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I'm not saying all men are like this, but enough are that it really seems to be a man-thing. I'm just trying to see if any guys can help me figure out the logic going on inside a man's head on this. (And feel free to answer even if you don't have a wife, because I'm pretty sure, somewhere in your life you did have a woman give you a very puzzled look when this happened, so that counts too. lol)
Man gets unexpected, unexplained malady, bad enough to stop him from doing what he planned. (Knee blows up so bad he can't bend it. Indigestion so bad he can't lie down. Rash so bad there are blisters of puss throughout it, and it hurts like... well, like shingles, once he finds out what it is. Something blocking his vision in the center of his eye.)
Man-thing. "If this doesn't get better by next week, I'll see a doctor."
Why? I mean take that same man, and have the same malady happen to his wife, and he's making her put on her coat to see the doctor immediately. And if the doctor isn't available immediately, then there is always the ER. BUT, if it's him, "I'll see what happens in the next 4-7 days (FOUR months) before deciding if it's worth seeing a doctor. No big thing."
That's the reality. What are you thinking that you aren't saying to the wife? (And probably what you don't want to say to the doctor either.)
Oh, and since you know what you're thinking -- your strategy for this chess game -- do you know what would work for the wife to counter that move? What can we possibly say that would make you change your mind?
Man gets unexpected, unexplained malady, bad enough to stop him from doing what he planned. (Knee blows up so bad he can't bend it. Indigestion so bad he can't lie down. Rash so bad there are blisters of puss throughout it, and it hurts like... well, like shingles, once he finds out what it is. Something blocking his vision in the center of his eye.)
Man-thing. "If this doesn't get better by next week, I'll see a doctor."
Why? I mean take that same man, and have the same malady happen to his wife, and he's making her put on her coat to see the doctor immediately. And if the doctor isn't available immediately, then there is always the ER. BUT, if it's him, "I'll see what happens in the next 4-7 days (FOUR months) before deciding if it's worth seeing a doctor. No big thing."
That's the reality. What are you thinking that you aren't saying to the wife? (And probably what you don't want to say to the doctor either.)
Oh, and since you know what you're thinking -- your strategy for this chess game -- do you know what would work for the wife to counter that move? What can we possibly say that would make you change your mind?