Am I the only one annoyed by this?

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#41
Well I dont get many requests. It is due to my avatar and my age . I hate say it. It's most likely due to your gender and youth. My oldest daughter is your age . She experienced similar issues you have when she joins places . It's not due to folks being friendly either . I join those places too and zip nada empty mail boxes ,her ? She always has full message folders and friend requests.
Just keep doing the smart thing and reject away . Get to know them first ( the best you can over the net ) .
I dislike being negative but too many twits ( could use other more accurate words ,but we are in mixed company) out there not to .
Blessings
Bill
I do think it has something to do with the girl-thing, but not necessarily the age thing. When my avatars were teddy bears I get a what-in-the-world friend request about once every three months. This month my avatar is me, and I've received three so far. I'm a girl, but obviously not a young girl.

So, I need an avatar of a furious looking teddy bear? Do you think a teddy bear with a knife will do it?

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LilySue

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#42
Well l am new and l wouldn't think of sending friendship requests or messages until l got to know someone, but l might change my mind about that if l see too many furious teddy bear pictures!
 

seoulsearch

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#43
I do think it has something to do with the girl-thing, but not necessarily the age thing. When my avatars were teddy bears I get a what-in-the-world friend request about once every three months. This month my avatar is me, and I've received three so far. I'm a girl, but obviously not a young girl.

So, I need an avatar of a furious looking teddy bear? Do you think a teddy bear with a knife will do it?
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If they were ninja or assassin teddy bears, I would DEFINITELY send a friend request. :D Think of how cool your own teddy bear army would be!

So... How about teddy bears holding a katana or nunchucks...

Consider yourself FRIENDED (capitals!!!)
 

Laish

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#44
I do think it has something to do with the girl-thing, but not necessarily the age thing. When my avatars were teddy bears I get a what-in-the-world friend request about once every three months. This month my avatar is me, and I've received three so far. I'm a girl, but obviously not a young girl.

So, I need an avatar of a furious looking teddy bear? Do you think a teddy bear with a knife will do it?

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Lol yea a teddy bear with a knife in one hand an a severed teddy head with stuffing dripping out its neck in the other hand.
Blessings
Bill
 

Desdichado

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#45
I'll accept pretty much any friend request on here.

Which is funny because I'm SUPER choosy on facebook.
 
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#46
If they were ninja or assassin teddy bears, I would DEFINITELY send a friend request. :D Think of how cool your own teddy bear army would be!

So... How about teddy bears holding a katana or nunchucks...

Consider yourself FRIENDED (capitals!!!)
I was nervous enough with the pumpkin cutting knife. lol
 

Demi777

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#47
I'll accept pretty much any friend request on here.

Which is funny because I'm SUPER choosy on facebook.
I am generally picky. I dont want ppl to accept others that may be spammers because they see me in the friends list
 
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#48
When someone I don't know sends a friend request, the first thing i do is click on their name and see what posts they've made (it says "see forum posts" or something like that). If they don't have any or if they're just posting spam, I deny the request. If they seem nice in their posts, I'll accept. And if they try to bribe me with chocolate.... :rolleyes:
 

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Hey all
I tend to get friend requests by people who haven't been here even a day. I just keep rejecting them but it does annoy me. Am i the only one?
***change your picture to an old lady and they won't bother you...
 
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renewed_hope

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#50
I'll accept pretty much any friend request on here.

Which is funny because I'm SUPER choosy on facebook.
And here I thought I was special to be your friend:(


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#52
It would be interesting to see how many have friended us vs how many have put us on ignore
23 friends.
20 ignored.

And, you're neither.

Honestly? I don't usually Friend people, even friends. Haven't figured out a reason to.
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Susanna

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#53
23 friends.
20 ignored.

And, you're neither.

Honestly? I don't usually Friend people, even friends. Haven't figured out a reason to.
:confused:
How do I get to know who has me put on ignore?
 
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NoNameMcgee

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#55
You cannot see that, only how many YOU have put on ignore :)
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lol
i dont know why id ignore anyone


but ive reported one person (twice) for twisting scripture and perverting Gods Word
 

Magenta

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lol
i dont know why id ignore anyone

but ive reported one person (twice) for twisting scripture and perverting Gods Word
Unfortunately, there seems to be a high level of tolerance for that...
 

RickyZ

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Just got a second request from truebliever33. Who hasn't made a single post here. And is asking for help. Stand bye....