truth....

ive had a rough life so far (im still young) and ive talked to some people about it. we started talking about marriage for some reason or another and thats when i started wondering, are you supposed to tell your spouse everything? what about your fiance or boyfriend? how much and when are you supposed to talk about important things? im really unsure because of experiences in my own life.... i have a hard time trusting people, especially guys. and i often pull away from relationships. ive tried to read the bible and pray about it but i still do it. my friendships arent that great because of my trust problems. will it ruin a good relationship later? ive decided not to date because of it, but i do want to get married someday....maybe. help.

I think when it comes to confiding in your spouse or significant other that's between you and them. As for trusting others i would say don't give your trust out lightly in fact if i'm not mistaken Jesus didn't trust anyone. We are people and people break trust. When they do that its up to you to decide if you can forgive them and let them earn your trust back. No trusting someone you are connected to more intimately than others can cause problems for them. They will feel like you don't respect them or don't like them or just really bother them when they feel like they've acted trustworthy towards you. Continue praying about it and i'll keep you in my prayers as well. God bless you

thank you for the advice. previous relationships have ended badly because of the trust i cannot seem to give. my last relationship ended because the guy i was dating for years thought that i didnt like him and that i was just using him. but i wasnt. because of the trust thing ive noticed that i take a long time before i will date someone and i cant show love as freely or easily as some people. physical affection is like impossible for me to show. i know thats terrible but i cant help it....ive prayed for this for years, and i will continue to do so. i just wish people would be more patient with me. im not that bad...

most people your age dont have patience. not wanting to show physical affection could relate to not being able to trust or give trust. I think if you find someone you can trust and have affection for. I think if you find a guy like that you'll be able to express physical affection

hahah you make it sound like im a little child compared to you. im wise beyond my years and maybe mature...somewhat. and heres another deal....not to give christian guys a bad wrap or something but some guys ive meet that claim to be christian end up not acting like one, at all. theyve lied to me and its happened plenty of times. i dont know it ill ever find a guy i can trust. it seems like they all act the same to me. thats why im having a hard time with them i guess. also i dont have a very good "father figure" besides God.....plus no one knows my story/testimony.

You should give your testimony ^_^ I think there is a page for that. A lot of people who profess to be christian arent and all they do is drag our master's name through the mud with the way they act

i dont think my testimony is complete...maybe ill wait a little longer....