Home School vs. Public School

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tdrew777

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Another thread was hijacked to compare and contrast home schooling and public schooling. Instead of putting in my two cents, I decided the right thing to do was to start a new thread.

There is no such thing as an "American school". Schools in America are administrated from a local, not Federal level. Each municipality has its own school board, writes its own curriculum and makes its own policies. IF they want State funds, they must follow certain state guidelines. IF they want Federal funds, they must follow certain federal guidelines. The school district of Philadelphia, PA is nothing like the school district of Upper Darby, PA minutes away. When setting up an International School in Kabul, Afghanistan, we had the reputation of following "American curriculum" - but we all knew that that was a misnomer. 6th grade follows the curriculum that I wrote. "Public school in America" can mean anything - even bible based curriculum in some districts (rare)!

Literate parents are qualified to teach children to love books, to read, to do arithmetic, to view the world, to think critically. In fact, they are responsible to oversee all of this even if they send their children to public school. Parents can delegate tasks, but not bottom-line responsibility to teachers.

Home schooled children, on the average, outperform public school children academically and socially. Not in every case, just on the average. There are no proven social advantages to grouping children (or adults) according to age. You never can get a homogenous group - teachers must differentiate instruction to meet wide ability ranges or they will give mediocre instruction. Moms who have the privilege of being able to stay at home should consider the home school option. Men should strive to give their wives the privilege of staying at home - it is a worthy goal. The best guide to socialize children properly are parents, not peers. Home schooled children need peers. They do not need 25 close peers (six hours a day, five days a week).

I am a certified elementary school teacher. We are planning to home school.
 

Fenner

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I have friends that home school and do a good job at it My children go to a Montessori school. I may consider home school in the future.
 
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psychomom

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Just have to add the incredible blessing it is to home school your kids.
I have learned far more from them than I have ever taught them.
It's a real opportunity to practice patience! :)
They are so very close to one another as adults.
God is there in every aspect of school and life--and they have more time to learn His Word.

The family is God's building block for any society. The stronger it is, the stronger society is.
The sacrifice a family might make in having mom at home is definitely rewarded.
I wouldn't change a thing, or trade it for anything.
 
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jimmydiggs

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I'm working on Bachelors of Science of Education, Secondary - Social Studies. I recommend all Christian parents who can, do not send your children to public schools. Public Schools are a hell hole. The idols that they worship like Horace Mann, and John Dewey absolutely hated the Gospel and wanted schools to teach against Christianity. It is no different today.
 
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dashadow

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Another thread was hijacked to compare and contrast home schooling and public schooling. Instead of putting in my two cents, I decided the right thing to do was to start a new thread.

There is no such thing as an "American school". Schools in America are administrated from a local, not Federal level. Each municipality has its own school board, writes its own curriculum and makes its own policies. IF they want State funds, they must follow certain state guidelines. IF they want Federal funds, they must follow certain federal guidelines. The school district of Philadelphia, PA is nothing like the school district of Upper Darby, PA minutes away. When setting up an International School in Kabul, Afghanistan, we had the reputation of following "American curriculum" - but we all knew that that was a misnomer. 6th grade follows the curriculum that I wrote. "Public school in America" can mean anything - even bible based curriculum in some districts (rare)!

Literate parents are qualified to teach children to love books, to read, to do arithmetic, to view the world, to think critically. In fact, they are responsible to oversee all of this even if they send their children to public school. Parents can delegate tasks, but not bottom-line responsibility to teachers.

Home schooled children, on the average, outperform public school children academically and socially. Not in every case, just on the average. There are no proven social advantages to grouping children (or adults) according to age. You never can get a homogenous group - teachers must differentiate instruction to meet wide ability ranges or they will give mediocre instruction. Moms who have the privilege of being able to stay at home should consider the home school option. Men should strive to give their wives the privilege of staying at home - it is a worthy goal. The best guide to socialize children properly are parents, not peers. Home schooled children need peers. They do not need 25 close peers (six hours a day, five days a week).

I am a certified elementary school teacher. We are planning to home school.

I agree with your post, but it should be more gender neutral. I'm a dad and I homeschool my daughter. My son will start homeschooling next school year. Thanks!
 
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dashadow

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I should add, as with most things homeschooling can be a blessing or a curse. I'm sure there will be parents that really mess things up. That's just a sad fact. That said, all things being equal, I think homeschooling is the better route to go.
 
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MissCris

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This is something I'm already considering, even though my son is only 2. I want to homeschool both of my kids, but I'm also afraid that I don't know enough/have enough patience to do so. But I think it's important enough that I'll learn.
 
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tdrew777

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This is something I'm already considering, even though my son is only 2. I want to homeschool both of my kids, but I'm also afraid that I don't know enough/have enough patience to do so. But I think it's important enough that I'll learn.
Great! Don't let fear of inadequacy determine your decision. There is no such thing as an adequate parent/teacher. If you have the resources - consider home school.
 
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hattiebod

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This is something I'm already considering, even though my son is only 2. I want to homeschool both of my kids, but I'm also afraid that I don't know enough/have enough patience to do so. But I think it's important enough that I'll learn.
I think it is great if you can do it, also i think the US is really well set up for home schooling, you have a good support network. I think its also helpful you can do a lot of work online now and if there are others in your community also home schooling, you can get together for sport and socialising. My children did not have home schooling, my sone did attend a small Christian school for a year but there was just not the sporting opportunities for him so we moved him. He may not be at a Christian school now but he is at a School with a strong Christian ethos and he does not shy away from being known for having a strong developing faith and declaring himself a Bible believing Christian. I am very proud of him as it is not easy. Its interesting that if he was not in the school he is in...there would perhaps not be the discussions and planting of seeds by him that is occurring. So, perhaps it is not always best to shut ourselves away in 'Christian safe zones' but rather get out there and be light in the darkness? It depends on the family and what choices they have. God Bless, <><
 

Fenner

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There are a lot of great curriculums for home school. I think you can Goggle it.
 

Fenner

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I'm so thankful we have choices in education. ;)
 

Nautilus

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I actually plan to send my kids to a public school. I went to one and came out just fine. I see no reason to not do the same with my child.
 
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AandO

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My suggestion - Pray! Pray hard. Pray long. There is definitly a time to home school. There is definitly a time for public school. My family has had the priveledge of both.

Advantages of homeschool from my opinion - so many more choices, rich opportunities, challenge to parent to really know their child/learning style/spiritual maturity, and so much more flexibility.

Advantages of public school from my opinion - our goal is to be IN the world while not OF it. Our goal is to reach out to the world. A big danger of homeschooling is that if you are not careful you can cut all ties with non Christians and only interact with Christians. Don't be surprised that if that happens you find that really you have no impact on the world around you. My kids are learning to have a heart for their friends who don't know any better. They are being raised apart from God in a crazy world seeking pleasure and fun while getting taught who knows what as a moral foundation if any.
 
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psychomom

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Advantages of public school from my opinion - our goal is to be IN the world while not OF it. Our goal is to reach out to the world. A big danger of homeschooling is that if you are not careful you can cut all ties with non Christians and only interact with Christians. Don't be surprised that if that happens you find that really you have no impact on the world around you. My kids are learning to have a heart for their friends who don't know any better. They are being raised apart from God in a crazy world seeking pleasure and fun while getting taught who knows what as a moral foundation if any.
In principle, I agree with this. If we keep our eyes open to the Lord's will, we tend to see where He wants us to be His hands and feet, though. It's lovely your kiddos are learning love for their friends that way.

And I wanted to mention that there are parents who send their little ones to public schools so they can be 'salt and light' there. :(

Just as we wouldn't set a baby plant outside the hothouse and expect it not to suffer, let alone to produce fruit, so we should not expect our children to be missionaries to their public school comrades at tender ages.

Just my opinion. :)
-ellie
 
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rosey

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I went to public school, it was very hard to go through all the rejection and bullying because I was a Christian. The Lord did keep
me safe and helped me to stand for Him. I also learned a lot about how the world thinks of course. I went to public school because I didn't have a choice and God knew that. Now we have a son and agreed put him in a Christian School which I was very much apart of and learned a lot there as well. Our son did well there until a certain point and with much prayer decided to homeschool this year and thankfully, he's getting a good foundation so that later we hope and pray he will be a salt and light in the world. I don't necessarily agree with the way the world thinks we should socialize. I also don't believe that it's realistic to put a big group of children the same age in the same room for six hours a day. I believe our son has the benefit of interacting with people of various ages at different times, and his social life seems to be richer for it. Either way God knows our individual circumstances and praying is key to making the choice. Whatever we choose God is with our children no matter where they go. He hears our prayers and will answer them.

Rosey
 
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TosinAsLeader

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I was homeschooled and what I hate the most about it is that I don't have friends where I live. Your parents aren't your friends, their your family. Having to move around all my life as a military kid and switching to homeschool at 7th grade was not fun. I don't recommend this if you are someone who likes to have a life. Sure, public school has its downs, but if I was to take the same agrument that kids should not go to public school. Well, then kids should not eat ice cream. It has a great taste, but eating to much makes it bad.

This is coming from a homeschool student trying to graduate early. A warning to all homeschool parents, please oh please don't be lazy when it comes to teaching. Meaning, "Here, do page 5-10 then this and this, I will go run to the store. Be back at dinner time." If that is a case (somewhat similiar) then don't homeschool. You can be a parent and make sure your kid is doing their work at a public school.

However, homeschool has given me advantages and in my current dilema I face, I need to stick it out. Simply because it has worked best for me.
 
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BarlyGurl

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As I have mentioned before... Home School... it's about stewardship of the children God Gave you... to make disciples of jesus... not disciples of worldly agenda.


 
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Ugly

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I was homeschooled and what I hate the most about it is that I don't have friends where I live. Your parents aren't your friends, their your family. Having to move around all my life as a military kid and switching to homeschool at 7th grade was not fun. I don't recommend this if you are someone who likes to have a life. Sure, public school has its downs, but if I was to take the same agrument that kids should not go to public school. Well, then kids should not eat ice cream. It has a great taste, but eating to much makes it bad.

This is coming from a homeschool student trying to graduate early. A warning to all homeschool parents, please oh please don't be lazy when it comes to teaching. Meaning, "Here, do page 5-10 then this and this, I will go run to the store. Be back at dinner time." If that is a case (somewhat similiar) then don't homeschool. You can be a parent and make sure your kid is doing their work at a public school.

However, homeschool has given me advantages and in my current dilema I face, I need to stick it out. Simply because it has worked best for me.
The homeschooling isn't your problem. Its the moving, and your parents not providing socialization. Its only a disadvantage to not have friends when the parent doesn't take on the job of providing methods of socialization for the child, or when the parents goal is to prevent socialization on purpose. This may make your experience lesser, but its not a reflection of things done correctly.
 

G4JC

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I was homeschooled from Pre-K through 12th and excelled past my state's average grade level. I do not regret it for one moment, many friends that I did know that stopped homeschooling or were not homeschooled have completely fell away from the faith. Thank God my parents cared enough not to ship me off to the wolves early on. To the ones that perservere, I can assure you you can make it - I did. They have various local homeschool group meetups for "socializing" as well, so don't pull the anti-social card. Even Abraham Lincoln was homeschooled/self-taught and he was a very elequent and social speaker. :D

It's not just about homeschooling either, it's about the war on the morality and minds of our youth that goes back to the early days of the cold war and communism. If you really care about your children, the most intimate 8hrs a day of their impressionable mind should not be handed over to a complete stranger.
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Photoss

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I also was homeschooled K - 12, and graduated in the top 5% of my class in college. In fact, the top 10% had a number of other adults who had been homeschooled at some point in their lives. I wouldn't trade the hardship and pioneering experience for anything in the world, and I look forward to homeschooling my children.

Unfortunately, I witnessed this many times:
many friends that I did know that stopped homeschooling or were not homeschooled have completely fell away from the faith.
 
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