I need some advice please

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butterfly712

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I need some advice please,a few days ago my boyfriend stopped telling me that he loves me,it hurts,our relationship used to be fine until a few days ago,now every time I tell him I love him before we go to sleep,he doesn't say anything,what should I ask him about why he doesn't tell me he loves me?
 
blue_ladybug

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butterfly712 said:
I need some advice please,a few days ago my boyfriend stopped telling me that he loves me,it hurts,our relationship used to be fine until a few days ago,now every time I tell him I love him before we go to sleep,he doesn't say anything,what should I ask him about why he doesn't tell me he loves me?
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is there a chance he's cheating on u? if so, he probably feels guilty..ask him why he doesnt say it anymore..
 
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butterfly712

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blue_ladybug said:
is there a chance he's cheating on u? if so, he probably feels guilty..ask him why he doesnt say it anymore..
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That's a very good question lady bug,thank you,I will ask him that.
 
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sassylady

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Are you living together?
 
IDEAtor

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Does he show you that he loves you? I mean, is the only
"red flag" the lacking "I love you?" Instead of asking him if he is cheating, have him guess what your Gary Chapman "love language" is. During that interaction, share with him, I love it when you say nice things, like "I love you."
 
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butterfly712

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IDEAtor said:
Does he show you that he loves you? I mean, is the only
"red flag" the lacking "I love you?" Instead of asking him if he is cheating, have him guess what your Gary Chapman "love language" is. During that interaction, share with him, I love it when you say nice things, like "I love you."
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That's very good advice,thank you :)
 
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Butterfly, does it always feel like you're trying to make this work? Like there isn't anything peaceful about it, like it causes you a lot of stress? It seems like the relationship has been a bit rocky for you. :(
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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PopClick said:
Butterfly, does it always feel like you're trying to make this work? Like there isn't anything peaceful about it, like it causes you a lot of stress? It seems like the relationship has been a bit rocky for you. :(
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I was thinking the same thing, Butterfly. You've posted some concerns you had and sought advice about you and your boyfriend more than once. With this coming up after the most recent escapade, things look a little...precarious, I guess.
 
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