When are you considered a couple?

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JeniBean

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My office mates cannot agree to the above question. Each has a different answer, therefore I pose to you the question.

When you are dating an individual at what point do you feel you are a couple?
 
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Txroads

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My office mates cannot agree to the above question. Each has a different answer, therefore I pose to you the question.

When you are dating an individual at what point do you feel you are a couple?
((when you call or text each other more than once a day? Not to sure it's been...................................oh....maybe I don't remember..... Ssshhhh....))
 

Tinkerbell725

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It happens naturally thats why it's not simple to pinpoint the moment you feel you are a couple. Its in between the moments of confusion and clarity before you declare your undying love and commitment for each other officially.
 

Born_Again

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When you decided you can tolerate each other more than just when on dates. Well, thats my theory.
 

BruceWayne

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For me - No matter how long we've dated, how many dates we've been on, or how often we talk, until we agree to be exclusive or "bf/gf", it's not official to me. I would assume we'd both be free to do what we want. So I guess there just has to be some clarity with that before I would consider it a relationship.
 
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JeniBean

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For me - No matter how long we've dated, how many dates we've been on, or how often we talk, until we agree to be exclusive or "bf/gf", it's not official to me. I would assume we'd both be free to do what we want. So I guess there just has to be some clarity with that before I would consider it a relationship.
Bruce you and I agree on this!
 
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JeniBean

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(((waves and whispers..... Hey Jeni....)))
Waves back and says HEY...you admitted it's been awhile so you don't remember. However that was to be a seceret as you said SHHHHHH!!!! Now every one knows! :eek:
 

Born_Again

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Waves back and says HEY...you admitted it's been awhile so you don't remember. However that was to be a seceret as you said SHHHHHH!!!! Now every one knows! :eek:
Bruce, watch this.... Hey, Jeni, wannna grab lunch today? I'm buying! :D
 
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Txroads

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Waves back and says HEY...you admitted it's been awhile so you don't remember. However that was to be a seceret as you said SHHHHHH!!!! Now every one knows! :eek:
((ya... I caught that... Depressed..... Oh well....if ya ain't wanted ya ain't wanted.... But.. That's how you can tell when other folks do because it ain't ever..... Wait a minute.....never mind.... Happy to see you...... Gonna sneak around and see what kinda trouble I can find.... Have an amazing blessed day.... Shhhhhhss... Gotta go)))
 

Born_Again

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Where do you want to meet? Promise me you will be dressed like your avatar, I can spot you better!!! :D
I can do that! I like that outfit anyways! LOL Where is a good place to get a smoothie around here? LOL :D
 

shineyourlight

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When he buys me pizza, then we are officially dating.

I kid. I kid.

I think there definitely needs to be a talk. After months of hanging out and talking, my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend. I obviously said yes. I don't see it as official until there's something to seal the deal (aka..."the talk").
 
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JeniBean

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I can do that! I like that outfit anyways! LOL Where is a good place to get a smoothie around here? LOL :D
Where is here? By me it's Tropical smoothie!!!
 

Born_Again

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Where is here? By me it's Tropical smoothie!!!
Its either Smoothie King or Orange Julius here! LOL Im about 2 hours from the nearest Tropical smoothie LOL