another. I found out one noon hour lunch in a Vietnamese restaurant, when the "Reformed" Baptists made the mistake of talking about Reformed theology and business in front of me. But, not to worry, I never told a soul!

Except of course, we never do forget about the words of men! In seminary, we studied all the different versions of soteriology. That was the first time I was exposed to TULIP. I decided I could agree with 2 1/2 points. But not 2 1/2! But I really liked the emphasis on the "sovereignty of God." That is what got me reading and listening more. That really was what I had always believed, despite being in Pentecostal/Arminian churches for many years.

To me, the Sovereignty of God, or as I like to call it "God is in control," is one of the basics of my faith and God. Because, why would anyone want to serve a God who is not sovereign. Another reason I DETEST Open Theism. I'm not experienced in Reformed Doctrine like some are on this post, but for me, God's sovereignty defines what it is to be Reformed (Correct me if I am wrong.)

A year or so ago, Lynn recommended a book by RC Sproule - "What is Reformed Theology?" I got it and read it, more from an outsiders perspective. Wow! Every objection I had on those "other" 2 1/2 points he answered. In fact, I walked away kind of stunned. Why was anyone teaching/preaching anything but this?

As far as amillennialism, just so people know, some of us do not believe we return to heaven when Jesus returns. There are a lot of us who believe that we remain on a renewed earth. Because I don't see the promise of heaven anywhere in the Bible for believers. True, there is Revelation, but it is symbolic, apocalyptic literature, and I don't claim to understand it all. I am also a partial preteriste, and I was reading a book by someone who kept referring to Amills as people who think they are going to heaven when Jesus returns. So I rechecked my facts, and turns out there are two groups. And if not, well, there is me, and then the group of all the others! LOL
My thought on Baptists is "they like to get wet once." Outside of that, they're across the board. My thought on Presbyterian is "they like Church Order." Outside of that, we're across the board.

And I wish I was the one who told you about Sproule. He seems a favorite of my friends, but I've never read him. I'm more likely to turn you onto Boice or Piper.

BTW, is the Canadian Southern Baptist out of Winnipeg? That's about the southest you can go, right? lol
 
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Revelation 3:14 And to the angel of the church in Laodicea write: ‘The words of the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of God's creation.

3:20 is in the context of the church of Laodicea, so Jesus is knocking on the door of that church, not on peoples hearts like so many people add to the Scripture.
Yes, that is the proper context therefore many will not believe what it is really saying, being accustomed to error and texts used out of context.
 
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pottersclay

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God can be with someone but not in them. Until a person realises there need for Christ and comes to full repentance God can be with them but not in them.
A good example is when Jesus breathed on the apostles to receive the holy spirit.
Another example is with Abraham and Sarah. When God changed there name the Hebrew expression was breath. Such is the case of Adam God breath into him the breath of life.
 
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Maybe on Christian sites but the dictionary says this:

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/regeneration

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The first time I heard it was a science text book and it talked about regrowing an replacement organ.

I didn't realize that Christianize had specifically redefined it as the new birth.

So you believe folks get born again before they have a saving faith?
Honestly, I don't see the difference between dictionary definition and what Christians say. It's the same thing to me. We were dead in sin, and then got regenerated by Christ.

And the saving faith is part of what God gives us at our rebirthday party. No purpose in having the party without the rebirth.
 

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Romans 16:17 (KJV)
[SUP]17 [/SUP] Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.

1 Corinthians 5:11 (NASB)
[SUP]11 [/SUP] But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with any so-called brother if he is an immoral person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a swindler—not even to eat with such a one.
Trust me, you have been marked.
 
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kaylagrl

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Ummm, thank you?! :confused:

I kind of stopped reading what he wrote somewhere in the first paragraph, when I realized it was a what-for, instead of a thought. So, I didn't read everything you wrote past getting you're defending me, for fear I'd figure out what he wrote, and then get all defensive anyway. :eek:

But thank you for the defense. :)
Well it irked me. Im a stay at home wife,I have more time to spend on here than some others but that doesn't mean Im idle. It ticked me off for other more personal reasons.I'll just leave it at that.
 

Johnny_B

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Lol i don't know. This is Kayla's thread ,let's sea what she wants to talk about?

Personally,
I am still trying to understand how you view free will and predestination.

Do you believe regeneration/New birth happens before profession of faith?
It can't John 3:3 "“Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.” If you can't see the kingdom, how would know to have faith to be regenerated? You wouldn't.

John 6:63, 65 "It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh is no help at all. The words that I have spoken to you are spirit and life....65 And he said, “This is why I told you that no one can come to me unless it is granted him by the Father.”

The flesh is no help at all, your flesh or you would be the one with faith and it would not help, why? Because the Spirit gives life, when the Father grants that you come to Jesus.
 
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kaylagrl

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I've answered everyone, including the one that didn't help you any getting what the Reformed think, because I get stuck at the same place. lol

IDK is an answer. :)


​IDK better be an answer because I use it often!
 

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My thought on Baptists is "they like to get wet once." Outside of that, they're across the board. My thought on Presbyterian is "they like Church Order." Outside of that, we're across the board.

And I wish I was the one who told you about Sproule. He seems a favorite of my friends, but I've never read him. I'm more likely to turn you onto Boice or Piper.

BTW, is the Canadian Southern Baptist out of Winnipeg? That's about the southest you can go, right? lol

Yes, baptism sums up what Baptists are about! LOL

Canadian Southern Baptists have their office near Calgary Alberta. Sort of central to the west. They do not have much of a presence in Ontario or the Maritimes (as for Quebec, Christians don't have much of a presence there, at all, including the RCC!).

I have also been in the North American Baptist convention for a while, and I am now in the Baptists of Western Canada. Which is kind of a moving to more unfundamentalist doctrines. Although, our church does believe the bible. Except not sure about the pastor anymore. In fact, very, very concerned, but not feeling God is wanting me to act on it, at this time. Our brand new pastor! Sigh!

Hmm! I was so sure it was you that told me about that book. I wonder who it was? Anyone who remembers, feel free to pm me if you don't want to post publicly. Maybe it was Notmyown?

I have about 15 books by Piper. One of his books, Desiring God was a textbook for our Worship class. So, I have read and benefited a lot by what he has written, although I don't agree with his position on women in ministry. But then, most Reformed people won't agree with my position on that!

I'm confused, I confess with what you mean about Winnipeg being southeast. It is the most easterly part of the prairies, and no farther south than I am in BC. Ontario is further south, and New Brunswick, PEI, Nova Scotia and NL are the farthest east, (NL being the most east!) and they are also south. I'm a western separatist, though, I have been since Pierre Trudeau did some nasty things to the west in the 1970's and 1980s. And now his son? Double the separatist!
 
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No didn't see that link.

It's pretty easy to see that faith is a gift of God. The question of why does one person believe and another one doesn't? God works in their lives to bring about a humble and contrite heart that is good soil for the Seed to grow into faith in Jesus finished work alone.

Perhaps in some people the process of regeneration equals new birth and automatic faith in the gospel.

I always believed that the point a person is born again is when they receive the Holy Spirit and that only happens AFTER the confession of faith in Jesus from the heart by the mouth. Its a work of God to get a person to that point,but I don't believe a person can be truly called Christian without the Confession of faith and seal of the Holy Spirit. Before that point, I believe they can fall away because they don't acknowledge having a personal intimate relationship with God. The worries of the world or temptation of riches, or Satan can steal all thoughts of God and their need for a Savior from their mind.

I still have a hard time accepting that regeneration means rebirth or to be born again.

I see it as when God restore the natural state of Adam before the fall to mankind. That God freed everyone from the curse of Adam's sin, and gave them the Law. However like Adam, we all fail in keeping it fully. Therefore it's not Adam's sin that condemns us, but our own,

By God's grace He gives us a Savior, if we but believe He can wash us clean.

God gives us the faith by His grace to believe and I don't believe He gives this faith to everyone. He gives the gospel to everyone but only those who have good soil will grow faith that causes confession that causes the Holy Spirit to come and make people born again children of God. God makes the good soil by showing us the rocks and thorns in our hearts and mind through the Law and our inability to keep it and our life circumstances.
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So the concept that people are born again before confessing faith in Jesus seems to me to be at odds with scripture.

I will have to go back and re-read them.
Somewhere around 9 PM on April 4, 1972 I was watching Jesus Christ Superstar in the UVA indoor stadium, (and just found out that building is no longer around), and thought, "God, I'd like to know you are as real as that guy on the stage."

That wasn't the moment I had saving faith. That was the moment after God saved me. That was his effectual calling working its way through my brain. I marveled at the rock opera. My ride home was fraught with peril.

I was living with my aunt, uncle, and cousins, my aunt was driving us home, and on the way home both of her sons decided that was the moment to tell her something. One ate a chocolate bar someone offered to him earlier, and didn't notice the word's "Ex-Lax" on it. (Ex-Lax is a laxative. You're supposed to have one small piece, not the entire bar. lol) The other one topped it off with, "I was expelled from school today." (Not suspended. Expelled.) So, thinking about what happened at the show was the last thing on my mind the rest of the night. I was more afraid my aunt was going to drive into a ditch while she was screaming at her sons in the back seat.

Next morning, I was so utterly excited. God was as real as the guy on the stage. Realer, since the guy on the stage was just an actor. Had to go to school anyway, so told my best friend on the bus. Ends up she already had that experience a week earlier, so she knew about a before-school Bible study. We went. The teacher/missionary/evangelist taught me what to do next. (Repent of everything I ever did wrong -- and I was already Catholic, so I could go down the list in proper order. lol And then pray the sinner's prayer.)

By the time I did all that I had been regenerated for about 10 hours! God found me. I didn't find him. He was never lost.

Absolutely nothing about salvation is initiated by us. The best we can do is go along with God during sanctification. Even if we don't, and then there is Jonah.

If God saves us, we are the seeds in good deep soil. He is the soil, the water, the wind protector, the one who stops stuff from falling on top of us so hard it breaks us, and the growerer in this relationship. All we do is "Yay, God! Glory to you! Brilliant! Whoa! Will you look at that? You go, God." After all, it's where the plant is planted, not what the plant does to become "plant."
 
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Ariel82

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Not sure about your vocabulary, but if you are talking about "you must be born above" or "He reborn us by His word", its before.

Because "natural man does not understand the things of the Spirit".
I don't agree but it seems to be the reformed position. Could you provide some Bible verses I could study and pray about?

I am pretty sure the Baptist church I attended years ago was Free will Baptist. Not sure if i have ever attended a Reformed church.

I wonder if anyone I know in real life hold to TULIP?