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1213kb

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Hello,
I am a girl and I watched porn few times. How do I stop? I want to get baptized but I cannot stop the urges sometimes.
please at least pray for me.
 

RickyZ

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Sep 20, 2012
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When you get the urge, tell yourself you're going to come read/interact with the forums for 20 minutes. If at the end of that time you still want to surf go surf.

I'm betting you won't want to
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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My opinion may be criticized by some of my brothers and sisters in Christ but I know that God knows what you do and He loves you anyways.

Go ahead and get baptized and continue on the road of sanctification with the rest of us. Some of your bad habits, hurts, hangups, and addictions will fall away quickly and some slowly over time. Stay the course. Peace.
 
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1213kb

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Thank you I will try this!!:)
 
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1213kb

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Yes I think God does forgive us, but I want to put this behind me but thank you for the reply:)
 
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1213kb

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Thank you, thank you, thank you, this site helped me realize I'm not an addict. . . Yet. I will try to stop while ahead.
 
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jonrambo

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i battled the porn deamon before. you wont be able to do it without God and Jesus involved. Get to know them from the bible develop a relationship with them. God is your father and he will see you through it. Stand and fight the deamon covered in the blood of Jesus Christ he wont stand a chance
 
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dru

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tell you what,last year(for 7 years) i used to WATCH PORN ,every time i did i would pray to God and each time it became more difficult for me to go before God in prayer,i did this for some time,mid december is when i just put my foot down and ever since i have not watched it up until now.try that----every time after watching porn go honestly before God and ask for forgiveness trust me you will feel like the biggest hypocrite on earth and that will help in making you stop--it has made me,sometimes i dont believe ive gone that long without it and i honestly dont want it--im a teen just like you and i know you CAN stop.
you will also feel like a heavy load has been lifted off your back and then you can focus on other areas of your christian life.
 
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jonathan1221

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Sometimes I struggle with that as well. 2 months ago I decided to stop, completley. I would never have been able to do this without two things.
1. God!
2. Watchdog software.

There are occasions that come up where the need is so great... With this watchdog software it becomes impossible to watch it or look at it. After the moment passes I am SO GLAD that I didn't fall into the temptation.

The software requires someone in your family to put in the password.

K9 Web Protection - Free Internet Filter and Parental Control Software | Free Internet Filtering and Parental Controls Software
 
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Pursuing your natural sexual tendencies is completely normal for any organism. Watching porn has been proven to assist blood flow to your brain. Who cares if you indulge in a personal moment? Just because some stuck up, conservative old men decided to write down in the bible that it was sinful, only means it was frowned upon 2000 years ago. Times have changed, do what you want to do. It's healthy, natural, and normal.
 
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Pursuing your natural sexual tendencies is completely normal for any organism. Watching porn has been proven to assist blood flow to your brain. Who cares if you indulge in a personal moment? Just because some stuck up, conservative old men decided to write down in the bible that it was sinful, only means it was frowned upon 2000 years ago. Times have changed, do what you want to do. It's healthy, natural, and normal.
Sounds to me that you live by the phrase "do as thou wilt". Perhaps you ought to get saved before you come to a Christian chat site and give advice. I've already read some of your posts, of which none of them are Christian or even Christianese.
 
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Boxer

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Is there anyway to stop without virus software or professional help?? I'm struggling with this as well
 
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I've struggled with it too. it's a hard thing to beat alone. Thanks goodness there's Jesus.
 
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stek

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I am also an addict. I have found Celebrate Recovery to be a great Christ centered recovery program for all out hurts habits and hang ups. 1213kb I would recommend attending one of these and getting a support group to help you with your addiciton.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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Pursuing your natural sexual tendencies is completely normal for any organism. Watching porn has been proven to assist blood flow to your brain. Who cares if you indulge in a personal moment? Just because some stuck up, conservative old men decided to write down in the bible that it was sinful, only means it was frowned upon 2000 years ago. Times have changed, do what you want to do. It's healthy, natural, and normal.
^ I have reported your post to administrators for encouraging sexually immoral behavior in a teen forum created to help and assist young people become better individuals. You're obviously working for the "other side" (e.g. the devil) and NOT the Lord here, at the least.
 

JimJimmers

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She was banned already, AgeofKnowledge :)
 
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Is there anyway to stop without virus software or professional help?? I'm struggling with this as well
I was able to do that by the grace of God. I simply avoided computers when no one at home was around and it was a miracle it went away. This is a struggle with a lot of people and the media feeding the sex frenzy doesn't help.
 
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i used to watch that rubbish too.Thank God Theres A Wonderful Man like God.Listen to me the devil wants to destroy peoples lives.Fight Back With The Lords Words read ur bible.The urge to watch it thats what the devil wants destroy him with the help of our Lord.Amennn
 

NateDaGrimes

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if you are having problems than tell parents to block anything that contains porn with k9 webprotection.. it will make it atleast 95% harder to find porn