Going to India (Part 2)!

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agirlandherguitar

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Hello friends!

Well, I am off to India… again! I was there last year for a wedding, this time I am going there with a group from my church to visit and support a sister church out there! We will be in Delhi for a week, then I'm off to Mumbai to visit my friends who got married. I'm very excited!

When I was there last time I was only in Delhi briefly between flights, so I never experienced the city itself. Does anybody have any advice for the solo female traveler? Prayers are always welcome for a safe journey as well.

Thanks!
 

levi85

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Thats really nice. it is good that you never go anywhere alone, but be always in the company of some fellow believerss, who are native to Delhi.
 
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gene77

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Hello friends!

Well, I am off to India… again! I was there last year for a wedding, this time I am going there with a group from my church to visit and support a sister church out there! We will be in Delhi for a week, then I'm off to Mumbai to visit my friends who got married. I'm very excited!

When I was there last time I was only in Delhi briefly between flights, so I never experienced the city itself. Does anybody have any advice for the solo female traveler? Prayers are always welcome for a safe journey as well.

Thanks!
That's great! My parents were born and brought up in Mumbai. My grandmother and a lot of my relatives still live there. When I was a kid, I used to fly there every two months or so. I was born in Delhi. When I used to do well in tests at school, my mom used to ask me what I wanted, and I used to say, "I want to go to Bombay!" (now known as Mumbai). My dad used to immediately book my ticket and I used to fly there the same day. Well, things change when you grow older, and you don't get those privileges. =P

That being said, I have a lot of childhood memories in Mumbai. I can't live there though. The city feels too claustrophobic for me, and it's such a rush to live there. Everyone seems to be rushing all the time. Presently, I live in a very leaned-back city. Here are a few things that you can keep in mind while traveling to Mumbai as a solo female traveler:

1. Be prepared to see a hoard of slums right from your plane window while landing. Mumbai has a lot of slums.
2. The weather there presently is HOT. My mom is there at the moment, and she can't wait to be back because it's quite cool in my city. So, you may want to carry lighter clothes.
3. Try to wear clothes that are not too revealing. Men will stare. You're a foreigner, so they will stare anyway. But, you'd rather not draw their attention to certain body parts.
4. Do not look random men in their eyes. And, do not smile at them. They'll take it the wrong way. Just stick by your friends.
5. Mumbai is super crowded. Keeping your arms in front has a double bonus. Helps you ward off stray hands from seeking your chest, as well as helps you to elbow your way through swarms of people, especially if you are going to visit markets and railway stations.
6. Street food in Mumbai like pani puri is a must try! Just be careful of drinking water. Water in India is not purified. So, buy mineral water bottles, even at restaurants. I wouldn't drink their regular water.
7. Be a bit careful of jewellery and bag snatchers. So, keep an eye on your belongings.
8. Travel by AC cabs instead of autorickshaws. There isn't much of a price difference. Take the meter cabs, that have a fixed price, else they will definitely try and loot you. But, you can take an autorickshaw once just for the experience. Most of my cousins aren't Indian, and are "white" foreigners. When they visit India, they love riding in autorickshaws. There's a different feel to it.
9. Sun screen! You will need it.
10. The spoken language there is mostly Marathi and Hindi, but most people do know English. So, you should be fine. Learning a few Hindi phrases might help though. And, it could be fun to try out there. It's not a difficult language. =)
11. Quite a few beggars around. Don't feel sorry for the ones who can walk around easily. The handicapped ones could probably be helped. But, a couple of rupees is all you need to give. Also, Mumbai as a big beggar mafia. They make tons of money everyday. It's a scam. And, I never give kids money. I prefer buying them something to eat.

I can tell you so much about Mumbai, but I think you should experience it for yourself. The good and the bad of Mumbai. =) It's the Bollywood of India, after all. You'll have a good time for sure. There a lot to see, smell, taste, hear, and feel. And, if you need any help, I've got family and friends all over Mumbai. But, you should be fine. Have fun, and let us know how your trip went!
 
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gene77

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Oh, I just re-read your post, and noticed that you will be in Delhi too. There are separate tips for Delhi. LOL. Every city in India is different, and like a country of it's own. Here's some tips for Delhi.

1. Delhi is cold during winter. You will need some sweaters at least.
2. Be wary of ALL men. Do not look or smile at them.
3. The metro in Delhi is awesome! Use it.
4. Street food is YUM in Delhi. Just be careful because they can be unsettling to the tummy. And, you wouldn't want to spend the rest of your vacation running to the loo.
5. Both Mumbai and Delhi have really cheap shopping areas. For example, Linking Road in Mumbai, and Sarojini in Delhi. Your friends should know of these places. You can get clothes for 1-3 dollars. My sister goes mad at these places and spends HOURS shopping. I just go visit the food joints while she shops.
6. Don't travel alone at night especially. Travel with your friends. It's not a safe city for women.
7. Delhi has a lot of historical sightseeing places. Do visit them. They are beautiful. Also, you can always get a drive down to Agra and check out the Taj Mahal and the Red Fort. It's worth it. :)
8. Road discipline is way better in Delhi than in Mumbai. Delhi roads are tarred, while Mumbai roads are made tiled with stones. Both have their own feel to it.
9.Be careful while crossing roads. People don't follow traffic rules, much. So, zebra crossings are always ignored. You have to wait to get a gap in vehicles before you can run or walk swiftly across the road. Most vehicles do not stop for pedestrians. One of the biggest shockers that my foreign relatives come across are the streets. Sometimes, it's like playing live GTA on the streets.
10. Don't buy articles with the OM sign on them, or the Ganesha statues that a lot of tourists buy unknowingly. The Om sign is a Hindu symbol and statues there are their gods. You don't want to carry things in your bags that are connected to demons.
11. Carry medicine around. The climate change from Canada to Delhi and then to Mumbai can affect your health.

BTW, a lot of relatives are Canadians, including my grandmother. I've got a lot of relatives who live in Toronto, Montreal, Petersborough. My parents will be in Canada in May. I may tag along too.
 

samg8

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Dec 16, 2012
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Wow!!.Welcome to India and have a great time here.I would suggest you to carry a map along with you if you don't have any guide.I stay in Delhi and Delhi is a amazing place.Have a great time and enjoy.:):)
 
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agirlandherguitar

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Thanks, everybody! Wonderful advice. I have been to India before and I've seen Taj Mahal and the Red Fort too, which were both very beautiful! I wish I could go back but this trip will be a little different this time around. It's the street life I'll be more immersed in.

I really want to try some street food! When I was there last time I got lucky and didn't get sick, only a little bit of diarrhoea in the mornings the first three days (sorry for the TMI) and a head cold the last two days. Anyways, I really want to try jhal muri! Gene77, pani puri looks amazing (just googled it), so I will seek it out!

I am a little nervous about being stared at... again. Last time we were mostly in Kolkata and it was crazy how many stares we got. Mostly people were just curious and didn't try to be aggressive. Only a handful of people wanted to take our pictures (or at least only a handful asked). We had a lot of men calling out to us and trying to get our attention, and of course I didn't know what to do and just started laughing, which I tried really hard to conceal. In these cases sunglasses were very necessary! I also got used to "tunnel vision" when I walked around by the second week and I stopped noticing.
 
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Ksana

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I dream about visitting India :)
 
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Crittle

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Praying,
That is so exciting I'm going to India with my church for the first time in January. My friend and her Husband own an Orphanage out there and were going to help with the project of there new Orphanage :) I hope your flights and everything goes well. :)