Every one of my ex-es was and still are, jailbirds. For many people, once a jailbird, always a jailbird, meaning they get out and go back in multiple times over. My first ex, I knew he was bad news but I had no idea until he raped me. My 2nd one was a charmer, but he too was bad news. 10 years of bad news, because that's how long I spent waiting for him to get out of prison. Ten long, wasted years. My 3rd ex, Shawn, was and is a player and a cheater. He cheated on me the entire time we were together. My last ex, was physically abusive so I left him. I've sworn off men for good now..lol.. Many hard lessons painfully learned. :/
Moral of the story: if your gut feeling tells you something smells about a person, listen to it and avoid them like the plague. I wish I had.
Now, seriously: I´m sorry, Blue B.
Let me tell you this, publicly: Something is wrong in what you´ve beEn picking.
And to the rest of ladies and, Chrstians or not, here is "a proof" of what "IT IS SAID" of ladies picking a godly men and, in their real life and practice, many persons, like me also, have ended up
choosing an ungodly person so, when we write or think things, WE WANT A FLAWLESS CHRISTIAN PERSON but, when we´re engaged, WE picked any person wrong so, WHAT ARE WE DOING WRONG?
Excuse me Blue B. for using your words but, that shows me well, we -as believers- are doing something wrong when we´re being drawn to ungodly and SECULAR people (like me).
I´m sure, Blue B. You are the most wonderful person my limited world. You deserve the most handsome and Christian man God could pick for you, BECAUSE YOU´RE YOUNG, charming, honest, transparent, LOYAL, GODLY and bella.
I beg, from my knees, that you allow yourself to be open, to accept the person He (God) could send you to marry you (not me, because I´m one of your virtual friends) and I promise I will pray that HE (God) send you a loyal or an average Christian to marry you.
I love you! I love you, negrita. And I promise I will ask GOD for you, so you meet him open-armed.
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