Why Church Doesn't Need Any More Coffee Bars.

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I've read the link, IMO the person who wrote that is hurting from the loss, sometimes when people are hurting, not all the time the direct their thoughts in a constructive way.
 

Oncefallen

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How, exactly, does sitting and drinking a beverage replace Jesus? I kind of remember Him cooking some fish for the guys... feeding thousands... having meals with all kinds of people, in all sorts of places. Eating and fellowship seemed to be sort of a big thing with Him.
The heart of the blog seems to be digging at churches that make a bigger deal on their social media pages about their coffee bar, etc. than what Christ is doing in and through them as a fellowship.

[FONT=&quot]I scroll down my social media feed and I see churches with pictures of their coffee bars, their concert like settings, their graphics, their trendy sermon series and those don't appeal to me. I want to see how Jesus has changed a person's life. I want to see the power of prayer. I want to see how the Word of God can be applied to one's life. I want to see how Jesus can help the hurting. I want to see how Jesus can heal the sick. I want to see how the broken heart was restored. I want to see how the mourners were comforted. I want to see how lives were restored. Rather than posting pictures of coffee bars I would rather see testimonies of the power of God. I am thankful I attend a church that focuses on prayer and the word of God. I am thankful that in one of the darkest moments of my life I knew I could count on others to pray for me and with me. [/FONT]
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Dude653

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yeah..... people sitting around having Fellowship while drinking coffee... I'm not seeing the problem here
 

Corbinscam

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I've never met a person who was against coffee bars etc in a church who wasn't also legalistic and judgemental.

A coffee bar should never replace the cross but I see no biblical reason to avoid using modern tools of socialization.

But I may be way off :p
 
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I've never met a person who was against coffee bars etc in a church who wasn't also legalistic and judgemental.

A coffee bar should never replace the cross but I see no biblical reason to avoid using modern tools of socialization.

But I may be way off :p
Interestingly, the same people would have no objection to a paved parking lot, a good roof over their heads, A/C and heating, water fountains, bathrooms, microphones and a PA system, ample lighting, maybe carpeting, and pews or seats to sit on, all arranged in theater fashion..... and maybe even a dedicated organ and Communion paraphanelia. (Just to name a few of the things Jesus never employed.)
 

maxwel

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I think we're missing the point.

The author of the article was showing that a horrible tragedy made her realize that most churches are FOCUSING THEIR ATTENTION on silly, pointless, superficial things.

I think she has a good point.
 

Corbinscam

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I think we're missing the point.

The author of the article was showing that a horrible tragedy made her realize that most churches are FOCUSING THEIR ATTENTION on silly, pointless, superficial things.

I think she has a good point.
Ok, I read it just so I knew I wasn't way off.
I can sympathize with her. I understand her point. But her story stinks of hurt and anger because churches let her down. I sat in the same shape in a church that would spend an entire service condemning coffee bars in churches. The issue is not the coffee bar at all. The issue is the hearts of the people sitting inside the church. The issue isn't the means of reaching out it's the lack of reaching.

Again, I get her point. I just disagree with her approach.
 
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I've never met a person who was against coffee bars etc in a church who wasn't also legalistic and judgemental.

A coffee bar should never replace the cross but I see no biblical reason to avoid using modern tools of socialization.

But I may be way off :p
I haven't either, I don't see a issue with it if coffee bars in a church helps to get folks coming to hear what Christ is doing isn't bad either, probably better than folks going to Starbucks or places that have coffee bars where most of the talk isn't about Christ. So in my opinion if that coffee bar has brought folks in,, the end result would be positive. That ol saying (one man's trash can be another man's treasure) not everybody is going feel the same on what a church should be or act is going to line up.
 

maxwel

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I have a personal challenge for everyone.

How about we all READ an article, before we comment on it.



That would clear up a lot, as a starting point.
 
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I have a personal challenge for everyone.

How about we all READ an article, before we comment on it.



That would clear up a lot, as a starting point.
That sounds like a good idea but that wouldnt change a thing, that's like reading the bible, ten people can read one verse and each may have a different view of it because of experience and how that one verse fits in their life.
 

maxwel

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That sounds like a good idea but that wouldnt change a thing, that's like reading the bible, ten people can read one verse and each may have a different view of it because of experience and how that one verse fits in their life.

Having different views on the ACTUAL INFORMATION is better than just IMAGINING THE INFORMATION.

So yes, it would change a thing.

It would mean we're all discussing ACTUAL REALITY, instead of just IMAGINING.




The fact we have different views doesn't mean we should intentionally strive to be as ignorant as possible.

Geesh.
 
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I have a personal challenge for everyone.

How about we all READ an article, before we comment on it.
That would clear up a lot, as a starting point.
Exactly. Lol

We have a big flashy new church, coffee bar, auditorium, lighting etc.
My OP said they have their uses, but shouldn't replace Jesus.

I get where the writer of the article is coming from.
The church is a great meeting place, the coffee bar is a useful thing to have, to
socialise, meet up. The coffee bar in my own church is open 5 days a week 9.30 - 2.30pm
serving drinks sandwiches, cakes etc as good as any Starbucks. I've often met up there
with friends myself.

The coffee bar is often used as a venue to share concerns, to meet for prayer, to
formulate ideas, put together bible studies, share ideas, make friends and generally
share life.

I suppose though that problems can sneak in if we "invite people to see how great our coffee
bar is" but don't show them Jesus. Jesus is the answer, not a coffee bar.

Over the last few years I've had many problems looking after my elderly aunt.
Some people thinking inviting someone out for a break to the coffee bar and meeting up for a
piece of chocolate cake is the answer. While I like chocolate cake as much as the next person
and a creamy cappuccino, it's not the answer. It may potentially be the start of the answer. But
the answer is actually found in human beings who follow the example of Jesus.

A coffee and slab of chocolate cake, can't offer practical help, but some people think it does and
they think they have done their bit by buying you a coffee.

A cup of coffee, is unable to give you a lift to hospital to visit a sick relative.
A cup of coffee won't help you move house.
A cup of coffee cannot tell you the gospel.

Equally church adverts/people who say, come and look at our digital lighting effects,
big stage, refurbed arena, come and clap your hands and jump up and down to the music etc,
miss out something vital - Jesus.

I get where the blogger is coming from, in our bigger, better, brighter, all singing all
dancing, sparkling coffee bar churches. We need to ensure Jesus remains the centre stage.

That might be Jesus and what He has for us, what He continues to do. It might be Jesus in the
flesh, the helping hand here, the practical work there, the listening sympathetic ear, the
dropping off a bag of groceries etc.

When the chips are down you don't need a cup of coffee, you need Jesus. If he happens to
turn up with a cup of coffee then that's ok. But the coffee on its own doesn't work.
 
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Having different views on the ACTUAL INFORMATION is better than just IMAGINING THE INFORMATION.

So yes, it would change a thing.

It would mean we're all discussing ACTUAL REALITY, instead of just IMAGINING.




The fact we have different views doesn't mean we should intentionally strive to be as ignorant as possible.

Geesh.

Well I hear yea, but when anybody brings disapproval of what another church is doing in their own building and then says thank God my church isn't like that, well what's that saying the blogger doesn't believe God is working in that church because the church has a coffee bar, a band, etc.. Reading between the lines can sometimes reveal a person's true intent. just because the blogger has her view doesn't mean it's true.

There's two sides to a coin. If the church was devil worshiping or putting out completely false doctrine then yea that is not good. But to bash the coffe bar church really what good can come from that.

I'm not for a lot of different church doms out there but You won't hear me saying Thank God for my church and not theirs because I know God works in mysterious ways and He is working to change people's hearts, any where, any time, any place.
 

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Well I hear yea, but when anybody brings disapproval of what another church is doing in their own building and then says thank God my church isn't like that, well what's that saying the blogger doesn't believe God is working in that church because the church has a coffee bar, a band, etc.. Reading between the lines can sometimes reveal a person's true intent. just because the blogger has her view doesn't mean it's true.

There's two sides to a coin. If the church was devil worshiping or putting out completely false doctrine then yea that is not good. But to bash the coffe bar church really what good can come from that.

I'm not for a lot of different church doms out there but You won't hear me saying Thank God for my church and not theirs because I know God works in mysterious ways and He is working to change people's hearts, any where, any time, any place.

"Well I hear ya, but"


No.

You just took my quote, switched the topic, then continued to argue as if it was about something I said.

No.

You're trying to debate a topic with me which I NEVER MENTIONED in that quote.

No.

This post has nothing to do with my quote... you need to go debate this new topic with a new person.

NO.


JUST NO.
 
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Corbinscam

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I have a personal challenge for everyone.

How about we all READ an article, before we comment on it.



That would clear up a lot, as a starting point.
Reading it changed absolutely nothing for me.....
I get your point but the author is still taking out human flaws on coffee bars....
 
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this is the 'first' that we have heard of 'coffee-bars'...is this a BUSINESS, or is it a FREE thing
where people can HELP and SERVE one another? do they dance there?

the problem for us is in the hype and the myriad of 'NEW-WAYS' to attract/draw
people into what ever the brand of 'belief system it is'?

obviously this woman was greatly let-down by her church, sounds like they are
going for the gold and not the 'hearts'...we'll pass...

it sounds like a competition among denominations...
 
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I can see it now: "You're sittin' here drinking Holy Coffee in a bona-fied CHURCH right now, and By God, if you think I'm just going to listen to you and become your friend over the next few weeks, have you got yourself another think coming!" "You're here to get preached at, and I don't care if you like it or not, I'M TELLIN' YOU ABOUT JESUS. Now shut up and get saved by me." LOL
 
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I can see it now: "You're sittin' here drinking Holy Coffee in a bona-fied CHURCH right now, and By God, if you think I'm just going to listen to you and become your friend over the next few weeks, have you got yourself another think coming!" "You're here to get preached at, and I don't care if you like it or not, I'M TELLIN' YOU ABOUT JESUS. Now shut up and get saved by me." LOL

Hey that might just work, have you tried it out. :)