Something doesn't feel right

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Have you ever had that feeling that something isn't right? Like, you don't know what it is, but there's just this nagging feeling that there's something wrong and then, you find that everything else around you is getting out of sync. You unintentionally start a fight with someone you value, say the wrong things at the wrong time, or you... forget things and important things too. In more severe cases, you feel nauseous (more like an effect of anxiety) and get stressed by petty things and you just feel frustrated about nothing in particular. Have you all ever felt that before?

How do you recognise what causes it?
How do you pray about it?
How do you carry on?
 
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I am very emotional. My emotions flicker and flare like a wildfire. When I went through rehab, I was always asked how I felt. After rehab, I thought I had to know how I felt all the time. Then I realized what I feel doesn't matter so much as what I do.

Of course, I feel something is wrong at times. Sometimes I'm right. Sometimes I wrong. I still have stuff to do.
 

gb9

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I have a strong desire for things to be " fine ". at times, my emotions and brain throw a fit when things are not " fine ". I have to constantly remind my self that God is in charge, not me, and His definition of " fine " is different than mine. this helps me a lot!!
 
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Yahweh_is_gracious

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...everyday of my life.

I've felt like I've been trapped in some sick version of a parallel Universe since I was a child. There's not a single thing I can do about it except accept that I don't belong and just duck my head and push forward.
 

mar09

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hi abi, right now i have the feeling something's not right, n i know for my eyes' hurting. my eyeglasses have long gone to rest n i must too-). it is late. perhaps i should now n come back another time if possible ha. hope u get ur rest too.
 
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Have you ever had that feeling that something isn't right? Like, you don't know what it is, but there's just this nagging feeling that there's something wrong and then, you find that everything else around you is getting out of sync. You unintentionally start a fight with someone you value, say the wrong things at the wrong time, or you... forget things and important things too. In more severe cases, you feel nauseous (more like an effect of anxiety) and get stressed by petty things and you just feel frustrated about nothing in particular. Have you all ever felt that before?

How do you recognise what causes it?
How do you pray about it?
How do you carry on?
That sounds like symptoms of burnout (stress overload) to me. Time to take some relaxation measures or a some time off if you can.. (if that's what it is) There's also xanax, but that's not really an option... don't even go there..
 
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Agent186165

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"Have you ever had the feeling that something isn't right?" It really sounds like you're talking about our intuition. We've all had the experience of knowing things without any reasoning process. Whether you call it your heart, a gut feeling, a hunch, instinct or intuition, there are things you just know. You don't even know how or why you know, you just do. Intuition, some would say, is inner knowledge that comes from a wellspring of wisdom within that can help you to survive and even thrive. If you want to know more about that just watch a documentary that was released on Sunday, March 26, 2006, called The Secret on either Netflix. I watched that documentary when I was a senior at Wesley Chapel High School on my Xbox360 with Netflix. The law of attraction, the philosophical concept that's discussed in-depth by the authors, philosophers, and scientists in that documentary, has intrigued me ever since.


I'm not very emotional, especially when it come to expressing emotion externally or outwardly. One study suggests that children laugh 400 times a day and adults laugh 15 times a day. I probably laugh 3 times in one month. I don't laugh around people. Not because I don't want to, it's just difficult for me physically to express positive emotions with audible, vocal, expulsions of air. I laugh the most when I'm alone and I have amusing thoughts or I'm watching something amusing the Internet. I'm a happy person, even though my happiness is not always apparent, readily seen, or visible, even though I'm not always laughing and smiling. A wealth of research that shows that laughter is healthy. A study done in 2008 found that even the anticipation of a humorous and positive experience can reduces potentially detrimental stress hormones. Doctor Lee Berk of Loma Linda University [in Loma Linda, California] was the study's team leader researcher. When anticipating laughter subjects experienced lower levels of three stress hormones, cortisol, epinephrine, and dopac. The anticipation of laughter reduced these hormones by 39 percent, 70 percent, and 38 percent, respectively. Smiling can also make you happy. A study done in 2009 by psychologists at the University of Cardiff in Wales found that people whose ability to frown is compromised by cosmetic botox injections are happier, on average, than people who can frown.


Happiness by Randy Alcorn was published on Thursday, October 1, 2015. I read the preview of the book this year and then bought from Amazon on Friday, July 8, 2016. There a lot of good quotes that book. One I've told many people is in the introduction, "Until Christ completely cures us and this world, our happiness will be punctuated by times of great sorrow. But that doesn't mean we can't be predominantly happy in Christ. Being happy as the norm rather than the exception is not based on wishful thinking. It's based on solid facts: God secured our eternal happiness through a cross and an empty tomb. He is with us and in us right this moment. And he wants us to be happy in him." Psalm 16:11 in the English Standard Version says, "You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore." Charles Spurgeon said, "As there is the most heat nearest to the sun, so there is the most happiness nearest to Christ." That scripture verse and quote are on page 87 of Happiness. Augustine said, "He is happy who possess God." He also said, "[God] is the fountain of our happiness, He the end of all our desires." That's on page 88. The Bible has a lot to say about happiness. I would encourage everyone to memorize scripture verses and Christian quotes about happiness and read Happiness by Randy Alcorn.
 

blue_ladybug

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Yeah, something's not right with me. Alot of things aren't right with me. I dunno why and I can't pinpoint the cause. I've wanted another orange cat for so long, and now that I have one, I feel absolutely no joy at all having her. She is aloof, she's a scaredy cat, she sleeps all day and roams all night. She sleeps in the closet because she's a wimpy cat..lol.. She is friendly and likes attention, but only when SHE wants it. She doesn't like to play or be held. She just likes to...sleep. Tequila was always with me, followed me everywhere, loved to play, loved getting and giving attention and she was ALWAYS on the bed with me at night. But Mittens does none of these things. Maybe I just need more time with her, or maybe it's just because I haven't properly grieved over Tequila yet. Whatever it is, it sucks. :/

Another thing that isn't right with me, is my prayer life and reading the bible. I very rarely do these, and again I don't really know why. I prefer to pray silently inside my head, rather than out loud to empty air. And I get distracted (and bored) after literally 2 minutes of reading the bible. If I could focus and get into a routine, that would be nice. BUT every time I try, it's a lousy attempt and never works.
 
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AuntieAnt

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Have you ever had that feeling that something isn't right? Like, you don't know what it is, but there's just this nagging feeling that there's something wrong and then, you find that everything else around you is getting out of sync. You unintentionally start a fight with someone you value, say the wrong things at the wrong time, or you... forget things and important things too. In more severe cases, you feel nauseous (more like an effect of anxiety) and get stressed by petty things and you just feel frustrated about nothing in particular. Have you all ever felt that before?

How do you recognise what causes it?
How do you pray about it?
How do you carry on?
You're certainly not alone, dear. There's plenty of things that can nag & irritate us. Perhaps you're just emotionally tired. Maybe a few too many nagging little things are piling up on you. Cast them all of the Lord and talk to him as you do your friends. He'll not only carry your burden for you, he'll speak to you what you need to hear and give you peace. His truth sets us free. :eek:
 

Fenner

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I think we've all experienced that feeling Abigaile. Whether it's a job that's not working anymore or a friend having trouble or a marriage problem or a relationship problem.

I don't do well when I have to be in a bunch of different places in one day. Doctors appointment and then I have to take the kid's somewhere and then I have a work meeting, I don't do well with that.

Then there's the holidays. Christmas Eve has turned into a late night exhausting event for my family. It's a lot easier now that I'm not hauling two toddlers or babies around. Unless it's a Sunday my Husband works Christmas Eve so It's me going here and there and telling people to get boots on and coats and all that. I've scaled it down, now I'm , we'll get there when we get there. And on Christmas Day I will put out some sandwiches and if anyone wants to come over and watch me eat deviled eggs and watch some movies, then they do. It's a pretty nice tradition.

Back to topic, sorry. If it really feels wrong then it probably is, so follow your intuition.
 
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AuntieAnt

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Yeah, something's not right with me. Alot of things aren't right with me. I dunno why and I can't pinpoint the cause. I've wanted another orange cat for so long, and now that I have one, I feel absolutely no joy at all having her. She is aloof, she's a scaredy cat, she sleeps all day and roams all night. She sleeps in the closet because she's a wimpy cat..lol.. She is friendly and likes attention, but only when SHE wants it. She doesn't like to play or be held. She just likes to...sleep. Tequila was always with me, followed me everywhere, loved to play, loved getting and giving attention and she was ALWAYS on the bed with me at night. But Mittens does none of these things. Maybe I just need more time with her, or maybe it's just because I haven't properly grieved over Tequila yet. Whatever it is, it sucks. :/

Another thing that isn't right with me, is my prayer life and reading the bible. I very rarely do these, and again I don't really know why. I prefer to pray silently inside my head, rather than out loud to empty air. And I get distracted (and bored) after literally 2 minutes of reading the bible. If I could focus and get into a routine, that would be nice. BUT every time I try, it's a lousy attempt and never works.
Awwwww, I know what you mean. After my beloved orange tabby cat Azer was put down, our other cat Solomon went into depression & cried for him constantly. I was left in a deep funk, too. My kids brought home a black kitten to cheer Solomon up, but we soon discovered the kitten was a little terror. She did nothing but try to torment Solomon and attack him. I was so disappointed in her.

Nothing we tried seemed to tame her wild personality. Finally Solomon had enough of her antics and began flipping her to the ground on her back like a pro wrestler. She would scream and run away, only to come back and face more of his wrath. It got to be really funny to watch.

Within a few weeks, Solomon had her total respect and they started to become buddies. She grew up to be such a loving kitty and her wild child days were over for good.

I'm sure your kitty cat will eventually adjust and become your best buddy. Maybe some catnip or a new toy will help. :)
 
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SteelToedKodiak

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Have you ever had that feeling that something isn't right?
Could be that the "something" has never been right, it's just you are now recognizing it? That's been a common theme throughout the greater portion of my life experience.
 
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this new world has deformed/distorted what Jesus had in mind for us...

how many have the Faith and Strength and heart to depart from this world's bondage?

this earth grows dim for the ways and rules of the King have become a bondage for so many
and have created great delusion for the adversary to plant his horns and tale...

for those of us who love and serve and repent and over-come, the curse of the false churches
will have no power over us...

we who truly love Him are God Almighty's recruits and we will glorify/serve Him with our actions unto the end...
 
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Thank you all for sharing. I appreciate it. I'm not a very emotional person (heck I may be a little insensitive by today's younger generation's definition). And I'm usually peaceful within. It's just that when things around you start going haywire, you tend to see if the problem is within. And try to *fix* it. Maybe really I just have to 'cast my cares'
 
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SteelToedKodiak

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Thank you all for sharing. I appreciate it. I'm not a very emotional person (heck I may be a little insensitive by today's younger generation's definition). And I'm usually peaceful within. It's just that when things around you start going haywire, you tend to see if the problem is within. And try to *fix* it. Maybe really I just have to 'cast my cares'
When I was younger, I read Ecclesiastes and it horrified me. Now I read it and see it's wisdom and application. Food for thought, the only thing that changed was time and me.
 
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When I was younger, I read Ecclesiastes and it horrified me. Now I read it and see it's wisdom and application. Food for thought, the only thing that changed was time and me.
YES! the last time I read Ecclesiastes I ended up in some existential depression for a few months wondering what on earth I was supposed to do (cause I thought I already done the Ecc 12:13). I should read it again soon.