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Ultimatum77

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Mitspa said:
Its a trick...the further they pull you into a emotional conversation the more and more you lose your ability for rational thought and logic :(
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Words of wisdom right there....then you will get sucked into an emotional whirlpool, and lose yourself like people on Dr. Phil.
 
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Ultimatum77

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Desdichado said:
I mean seriously, Mr. Darcy is the perfect example of what women dig and he isn't an artistic dilatant.

Oh no, he's a brooding and somewhat rude nut to crack.
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Lol, that dude is the man! The emotional stiffness/stoicism is brilliant....
"Mr. Darcy you look nice today"
Response: "I hate this outfit"

It's just the equivalent of one of those tollbooth levers blocking emotional engagement in the conversation.
 
Desdichado

Desdichado

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Ultimatum77 said:
Lol, that dude is the man! The emotional stiffness/stoicism is brilliant....
"Mr. Darcy you look nice today"
Response: "I hate this outfit"

It's just the equivalent of one of those tollbooth levers blocking emotional engagement in the conversation.
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Seriously, he's almost a paradox. So many women say they want a love story like Elizabeth and Darcy's. Then turn around to describe how they want to be romanced and the description is the exact opposite of how Darcy acted in Pride and Prejudice and even most film adaptations.

When I was younger, I listened to what the ladies said. Now I just emulate Darcy in some key aspects and it has worked out way better.
 
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Mitspa

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Ultimatum77 said:
Words of wisdom right there....then you will get sucked into an emotional whirlpool, and lose yourself like people on Dr. Phil.
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I always get painted into those boxes where I want to scream "WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT"?!! ..I mean ..you love them, you r good to them..your a good man and provider ..what else do they want?
 
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Ultimatum77

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Mitspa said:
I always get painted into those boxes where I want to scream "WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT"?!! ..I mean ..you love them, you r good to them..your a good man and provider ..what else do they want?
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Shemotions are hard to figure out a lot of times....wish there was a automatic translator/decoder we could snap onto our ears to decode emoti-speak....lol
 
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