I mean no disrespect to this forum. I don't have many friends myself. I have a couple. But as Ive come here for a few years I have noticed much about this forum. I could be wrong but I feel like 85 percent of the people that come here, A) do not have any friends which is why they are here in the first place. 2) tend to be wrapped up in their heads, absorbed in their thoughts. And tend to overanalyze people and situations way too much. 3) exhibit a highly religious front and act overly spiritual to compensate for their short comings. 4) tend to be wise in their own eyes.
You see. There is a difference between being spiritual and being religious. Religious people exhibit fake spiritual front to please man and gain the acceptance and recognition of man. Spiritual people are only out to please God.
I say this not to say I am better than everyone here. Or that I am perfect myself. But I feel like the people here need to hear this.
Go outside more often. There is a big world outside of this forum waiting for you to take advantage of it and enjoy life, build meaningful relationships, and even get married. I know its not always easy to make new friends. But go outside and talk to people more often. You will make friends if you trust God and live a humble and content life at the same time. Do not become desperate for friends or feel bad because you are alone. Follow the word and be content and humble and people will naturally be drawn to you.
Go to church. Not just to worship God. Join a group. If the church doesn't have one go to another one.
Keep coming to the forum. Just don't let this be your only outlet. I see a great amount of people here are wise in their own eyes as the bible says. And they aren't as wise as they think they are. I don't think of myself a wise. But I know that the majority here aren't either. At least not as wise as they think they are. Please don't take this as a disrespect to the forum. The bible says the bruises of a friend are better than the kisses of an enemy. Consider me a friend. I'm telling you to get off your computers and go outside. This may make you feel bad, it may not but its something many people here need to hear. I like coming here. But I realize many of the people are way to enveloped in this forum. And if they would just humble theirselves and go out and conquer their fears of the world then I think they would lead much happier and fulflilling lives. Sorry if I seem insulting. But I see way too many people here that need to hear this.