I don't want this to sound bad....

But i just sat here and really examined my life and what it has bestowed the last week. Alot of ups and downs for sure but I have realized that i have had 4 married men really make me feel uncomfortable. One is a friend and he said he would leave his wife for me...... Mind you it's an ex but we have a business deal. Then one is in my Sunday school class who told me he likes me but has been separated for three years. Then I had two guys that I've known who are Christian and I reached out thru Facebook for help and advice and said im beautiful and blah blah blah...... And I just know I wouldn't want my husband to ever say things like that to another woman. I just don't understand. I really feel like I'm walking as close to God and I have zero desire to be with anyone cause I know I'm not ready but it just blows my mind. Do yall find anything wrong and disturbing about this? Is the enemy after me? Is this supposed to be some for of distraction? I just don't want to to be reading into this wrong. I know Im not coming across a certain way because I'm in la-la land for the most part. But I was sitting here talking to a coworker and started wondering what might be going on spiritual.

I would say it is a distraction for sure.I would answer them according to the word. Sometimes people need to hear the truth.
Let your light and ministry shine.

Thank you. I know Im not a homewrecker. My ex husband cheated and left me so I know how it feels. They all know I'm a Godly woman. It just saddens me.

"La la land" that made me think of a song from All Star United, which I haven't heard in donkeys years. Anyone remember lol? Totally off topic tsk.

I recommend carrying a taser for such occasions. Sometimes actions speak louder than words, and that could shock some sense into them.

It may be a trying time, but God's hand is always there ready to pull us out of those things which would drag us down. We just have to reach out for it, and ask him to guide us through.

Unfortunately I have found many "Christian" men to be very dishonest and lustful. It astounds me how rampant it is even in my age group (50's). I was thin several years ago and told I was very attractive, but they wanted me and nothing to do with my children, and a couple wanted to go to bed. I let it depress me a lot and have put on about 65 lbs and now I hate myself. I also wonder a lot how I could ever trust anybody again.

It's not you, there is just a lot of dishonesty out there and many who are not faithful.

I find it disturbing too. They aren't acting right. Avoid them if you can.