We choose Jesus or Jesus choose us

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Jackson123

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Both.
He loved (chose) us first, chose the world excluding no one. Then we are free to love (choose) Him in reciprocation. Before I was married, I chose several girls, and dated them. Only one accepted me to marry. Her choice toward me, because of my choice toward her. Evidently my character drew her to me, but in the end it was still her choice. If she had refused, it isn't because I didn't want her, it would have still been her choice.
yep, I agree, He not force unbeliever to refused, He offer every body to come, He invite every body to believe in Him
 
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loving God not choose human go to hell, He choose every body that believe Jesus save. If a man choose not believe Jesus he go to hell of his choice.
Earlier you posted this...

I agree, He choose every body include you, and you give positif respon, but not every body accept Him
Which is it?
 
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yep, I agree, He not force unbeliever to refused, He offer every body to come, He invite every body to believe in Him
Brother, you're all over the place with you theology. You said God chooses(chose) everybody, then said He chose those who would believe. Which is it? It can't be both.
 

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You go for a "night out" on the Town.

Your at a bar...and "someone" catches your eye.

You Also catch the "eye" of that someone.

Many years later...the both of you are happily married with children.

So, who chose who? ^^
Both choose both both it may I choose her first and she accept it or vice versa
 

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If God chose everybody, everybody's saved.
That would be a dictatorship if we didn't have a choice in return. If God chose to deny everybody then no one would be saved in kind to you statement. Let's say we are not chosen but have been taught that we are. If we are saved by grace alone, then we also have to acknowledge that God is not a dictator, but if He predetermines who is in and who is out, even the ones who are in are denied a loving relationship that should be by their own volition. It's like being raped. Sound convoluted, doesn't it?
 
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yep, I agree, He not force unbeliever to refused, He offer every body to come, He invite every body to believe in Him
Did the Christ force Lazarus to come out from the grave? Did God use Ezekiel to force the sun-bleached bones to come to life? How about the widow's son in Nain in Luke 7? How about the 12 y/o girl in Mark 5?
 

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Brother, you're all over the place with you theology. You said God chooses(chose) everybody, then said He chose those who would believe. Which is it? It can't be both.
sorry, I mean God choose to invite every body, but God choose only who believe in Him save.
 
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yep, I agree, He not force unbeliever to refused, He offer every body to come, He invite every body to believe in Him

Would you provide us with a list of everything we must do to get to heaven?

Please, do not leave anything off this list because if you forget to put it on there, we cannot enter heaven.
 
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That would be a dictatorship if we didn't have a choice in return. If God chose to deny everybody then no one would be saved in kind to you statement. Let's say we are not chosen but have been taught that we are. If we are saved by grace alone, then we also have to acknowledge that God is not a dictator, but if He predetermines who is in and who is out, even the ones who are in are denied a loving relationship that should be by their own volition. It's like being raped. Sound convoluted, doesn't it?
Fallacy in your belief is that you think we believe God denies anyone access. Wrong. God has to go and hunt them down, seeing there are none who understand, none who seek Him.[Psalm 14 & Romans 3]
 
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sorry, I mean God choose to invite every body,
Some have not been invited, they have never heard the Gospel.

but God choose only who believe in Him save.
WHAT!?!?!?!?!?!? Wait a minute my friend! He saves those who believe? Stop that! You've given us many more things we must do to be saved. Please give us the entire list of things we need to do to get to heaven. Every single thing we must do. You've been preaching on here of the things we have to do to get there, we want the complete list. Help us out here with that list!
 

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Did the Christ force Lazarus to come out from the grave? Did God use Ezekiel to force the sun-bleached bones to come to life? How about the widow's son in Nain in Luke 7? How about the 12 y/o girl in Mark 5?
Yes He force Lazarus, is that mean He force saved to believe in Himgo? If so why not force every body to o so in the sake of love.
 

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Some have not been invited, they have never heard the Gospel.



WHAT!?!?!?!?!?!? Wait a minute my friend! He saves those who believe? Stop that! You've given us many more things we must do to be saved. Please give us the entire list of things we need to do to get to heaven. Every single thing we must do. You've been preaching on here of the things we have to do to get there, we want the complete list. Help us out here with that list!
The He complete list is in the Bible, I am not create the requirement.
 

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You're putting a western spin to biblical marriage that mars biblical marriage.
Not really. I know you have read about the marriage supper at the second advent. What if Jesus knocks on the door and the bride to be refused to open it? Her choice, right? If you were right, then the words "IF ANY" would not have been written in this following verse.

"Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me." (Revelation 3:20) This is a marriage thing that doesn't "mar" the Biblical meaning thereof. The brides choice.

Now "if" your doctrine is true, this verse would read ...
Behold, I'm coming to your door, and when you hear my voice, and don't open the door, I will knock it down and come in whether you like it or not, then you will sit down and have a glass of wine ready for he to drink. This will happen because I chose you not caring for your input...Period.

Does God choose aborted babies to go to hell?
 
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Would you provide us with a list of everything we must do to get to heaven?

Please, do not leave anything off this list because if you forget to put it on there, we cannot enter heaven.
I am not memorized, it is in the Bible, basically if you not love God and fellow man you not go to heaven

matt 25

41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:
42 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me no meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me no drink:
43 I was a stranger, and ye took me not in: naked, and ye clothed me not: sick, and in prison, and ye visited me not.
44 Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee?
45 Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me.
46 And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.

King James Version (KJV)Public Domain
 
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I am not memorized, it is in the Bible, basically if you not love God and fellow man you not go to heaven

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41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:
42 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me no meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me no drink:
43 I was a stranger, and ye took me not in: naked, and ye clothed me not: sick, and in prison, and ye visited me not.
44 Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee?
45 Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me.
46 And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.

King James Version (KJV)Public Domain
More! The entire list of things we have to do to get to heaven.

You should know this entire list and have it memorized by now if you hope to make it to heaven.

If you miss something, you will be lost. Be diligent, tell us the entire list, you must already know it all by heart my friend. You should be able to give this list whenever questioned. If you cannot give this whole lost when asked, then you are not certain you've done enough.
 
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More! The entire list of things we have to do to get to heaven.

You should know this entire list and have it memorized by now if you hope to make it to heaven.

If you miss something, you will be lost. Be diligent, tell us the entire list, you must already know it all by heart my friend. You should be able to give this list whenever questioned. If you cannot give this whole lost when asked, then you are not certain you've done enough.
Jesus say all the law is base on Love your God and your fellow man. Just memorized that and it cover all.
 
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Jesus say all the law is base on Love your God and your fellow man. Just memorized that and it cover all.
So, Jesus fulfilled the law, but I have to fulfill it too, in other words I must work my way into heaven by fulfilling the law? Tell me, how do I do this?
 
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Jesus say all the law is base on Love your God and your fellow man. Just memorized that and it cover all.
Wait one minute. I already love God and others. Then that means I've fulfilled the law.

I've always loved God and fellow man. That means I don't need Jesus, right? I mean, I already have fulfilled the law! That must be what Romans 13:10 means.

That must mean Jesus only died for ungodly people who don't love Him or their fellow man. They needed some extra help, but not me, I fulfilled the law.
 

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So, Jesus fulfilled the law, but I have to fulfill it too, in other words I must work my way into heaven by fulfilling the law? Tell me, how do I do this?
I do not understand what you mean by fulfill the law, all I know is, if you love Jesus and fellow man, you go to heaven. If you hate Jesus and fellow man you go to hell.

I do not know what your believe. Do you believe you go to haven even you hate Jesus and fellow man?