you are very Blessed, Ariel,
and among other things, to have a group of TRUE-loved-ones-friends-in-Christ, to support you
whether you are 'up-or-down', is so rare to all who live on this planet...
just a personal share,
when we have a very special connection with others who trust us enough to tell us their
deepest and darkest feelings, 'well, almost', and ask us what is the right thing to do or
what would 'you do'??? we take this as an OPEN INVITATION for us to TELL-it-like-IT-IS...
yes, they would like you mostly to keep just quiet and NOT say a WORD, but JUST LISTEN, guess what?
this is not the way it works with those who LOVE you and don't care if you get mad or not!!!
we will brave the 'storm', ride it out, and accept what ever comes...
well, as it turns-out, 'when it isn't what they wanted to hear', then we, hub and me, are
usually 'banned' for a while, sometimes forever...this is a part of our JOB that
is always a bummer, but knowing the results for 'later-on', make it all so worth-while,
temporary LOSS and all...oh Yes, that 'old-time-religion-Love, will always see/get us through...