Hi Mimi, when I was a young Christian, I used to get so scared when people told frightening stories about their experiences, visions & dreams of hell. Unfortunately, I got brainwashed with a lot of guilt & shame & fear as a new Christian and fell for almost every ridiculous interpretation of God's word.
But the Lord kept reminding me, "If a thousand fall at your side, and ten thousand at your right hand, it won't touch you."
And I understood in my spirit that no matter what anyone else testifies or preaches about hell and death, if I only look to Christ Jesus, none of that nonsense will have any effect on me.
Jesus is light and life!
Let anyone on your left and right spew their crazy scary hellfire beliefs, but don't you fall for that. Jesus overcame hell and death. You can rest your mind in him every moment, because he is faithful.
Be of good cheer!