D
This is one I think every country has -- places for old vets who have no family to go when they can't live on their own. And, I can't imagine any country would go full-hog and do something for them besides Bingo on Saturday afternoon, an occasional meal in a different room set to music and called a picnic, or a monthly field trip.
I've been spending the last three months in one visiting hubby. And since I'm (still) a smoker, I've been spending about 15 minutes a day with the smokers in the place. Now I find myself feeling really bad (and happy -- God knows how happy I am!) because hubby is coming home, and I've got friends in that nursing home. I've got friends I may never see again. (Hubby isn't completely healed. I don't know how healed God plans for him to get, before God does the Big-Heal -- gives him a new body -- so I don't know if I'll ever have time to go back.) I hope we come to a place where we can go back regularly, just to visit.
But you know what breaks my heart? There are only two other men in that home who gets family visiting every day. (And one of them I can't make up my mind if he even wants his brother to visit every day. lol) Some get family once a week. Most never see any family. No one comes to visit them. The biggest crowd forms for them when patriotic music is piped into the PA system for the entire trip down the halls with staff and honor guards following the coffin and then a gathering at the front door with military honors and a few words. And the crowd that forms is large. Lots of staff to take care of these men. (Never enough to do a great job, but most do care very much and try their hardest.)
My friend tells me there are 128 beds. He also told me he was the honor guard last year, until he just couldn't cry anymore. 100 people were taken out by coffin last year. He's one of the men who gets no one visiting him. He's not my only friend there, and now I'll not be visiting him.
If anyone wants a ministry from God but can't seem to find one, try a veterans home! Every single resident gave something big to his/her country. (I've seen two women vets, although Portia got the dream -- she walked out the front door last week.) They don't need more Bingo. I'm not sure any of them really like the "Rock and Roll" picnic that seems like every other lunch, except everyone is crammed into a different room and there's good music playing, while eating picnic food. But I've made some guys happy and some guys angry simply by visiting. The ones angry? They're angry "because someone visited him, but not me!"
And don't go, if you think this is about evangelism. Go because they have something to teach us! They're worth listening to, even if they work at keeping it light while their extremities are being surgically removed one joint at a time. Yes, they could use God's help, but they already have God's help. A friend would be nice.
I've been spending the last three months in one visiting hubby. And since I'm (still) a smoker, I've been spending about 15 minutes a day with the smokers in the place. Now I find myself feeling really bad (and happy -- God knows how happy I am!) because hubby is coming home, and I've got friends in that nursing home. I've got friends I may never see again. (Hubby isn't completely healed. I don't know how healed God plans for him to get, before God does the Big-Heal -- gives him a new body -- so I don't know if I'll ever have time to go back.) I hope we come to a place where we can go back regularly, just to visit.
But you know what breaks my heart? There are only two other men in that home who gets family visiting every day. (And one of them I can't make up my mind if he even wants his brother to visit every day. lol) Some get family once a week. Most never see any family. No one comes to visit them. The biggest crowd forms for them when patriotic music is piped into the PA system for the entire trip down the halls with staff and honor guards following the coffin and then a gathering at the front door with military honors and a few words. And the crowd that forms is large. Lots of staff to take care of these men. (Never enough to do a great job, but most do care very much and try their hardest.)
My friend tells me there are 128 beds. He also told me he was the honor guard last year, until he just couldn't cry anymore. 100 people were taken out by coffin last year. He's one of the men who gets no one visiting him. He's not my only friend there, and now I'll not be visiting him.
If anyone wants a ministry from God but can't seem to find one, try a veterans home! Every single resident gave something big to his/her country. (I've seen two women vets, although Portia got the dream -- she walked out the front door last week.) They don't need more Bingo. I'm not sure any of them really like the "Rock and Roll" picnic that seems like every other lunch, except everyone is crammed into a different room and there's good music playing, while eating picnic food. But I've made some guys happy and some guys angry simply by visiting. The ones angry? They're angry "because someone visited him, but not me!"
And don't go, if you think this is about evangelism. Go because they have something to teach us! They're worth listening to, even if they work at keeping it light while their extremities are being surgically removed one joint at a time. Yes, they could use God's help, but they already have God's help. A friend would be nice.