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Demi777

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Good Morning/night all

I wanted to apologize to all here that ive been rude to/about. Ive noticed that in the last about 2 weeks (maybe longer) I have not been so much straight forward, but been getting quite rude in the Forums. Which that is not my right and I'm sorry that Ive been reacting that way.
And no, Im not gonna make excuses for it

God bless you all and have a nice day/week etc!!! ((huuuugs))
 
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I can't imagine u being rude... feisty maybe.. but ok :)
 
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Though I wouldn't consider you to be rude in comparison to other people on here it's good you decided to apologise for it. Some people have a combination of rudeness & pride and won't apologise even if they know they were rude.
 

Demi777

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lol well if I look at my last few comments in the teens forum and some others where I said things like ''how stupid do u gotta be duuuuuuh' ya ive been a bit rude lately. havent had myself much under control lately and I took time with God and strongly felt like I should apologize

Though I wouldn't consider you to be rude in comparison to other people on here it's good you decided to apologise for it. Some people have a combination of rudeness & pride and won't apologise even if they know they were rude.
 
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lol well if I look at my last few comments in the teens forum and some others where I said things like ''how stupid do u gotta be duuuuuuh' ya ive been a bit rude lately. havent had myself much under control lately and I took time with God and strongly felt like I should apologize
You're a good person, Demi. :)
 
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lol well if I look at my last few comments in the teens forum and some others where I said things like ''how stupid do u gotta be duuuuuuh' ya ive been a bit rude lately. havent had myself much under control lately and I took time with God and strongly felt like I should apologize
lol. Well I know people who says those type of things jokingly. But depending on the person that it's towards they could take it another way so i understand what you mean.
 

Demi777

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Ive just been getting annoyed and frustrated easily lol You and zero should sing me some songs to calm me down. That would surely help me bunches hehe

lol. Well I know people who says those type of things jokingly. But depending on the person that it's towards they could take it another way so i understand what you mean.
 
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missy2014

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Ive just been getting annoyed and frustrated easily lol You and zero should sing me some songs to calm me down. That would surely help me bunches hehe
"carrot cake we all like carrot cake la la la la "
 
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missy2014

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and Demi maybe is gonnaa.. give.. me.. some.. kinda .. now
 

BillG

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Good Morning/night all

I wanted to apologize to all here that ive been rude to/about. Ive noticed that in the last about 2 weeks (maybe longer) I have not been so much straight forward, but been getting quite rude in the Forums. Which that is not my right and I'm sorry that Ive been reacting that way.
And no, Im not gonna make excuses for it

God bless you all and have a nice day/week etc!!! ((huuuugs))
I have not seen any of your posts as I'm a newbie.
I just wanted to say that you have shown a humble spirit that sadly a lot of believers lack.

God bless you Demi.

P.s we have a saying over here "I'm with stupid" funnily enough it tends to be said by people I'm with at the time
 
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Hey Demi,

I haven't been here long,
but I know that I love you...

Here's a song for ya' !
Fran


[video=youtube;Kq4s0LlBaig]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kq4s0LlBaig[/video]
 
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Ariel82

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Ive just been getting annoyed and frustrated easily lol You and zero should sing me some songs to calm me down. That would surely help me bunches hehe
They should record, post on YouTube and share to calm us all.
 

Yeraza_Bats

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I have certainly been....snarky here on the forums before.

While I dont think every single time has been undeserving, I do understand the whole becoming frustrated with certain things, and its pretty easy to let yourself get a bit rude because of it. But its at least a good step when we can slow ourselves down and change our focus, and get away from what is frustrating us.

If you are feeling frustrated, its never really a bad thing to take a week or two away from the site. Ive done it before, here and other places that deal with serious issues and discussions. You definitely dont want to let it become a habit.
 

JosephsDreams

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Though I wouldn't consider you to be rude in comparison to other people on here it's good you decided to apologise for it. Some people have a combination of rudeness & pride and won't apologise even if they know they were rude.
About 10 months ago I apologised to two people specifically. I thought at the core of the issues I had a proper perspective, but I definitely could have expressed things better, or maybe even just kept quiet.
Neither one acknowledged. Which is fine. At least I did what I needed to. I pray and hope they do not have hardness of heart toward me.
 

Demi777

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LOL sis u crack me up thats so cuuute!! HUUUGGLES hehe


Hey Demi,

I haven't been here long,
but I know that I love you...

Here's a song for ya' !
Fran


[video=youtube;Kq4s0LlBaig]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kq4s0LlBaig[/video]
 

JosephsDreams

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lol well if I look at my last few comments in the teens forum and some others where I said things like ''how stupid do u gotta be duuuuuuh' ya ive been a bit rude lately. havent had myself much under control lately and I took time with God and strongly felt like I should apologize
You know sometimes out of the mouths of babes. I know your not a child, and you have certainly shown wisdom here, but your still so young.
It is good for us all to be reminded that being vulnerable, open and humble is a trait God loves.

Yes it means we can lose credibility or be dismissed in certain peoples eyes. And yes it can wreck what our self image of how we view ourselves. It can even get us down for a hour or a day.
Sometimes it can be a waning sign to change our way of thinking.

I love children for that reason. So honest, not pretentious, not desperately holding onto their masks.

I would prefer all that then to have the disapproval of God.

Also, a Christian who truly has a relationship with God will not hastily judge another person in condemnation or mock another.
 

WineRose

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Good Morning/night all

I wanted to apologize to all here that ive been rude to/about. Ive noticed that in the last about 2 weeks (maybe longer) I have not been so much straight forward, but been getting quite rude in the Forums. Which that is not my right and I'm sorry that Ive been reacting that way.
And no, Im not gonna make excuses for it

God bless you all and have a nice day/week etc!!! ((huuuugs))
I have only seen a couple of your posts recently, but don't sweat it. I too can be a little edgy and jerky at times, both online and offline. It's what all of us do at one point or another. Don't beat yourself up over that.

I'm not sure if you want to hug a rose, though. I have some sharp thorns here and there...
 
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Good Morning/night all

I wanted to apologize to all here that ive been rude to/about. Ive noticed that in the last about 2 weeks (maybe longer) I have not been so much straight forward, but been getting quite rude in the Forums. Which that is not my right and I'm sorry that Ive been reacting that way.
And no, Im not gonna make excuses for it

God bless you all and have a nice day/week etc!!! ((huuuugs))
I would give your post a "like," but I hadn't noticed you being rude.