did God just send someone????????
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This sounds almost like our hypothetical "porn reviewer" in another thread.
"Hello sweet thang. I want to discuss your naughtiest habits...for the good of the Kingdom."
One week later...
"You know, it's better to marry than to burn."
A week after that...
"You realize that one of God's first commandments was to be fruitful and multiply."
"Hello sweet thang. I want to discuss your naughtiest habits...for the good of the Kingdom."
One week later...
"You know, it's better to marry than to burn."
A week after that...
"You realize that one of God's first commandments was to be fruitful and multiply."
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No godly man in his right spiritual mind would enter a young woman's apartment to discuss porn addiction. He would perhaps invite you to a Christian prayer or study group or advise you to seek counseling with a godly woman. But every fiber in my being is signifying a red flag.
Get the name of this man's pastor - alert the policemen in your building of this man's offer to befriend you - call this man's church to investigate him - you have the right & responsibility to check him out before you trust him. TRUST NO MAN EXCEPT JESUS! Everyone should be checked out, honey. Especially in your case, you should be careful being a single young woman.
I'm sorry if I sound like an interfering mother, but if you were my precious daughter I would hope & pray to God in heaven that others would be watching over you and preventing strange people from coming near you. May Father God bless & keep you and watch over you in Jesus' holy name.
Get the name of this man's pastor - alert the policemen in your building of this man's offer to befriend you - call this man's church to investigate him - you have the right & responsibility to check him out before you trust him. TRUST NO MAN EXCEPT JESUS! Everyone should be checked out, honey. Especially in your case, you should be careful being a single young woman.
I'm sorry if I sound like an interfering mother, but if you were my precious daughter I would hope & pray to God in heaven that others would be watching over you and preventing strange people from coming near you. May Father God bless & keep you and watch over you in Jesus' holy name.
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Brother Biscuit, With the news continually broadcasting instances of deranged men committing sexual crimes against young women every day, I would think no mature Christian would ever advise a young woman to allow a man into her home to discuss sexual sin in the guise of being "sent by God" or in the form of "an angel". I am so disturbed by this. I can't think of one reason why I would be at ease about a man entering my daughter's home to talk about sexual sin. I honestly would report him to the police ASAP. I don't care if the man was Billy Freakin' Graham!
Precious sister Nikki (I just looked at your profile info and saw your name, dear) I am sorry if it sounds like I'm questioning you, dear. I am not. Older men know that young women are vulnerable and look up to a mature man's "wisdom." I'm not questioning you at all, honey. But as an older woman who has LOTS of friends and associates who are the business of counseling, I can tell you of a certainty that the first line of integrity is that it is not advised for men to counsel a young woman alone. Usually they schedule an office visit where there is a secretary or another woman in close vicinity. So please know that was my concern. It's just highly unusual that a man would pop up at your house unannounced and have knowledge about your addiction. At the risk of being branded a busy-body, I just wanted to let you know I'm concerned.
Precious sister Nikki (I just looked at your profile info and saw your name, dear) I am sorry if it sounds like I'm questioning you, dear. I am not. Older men know that young women are vulnerable and look up to a mature man's "wisdom." I'm not questioning you at all, honey. But as an older woman who has LOTS of friends and associates who are the business of counseling, I can tell you of a certainty that the first line of integrity is that it is not advised for men to counsel a young woman alone. Usually they schedule an office visit where there is a secretary or another woman in close vicinity. So please know that was my concern. It's just highly unusual that a man would pop up at your house unannounced and have knowledge about your addiction. At the risk of being branded a busy-body, I just wanted to let you know I'm concerned.
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VioletReigns, I share your concerns but you must understand that God has His people on earth to fulfill His agenda. Yes, there are sickos out there are Satan's disciples who are exploiting God's works
I will have to reject your prejudice against men as the only perpetrator of crime, whether it is violent or sexual. Women are more than capable of committing atrocious crimes against humanity. I believe we just read where an Aussie mom murdered her 8 children.
I would feel more comfortable allowing a strange man than a strange woman in my dwelling in 2014.
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I'm sorry, but let me get this right.
A ''strange man'' just came to your house and said God sent him there to help you with your porn addiction and you actually believe this is true???
Three questions come to mind. First: How does he know where you live? Secondly, how does he know you have a porn addiction? And Thirdly, how old is this ''strange man''
You may have cops in your neighborhood, but unless they have x-ray vision, they're not gonna have any idea what's going on in your house with you and this guy.
Seriously... This is a very bad idea.
A ''strange man'' just came to your house and said God sent him there to help you with your porn addiction and you actually believe this is true???
Three questions come to mind. First: How does he know where you live? Secondly, how does he know you have a porn addiction? And Thirdly, how old is this ''strange man''
You may have cops in your neighborhood, but unless they have x-ray vision, they're not gonna have any idea what's going on in your house with you and this guy.
Seriously... This is a very bad idea.