Zoning out

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Fenner

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Ever since I can remember I've been able to zone out. For example I'm sitting alone in a coffee shop, noisy chatter around me. I can stare out the window and not notice the noise. Most of the time I'm not thinking of anything just watching the world go by. The only issues with this is when I need to be paying attention. When I was in school most of my report cards would say something like, doesn't focus well, or daydreams, something to that effect.

In my marriage it's caused some arguments because my Husband will say something to me and then I'm supposed to respond and I'll say, what? I guess that would get frustrating, but it's sort of nice to be somewhere and not hear the noise around me.

Does anyone else do this?
 
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AuntieAnt

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I think it's a blessing! I love zoning out. :)
 
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Ever since I can remember I've been able to zone out. For example I'm sitting alone in a coffee shop, noisy chatter around me. I can stare out the window and not notice the noise. Most of the time I'm not thinking of anything just watching the world go by. The only issues with this is when I need to be paying attention. When I was in school most of my report cards would say something like, doesn't focus well, or daydreams, something to that effect.

In my marriage it's caused some arguments because my Husband will say something to me and then I'm supposed to respond and I'll say, what? I guess that would get frustrating, but it's sort of nice to be somewhere and not hear the noise around me.

Does anyone else do this?
Growing up, my family titled my real estate. It's called Lynnie LaLaLand. My husband has accepted it. He finds it amusing sometimes. We're watching TV together and he's talking about a commercial, except, even though I was just watching the same TV and the same commercial, I have no idea what he's talking about. I was in Lynnie LaLaLand. A year later, I notice a commercial and laugh because I know I've seen the commercial often, but it's the first time I notice the commercial. I may watch commercials, but I never watch commercials, unless they're funny or annoying. (Political commercials are usually the latter.)

But it also causes problems. I truly mean to listen to people when they talk, but Lynnie LaLaLand shows up. Hubby sometimes is amused and sometimes annoyed. Add to Lynnie LaLaLand, I also don't like lots of noise. And lots of noise can be the air-conditioner is on, or a fan, or cars driving by, or the TV on as background noise. (He likes the TV on. I don't, but we share the same space, so he can have the TV on whenever. The only time I turn it off once he turns it on is when I see him with his headset on too. So, I miss a word because of the noise. Usually I don't miss it -- merely think it was another word. (One becomes some. Things like that.) And later on when I ask him something, he tells me we already talked about this and he said "one." The problem isn't Lynnie LaLaLand then. It's that I needed to know how many "somes" I was supposed to use for the recipe we were talking about earlier.

I do occupy Lynnie LaLa Land often. Sometimes I have no idea what I'm thinking about. More often I do, but it is the place for personal thought, not share it thought. My "What ifs" are played out in Lynnie LaLaLand. It has become my own private property, and tax free. If it weren't for Lynnie LaLaLand, most of my fiction would never have been written. (Fiction. A place where it is safe to assume one and some can be investigated safely. lol) It is also the place where many real life problems are resolved specifically by letting the subconscious take over. It is also the place where problems are warred with until victory.

We have a friend who doesn't do that. Can't do that. He's the only person I know who doesn't.
 
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Ever since I can remember I've been able to zone out. For example I'm sitting alone in a coffee shop, noisy chatter around me. I can stare out the window and not notice the noise. Most of the time I'm not thinking of anything just watching the world go by. The only issues with this is when I need to be paying attention. When I was in school most of my report cards would say something like, doesn't focus well, or daydreams, something to that effect.

In my marriage it's caused some arguments because my Husband will say something to me and then I'm supposed to respond and I'll say, what? I guess that would get frustrating, but it's sort of nice to be somewhere and not hear the noise around me.

Does anyone else do this?
Huh?..............
 

Fenner

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Growing up, my family titled my real estate. It's called Lynnie LaLaLand. My husband has accepted it. He finds it amusing sometimes. We're watching TV together and he's talking about a commercial, except, even though I was just watching the same TV and the same commercial, I have no idea what he's talking about. I was in Lynnie LaLaLand. A year later, I notice a commercial and laugh because I know I've seen the commercial often, but it's the first time I notice the commercial. I may watch commercials, but I never watch commercials, unless they're funny or annoying. (Political commercials are usually the latter.)

But it also causes problems. I truly mean to listen to people when they talk, but Lynnie LaLaLand shows up. Hubby sometimes is amused and sometimes annoyed. Add to Lynnie LaLaLand, I also don't like lots of noise. And lots of noise can be the air-conditioner is on, or a fan, or cars driving by, or the TV on as background noise. (He likes the TV on. I don't, but we share the same space, so he can have the TV on whenever. The only time I turn it off once he turns it on is when I see him with his headset on too. So, I miss a word because of the noise. Usually I don't miss it -- merely think it was another word. (One becomes some. Things like that.) And later on when I ask him something, he tells me we already talked about this and he said "one." The problem isn't Lynnie LaLaLand then. It's that I needed to know how many "somes" I was supposed to use for the recipe we were talking about earlier.

I do occupy Lynnie LaLa Land often. Sometimes I have no idea what I'm thinking about. More often I do, but it is the place for personal thought, not share it thought. My "What ifs" are played out in Lynnie LaLaLand. It has become my own private property, and tax free. If it weren't for Lynnie LaLaLand, most of my fiction would never have been written. (Fiction. A place where it is safe to assume one and some can be investigated safely. lol) It is also the place where many real life problems are resolved specifically by letting the subconscious take over. It is also the place where problems are warred with until victory.

We have a friend who doesn't do that. Can't do that. He's the only person I know who doesn't.

I like the name of your tax free zone. :)

My Husband Dave can't do it either. He gets frustrated with me sometimes. But when I am in the middle of something, like the other day I was listening to my voice mail, he starts talking about the game words with friends. I had to hang up because I couldn't hear. I asked what he said and he got mad at me. I told him that he was being rude. He apologized later. So he does annoying things too.
 
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I have a friend who is good at zoning out. I do not believe it is a talent. I believe it has more to do with the dozen or so empty beer cans scattered around his recliner.
 

Fenner

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I have a friend who is good at zoning out. I do not believe it is a talent. I believe it has more to do with the dozen or so empty beer cans scattered around his recliner.

Yeah that would zone anyone out.
 

RickyZ

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Ever since I can remember I've been able to zone out. For example I'm sitting alone in a coffee shop, noisy chatter around me. I can stare out the window and not notice the noise. Most of the time I'm not thinking of anything just watching the world go by. The only issues with this is when I need to be paying attention. When I was in school most of my report cards would say something like, doesn't focus well, or daydreams, something to that effect.

In my marriage it's caused some arguments because my Husband will say something to me and then I'm supposed to respond and I'll say, what? I guess that would get frustrating, but it's sort of nice to be somewhere and not hear the noise around me.

Does anyone else do this?
I'm sorry, what were you saying? I was zoned out ;)
 

p_rehbein

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As my friends accuse me of having a mind that is in a constant state of flux, I don't think it's possible for me

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wwjd_kilden

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I do it all the time. I always thought it was because of my ADD, but maybe it means I'm normal for once :p
 
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Ariel82

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As my friends accuse me of having a mind that is in a constant state of flux, I don't think it's possible for me

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I was going to post something deep and meaningful but got distracted by the elephant. Lol.
 
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Tinuviel

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Yes, I do that too! The problem is when you answer from that state of less-than-half-thereness. (been there, done that, got the t-shirt). It causes some problems...It is a blessing only if we know how to control it. :)
 

BruceWayne

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This is kind of bad, but sometimes I do it when I'm driving. I'll just get lost in thought and then I'll be like, Oh yeah... I'm driving. XD
 

Fenner

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As my friends accuse me of having a mind that is in a constant state of flux, I don't think it's possible for me

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I love Elephants. When I was growing up our local zoo had two Elephants. One was named Penny and she'd stick her trunk out between the bars of her outside enclosure. At that time you were allowed to feed her Elephant food that they sold, and you could touch her trunk. That was absolutely my favorite part of the zoo. Eventually she died, probably from obesity from all the food she was eating, but after she passed they transferred the other elephant probably named Slim because he wouldn't eat the food or stick his trunk out, anyhow they gave him to the Cleveland Zoo. Our zoo didn't have enough space for elephants. They did build this beautiful huge Orangutan exhibit and they're really neat to watch, but I miss the elephants. :(
 
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Ever since I can remember I've been able to zone out. For example I'm sitting alone in a coffee shop, noisy chatter around me. I can stare out the window and not notice the noise. Most of the time I'm not thinking of anything just watching the world go by. The only issues with this is when I need to be paying attention. When I was in school most of my report cards would say something like, doesn't focus well, or daydreams, something to that effect.

In my marriage it's caused some arguments because my Husband will say something to me and then I'm supposed to respond and I'll say, what? I guess that would get frustrating, but it's sort of nice to be somewhere and not hear the noise around me.

Does anyone else do this?
I enjoyed history in school because it was the one subject where I could daydream about what was being taught. I tried to imagine how things were while listening to the material at hand. On another note, people often think I'm not paying attention to them when they're talking because I don't always respond, but truthfully, I'm simply pondering what they've said.
 

Fenner

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This is kind of bad, but sometimes I do it when I'm driving. I'll just get lost in thought and then I'll be like, Oh yeah... I'm driving. XD

I do that too. Especially when I'm alone in the car and I have the music going. It's really easy to do that. Usually when my kid's are in the car I'm breaking up an argument and threatning to shut off the Wi Fi.
 

Fenner

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I enjoyed history in school because it was the one subject where I could daydream about what was being taught. I tried to imagine how things were while listening to the material at hand. On another note, people often think I'm not paying attention to them when they're talking because I don't always respond, but truthfully, I'm simply pondering what they've said.

I think I've pondered before, but I know I've shut my attention span off when someone h
goes on and on. My Brother in law, whom I love very much will talk you're ear off. Sometimes I can't stay in the zone, especially when he's talking about a car or something. I feel bad but it just happens.