Blain and Stephanies future wedding fantasy thread

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I_am_Canadian

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Dude, even if your fantasy doesnt happen, I hope you 2 will be very happy together and i wish you guys all the best.
May the Lord make his face to shine upon you and keep you and may he greatly bless the 2 of you.

Blain said:
After talking to my artsie bug about marriage today I just wanted to write down my fantasy of being with her.

I don't want a big fancy wedding but the wedding itself will be amazing if God ever is willing.
I can see us in a beauty cool area close to night with small streams running everywhere making the most quiet rushing water sounds and fireflies everywhere lighting up the night with the stars and a cool breeze that feels wonderful on your skin candles everywhere for light that give off a sweet aroma and everything just has that simple and blissful feel to it while radiating beauty and joy.

As steph and I get up to make our vows I look at her dead in the eyes and she looks away real quick blushing but then looking back into my eyes and as for our rings being the silly goof balls we are instead of rings( although we will give each other rings afterwards) we are each hold a stuffed toy mine is a cute pikachu in a tux with a top hat hers is an eevee with a wedding gown and tiara and after exchanging them and say I do we kiss and begin as one.

This is but one of the fantasies I have had when imagining being able to marry her and it always makes me feel warm inside. But like family Marriage is very important to me I will not make those vows unless I know in my heart I will keep them no matter what. Most people make these vows but when times hard and their at each others throats those vows mean nothing and are thrown out the window.

I don't expect things to always be easy I have grown up seeing what marriage is these days how little it matters to people how easy it is for divorce and this isn't what God taught me marriage is about. I didn't learn what marriage is from my mom or dad or from the people I should have learned it from I learned it from God directly.

I know that love is not always that lovey dovey happy go lucky everything is perfect kind of thing in fact love is long suffering and has to be because love has it's ups and downs and we may even be at each others throats sometimes our bond my bend maybe even severely but it will never break because I remember the vows I made. Even if for whatever reason she was unfaithful with another man which I highly doubt I would still love her and would not divorce her because I didn't marry a human that makes mistakes sometimes I married the heart I knew and fell madly in love with being human and making mistakes just comes with the package ♥
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MissAfricanNproud2B

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That is just mind blowing, Blain see what your heart desires will realize because don't Jesus Christ say that He realizes all the desires of one's heart, like He did in king David's life?:D God shall bless your union and that's the most important thing!!
 
ArtsieSteph

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I wonder if it would be better to make these little pokeballs instead of the like mason jar terrariums.....
 
ArtsieSteph

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Also hilariously imagine these on the glasses at the toast. (I'd toast sparking cider personally)
 
ArtsieSteph

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OH MY GOSH I HAD THE BEST IDEA FOR THE PIKACHUS. Sometimes people do photos of the engagement rings right? Use the pikachus, only them hanging/using the rings to lean on for the picture! ❤️
 
ArtsieSteph

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I have to laugh because I am in a constant battle of how much pokemon to put into it and how much just regular wedding stuff
 
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I love your fantasy! Much better than my real wedding. I picked him up on his lunch hour we went to the justice of the peace, I took him back to work. It was time to get my licence renewed so my new driver's license was my wedding picture... Sad but a true story...lol;)...
 
ArtsieSteph

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mcubed said:
I love your fantasy! Much better than my real wedding. I picked him up on his lunch hour we went to the justice of the peace, I took him back to work. It was time to get my licence renewed so my new driver's license was my wedding picture... Sad but a true story...lol;)...
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You do do what you can do! If God has it planned so that we end up doing that as well so be it
 
Blain

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ArtsieSteph said:
I have to laugh because I am in a constant battle of how much pokemon to put into it and how much just regular wedding stuff
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Same here sweetie like I totally want to go all out with cute nerdy pokemon stuff but then I'm like what if we go overboard with it lol
 
blue_ladybug

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Not to derail the thread, but...

Steph, on Wordpress, if I were to start a blog, would I need to do coding? Cuz I dunno what it is or how to do it.. lol
 
ArtsieSteph

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blue_ladybug said:
Not to derail the thread, but...

Steph, on Wordpress, if I were to start a blog, would I need to do coding? Cuz I dunno what it is or how to do it.. lol
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No problem! I can send you a pm with all the stuff because it would be a long post XD
 
ArtsieSteph

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Blain said:
Same here sweetie like I totally want to go all out with cute nerdy pokemon stuff but then I'm like what if we go overboard with it lol
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Hahaha yeah. It's kinda hard with "themed weddings" not to go super overboard. Like I like the little touches like having the dressed up wedding plushies, the pokemon terrariums for the table settings, maybe some pokemon themed cake topper, but the rest would probably be more rustic/woodsie kind of feel.

And the thing is at the end, whenever God wills this can happen, our financial situation may be that we can't have a reception at all. Or maybe just a small church ceremony with a few family members. God knows. It's like, God is gonna have it be how it happens if it's His will. (And obviously I hope it is ♥)
 
Blain

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ArtsieSteph said:
Hahaha yeah. It's kinda hard with "themed weddings" not to go super overboard. Like I like the little touches like having the dressed up wedding plushies, the pokemon terrariums for the table settings, maybe some pokemon themed cake topper, but the rest would probably be more rustic/woodsie kind of feel.

And the thing is at the end, whenever God wills this can happen, our financial situation may be that we can't have a reception at all. Or maybe just a small church ceremony with a few family members. God knows. It's like, God is gonna have it be how it happens if it's His will. (And obviously I hope it is ♥)
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Even if we were getting married with below the basics just the fact that you are there and that we are getting married makes it more beautiful than the most grand of weddings.
 
ArtsieSteph

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As I often said, this is dreaming. But it's fun to do so XD

Speaking of dreamy! I'm thinking of cutting my hair again, and I wanted to look at some pixie "wedding looks" and I found some nice ones!




 
ArtsieSteph

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Blain said:
Even if we were getting married with below the basics just the fact that you are there and that we are getting married makes it more beautiful than the most grand of weddings.
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And this is one of the many reasons you are the love of my life
 
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