Do You Have a Problem With People

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I have never gotten along well with people who endlessly push their religion on me or their views and I am talking about the ones who show no respect for your own beliefs. They disregard you or your feelings in order to tell you what is to them the truth. I understand the need to tell people the good word but there is a right and wrong way to do everything.
Yea people are not suppose to mercilessly push their beliefs on others. However there are people who have a strong passion for God they don't want the person they are preaching towards to end up in Hell. While their method of spreading the word may be off their hearts are in the right place. Yes we are to be considerate to peoples feelings but at the end of the day none of our feelings matter in comparison to the truth. I'm sure people who already condemned wish they listened to the truth than being caught up in their feelings
 

EmilyNats

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I like chocolate but I honestly don't know how people can drink coffee. I've tried it before and thought it tasted horrible. Please don't hate me. :(
Heretic!

*whips out the pitchfork*

Jk, jk... seriously though, I was still an infant when dad started putting coffee in my bottle.
 
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Osina

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Yea people are not suppose to mercilessly push their beliefs on others. However there are people who have a strong passion for God they don't want the person they are preaching towards to end up in Hell. While their method of spreading the word may be off their hearts are in the right place. Yes we are to be considerate to peoples feelings but at the end of the day none of our feelings matter in comparison to the truth. I'm sure people who already condemned wish they listened to the truth than being caught up in their feelings
I understand the part of being saved believe me. I am however very mindful of people with anxiety and depression who when told these things can have a bad reaction to it.
 

Tommy379

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I like chocolate but I honestly don't know how people can drink coffee. I've tried it before and thought it tasted horrible. Please don't hate me. :(
We should start a club.
 
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People who think they know everything are especially irritating to those of us who do.
 

BrokenSparrow

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Heretic!

*whips out the pitchfork*

Jk, jk... seriously though, I was still an infant when dad started putting coffee in my bottle.
LOL. You started at a younger age than I did. My grandmother gave me coffee to dip my chocolate chip cookies in instead of milk:p
 

JesusLives

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Only the ones that are breathing........ joking...

Can't stand arrogant, liars, bullies..... top of my ignore and avoid list....
 
Aug 16, 2016
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LOL. You started at a younger age than I did. My grandmother gave me coffee to dip my chocolate chip cookies in instead of milk:p
Sounds type nasty lol but im not a coffee person so
 
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This is kind of a hard one to say. I usually don't have a problem with people, but I find they usually have several problems with me. I am usually pretty accepting of people despite their shortcomings, but yet my biggest shortcoming is I have a hard time trusting people too. It's a very fine needle to thread this mentality of mine towards people.
 

BrokenSparrow

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Sounds type nasty lol but im not a coffee person so
Yeah, I prefer milk with my cookies.

Coffee and cookies wasn't the best thing ever, but it was apparently good enough to turn me in to a caffeine addict :(

So now sometimes, I'm one of those people I don't like...The one's all hyped up on caffeine, talking 90 miles a minute, and trying to get other people to speed up too:p
 
Feb 24, 2015
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I have a real problem, it is people take time to know, listen to, and feel
what is their way of living and being.

When you know someone well, just a small change in mannerism, can throw
things.

Knowing someones love language is hard, what they need and the support
you can provide.

Talk to a young adult son or daughter just before exams.
XXX - say nothing, do nothing, be nothing is just ok. zzzzzzz

On results day, "Well done" "That is disappointing" "Yahoo"
That is real empathy to choose the right one at the right time.
fine.

The answer is tread carefully...
 

Blain

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People have had problems with people since the very beginning and even the most loving of Christian will have problems with people but it's how you handle and respond to it that matters.

Types of people I cannot stand- Racists people who make fun of and judge others for their appearances sexists and christians who love to boast of themselves and preach of love yet are like hunters seeking to strike the lesser deer
 
Feb 28, 2016
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is it when we come to a point to where we remember our own specific 'worldly-faults', and can truly see
how they affected others and made so many un-welcome, drastic changes in our own lives?!?! that weren't good?
but we both think this is very important to share, (it's when we understand/feel how our 'old-behaviour' must have
broken our Saviour's Heart) we come to realize/feel in our hearts just what He did for us,
out of His Holy/Love/Pity...tears...

when we begin to care/Love what He thinks and what would make Him
pleased with us, and yes, HAPPY, then things really begin to change for the good, in our lives...
 

Dude653

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Treat me with respect and courtesy and you will get the same in return.. pretty simple
 

maxwel

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Treat me with respect and courtesy and you will get the same in return.. pretty simple
What if I like you ok, but...

I sorta want to pick on you just because you're a liberal and picking on you is fun?
 
Feb 28, 2016
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Treat me with respect and courtesy and you will get the same in return.. pretty simple
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what's the 'challenge' in that, Dude?!?!...what Christ requires of us is NOT simple, actually, it's
quite a LEAP for our 'old-man-ways'...

MATT. 5:44-45-46-47-48.
But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you,
and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?

Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.

That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for He maketh His sun to rise on the evil
and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.




For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?
 
Feb 28, 2016
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max,

hadn't thought of you so much as a 'picker', but more of a 'plucker-outer'...:):cool: