God gives us a feelings to love someone, Why?

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MGlen

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Dear Bros & Sis,
Love existed long before God created us. I know we're being His mighty creation because of His love towards us. But, I doubted why I had this feelings for loving someone who is never related to my blood/DNA? This feelings which made me Love her is sucking my blood slowly & steadily. Sometimes, I think it's worth to die than living this life like this. What say ye?
 
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MGlen said:
Dear Bros & Sis,
Love existed long before God created us. I know we're being His mighty creation because of His love towards us. But, I doubted why I had this feelings for loving someone who is never related to my blood/DNA? This feelings which made me Love her is sucking my blood slowly & steadily. Sometimes, I think it's worth to die than living this life like this. What say ye?
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I'm sorry, I don't understand you clearly. Are you referring to loving a girl, like a girlfriend?

P.S. I just saw you had newly joined. Welcome to CC. :)
 
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pwrnJC

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UH, this is not a ROMEO and Juliet scenario. THIs is not a drama or a play. You do not have to die for love in this way. FEELINGS are fleeting and can change like the wind. Satan loves taking our emotions and reeking havoc. What say ye? I would say that YE have an overflow of testoterone that has you caught up in a moment's rush. Focus more on what you can do for JESUS CHRIST and let HIM lead you to the right female, the right LOVE that is matched perfectly for you. YOU will know this in your spirit...not your blood DNA that is 'sucking your blood slowly and steadily". Do not make a mountain out of a mole hill.
 
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MGlen

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pwrnJC said:
UH, this is not a ROMEO and Juliet scenario. THIs is not a drama or a play. You do not have to die for love in this way. FEELINGS are fleeting and can change like the wind. Satan loves taking our emotions and reeking havoc. What say ye? I would say that YE have an overflow of testoterone that has you caught up in a moment's rush. Focus more on what you can do for JESUS CHRIST and let HIM lead you to the right female, the right LOVE that is matched perfectly for you. YOU will know this in your spirit...not your blood DNA that is 'sucking your blood slowly and steadily". Do not make a mountain out of a mole hill.
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Thanks for your wonderful comment...
 
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MGlen

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pwrnJC said:
UH, this is not a ROMEO and Juliet scenario. THIs is not a drama or a play. You do not have to die for love in this way. FEELINGS are fleeting and can change like the wind. Satan loves taking our emotions and reeking havoc. What say ye? I would say that YE have an overflow of testoterone that has you caught up in a moment's rush. Focus more on what you can do for JESUS CHRIST and let HIM lead you to the right female, the right LOVE that is matched perfectly for you. YOU will know this in your spirit...not your blood DNA that is 'sucking your blood slowly and steadily". Do not make a mountain out of a mole hill.
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Roh_Chris said:
I'm sorry, I don't understand you clearly. Are you referring to loving a girl, like a girlfriend?

P.S. I just saw you had newly joined. Welcome to CC. :)
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Yeah! Thanks Mr. Chris
 
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agirlandherguitar

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Sounds extreme!

Love can be a feeling. Our feelings can lie to us, make us think something is true when it isn't. Our feelings can be manipulated and distorted. Feelings are fleeting and they come and they go minute by minute. With feelings we often think about ourselves, because we cannot possibly know what the other person is feeling!

Love can also be a choice. Choosing to love somebody means you acknowledge those feelings but know they aren't the truest form of telling you what love for another really is. Choosing love means you open up to that person, you expose who you are and take the risk of knowing you might get hurt. Choosing love means you have to make hard decisions, sometimes ones you want to avoid, but you are thinking of the other person over yourself.

Don't always rely on your feelings when it comes to falling in love. Love needs to be seasoned, tested, strengthened, exposed, stressed, cut open, examined. Most of all, it needs to be filtered through God, who always seems to take the back seat when some pretty thing catches our eye. Always pray, always consult God in all things. Include him in all your relationships. Include him in your everything, the mundane and the profound.
 
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mar09

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This came to mind:

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19 The way of an eagle in the air; the way of a serpent upon a rock; the way of a ship in the midst of the sea; and the way of a man with a maid.
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Fredric

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We should love one another as the gods love live in us .. One day or another we should join with the spirit of god .. So brother we should love people whether you like or not... God bless you.
 
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EdisonTrent

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It is true God created the ability to Love in us, God created humans from his own image, but we have free will to choose who,want,why we do.
 
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pwrnJC

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WOW...you have my full attention. I love how you express one of life's basic issues. GOd has indeed blessed you with the spiritual gift of knowledge, agirlwithaguitar! Well said and well received!
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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I had a feeling once. I barbecued it and ate it with A-1 sauce and washed it down with a big glass of ice tea.
 
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Practice-English

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MGlen said:
Dear Bros & Sis,
Love existed long before God created us. I know we're being His mighty creation because of His love towards us. But, I doubted why I had this feelings for loving someone who is never related to my blood/DNA? This feelings which made me Love her is sucking my blood slowly & steadily. Sometimes, I think it's worth to die than living this life like this. What say ye?
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I didn't completely understand
your topic too.
All I can say is
there's a song
that you can listen
about love,

Hawk Nelson :
Live like you're loved...
 
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blondieindahouse

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Fredric said:
We should love one another as the gods love live in us .. One day or another we should join with the spirit of god .. So brother we should love people whether you like or not... God bless you.
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There is only ONE God. He is the truine God> the Father, the Son ,and the Holy Spirit. We who are truly reborn again in Christ have already been joined to God by the indwelling of the spirit of God.
 
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Fredic!

I don´t think you are wrong in Math: There is only ONE God, the Father; and one way to approach to Him, the Lord Jesus.
 
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Tintin

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secularhermit said:
Fredic!

I don´t think you are wrong in Math: There is only ONE God, the Father; and one way to approach to Him, the Lord Jesus.
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One God - Father, Son, Spirit. God is Love and Love is relationship. You can't have a relationship if there's just one person. One God in three persons, blessed Trinity.
 
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