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Totally agree with you on that! It's bad enough when a guy/girl flirts with someone other than their partner when in a relationship but...when you're married it's totally out of line; and in my humble opinion, not harmless at all!
Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If all it takes is a 'look' (or a thought) to commit adultery...isn't flirting taking that 'thought' one step further into action?
But to answer the original question...
When a married guy flirts with me...I just tell them straight out "I'm sorry but what you just said is highly inappropriate for someone who is married, and it makes me feel uncomfortable...please don't say it again"
The only reason married people flirt is because they get away with it! The more we collectively resist it...the less it will happen. Maybe?
Seriously?? You feel uncomfortable being alone with a married person around your own age... What you think there gonna be over come with lust and attack you!
I think some people are far to paranoid about this sort of thing.
P.s. Green i apologize for my hardline comment here
I think some people are far to paranoid about this sort of thing.
P.s. Green i apologize for my hardline comment here
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Your a very sensitive one arent you. I can tell cause you started numbering things
Fiiiiine, I guess we'll do it your way then.
1) Yes, indeed its a grave concern. I can hardly sleep at night over it.
2) I do know you, It would only be embarassing for you though if i said how i knew you.
3) My name is Holly, AND I like TO USE caps to EMPHASIZE THINGS TO.
4) Truly i can see your walk with God is flourishing
5) Define pathetic
Have no fear Ritter, the shelling is over.......or maybe its just begun!!!! :0
another thing im gonna loose sleep over tonight!!
Goodbye
Haha
You go girl.
Whether resisting it changes them or not, at least you know you're doing the right thing by discouraging it.
Thanks.
If you can't say "crap" there's always the old KJV standy, "dung".
LOL
Totally agree with you on that! It's bad enough when a guy/girl flirts with someone other than their partner when in a relationship but...when you're married it's totally out of line; and in my humble opinion, not harmless at all!
Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If all it takes is a 'look' (or a thought) to commit adultery...isn't flirting taking that 'thought' one step further into action?
But to answer the original question...
When a married guy flirts with me...I just tell them straight out "I'm sorry but what you just said is highly inappropriate for someone who is married, and it makes me feel uncomfortable...please don't say it again"
The only reason married people flirt is because they get away with it! The more we collectively resist it...the less it will happen. Maybe?
Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If all it takes is a 'look' (or a thought) to commit adultery...isn't flirting taking that 'thought' one step further into action?
But to answer the original question...
When a married guy flirts with me...I just tell them straight out "I'm sorry but what you just said is highly inappropriate for someone who is married, and it makes me feel uncomfortable...please don't say it again"
The only reason married people flirt is because they get away with it! The more we collectively resist it...the less it will happen. Maybe?
Whether resisting it changes them or not, at least you know you're doing the right thing by discouraging it.
niceguyj, can I just say how greatly I appreciate it when you slice through all of the crap (can I say crap on CC?) with simplicity, depth and humor in one blow.
Nice rock, David May I borrow your slingshot sometime?
Nice rock, David
May I borrow your slingshot sometime?
If you can't say "crap" there's always the old KJV standy, "dung".
LOL
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this is my opinion on the matter at hand i had friend on here who broke my heart married or not this person was out of state all i was asking for was friendship and someone to tlk to yes i went over the line a couple of times and iwas open enough to tell him i was married but it was not working out he couldve backed out of the friendship a long time ago but instead he choose to hurt me instead i always ways said to him to hold me accountable if i go to far did he no guys aernt innocent either how do we define friendship well this is my take on it a friend is their throgh good times and bad someone who understands your hurts not selfish and not lie to that person i came from a abusive relationship i talk to god everyday and sometimes i want to give up on everything ive been used n abused by friends i love people i respect the friends i have only god can judge if you dont want that friendship then just tell me dont lie
