Do people run away from you too?

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faithandlove

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Where ever I go, when ever I go there...people always leave! I don't know why? People say I'm friendly and I always make friends easily, but they never stay my friend. As quickly as I make em, I lose em. It always makes me think it's me. They can't stand me and I don't know why? I walk into a room, any room, and immediately people will start whispering about me. And it's not just my imagination either. When I walk over to speak to a total stranger in that same room, they see me coming and turn and walk the other way! I don't know what's wrong. The only thing that I can think of is that it's spiritual? I know that in the last days scripture says that men will hate you because of me. I know that's true, but it makes for a lonely exsistance. What do you think?
 
WineRose

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It's quite the opposite for my mother. Everytime she looks at something in the mall, or goes to a restaurant, even if the place was totally empty before, people would start crowding toward where she is! However, she is a bit of a loner and has no interest with making friends with anyone.

As for me, I don't think anyone really cares if I'm around or not and I'm not so keen on making friends at this time, either. :/
 
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TemporaryCircumstances

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I don't mean to be rude but do you have BO?

I'm really not trying to be rude >. <
 
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Ugly

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Well I would not twist scripture to fit it to your situation. If your take on that scripture was true it would happen to All Christians. But it doesn't. And never has in the context you provide.

No one here can say why, though. We don't know you. But there is a high likelihood there more in your head than in reality about this. Insecurities can have that affect on people.
 
G00WZ

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The best way to make friends and keep them is to always be encouraging them, listening to them, and to motivate them/ make them feel good about themself, never really judging them, and just being an all around chill type of person, and you will have many friends. People respond to kind words that build them up...
I learned this by watching my dad.. hes like a carebear all he does is make friends lol
 
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faithandlove said:
Where ever I go, when ever I go there...people always leave! I don't know why? People say I'm friendly and I always make friends easily, but they never stay my friend. As quickly as I make em, I lose em. It always makes me think it's me. They can't stand me and I don't know why? I walk into a room, any room, and immediately people will start whispering about me. And it's not just my imagination either. When I walk over to speak to a total stranger in that same room, they see me coming and turn and walk the other way! I don't know what's wrong. The only thing that I can think of is that it's spiritual? I know that in the last days scripture says that men will hate you because of me. I know that's true, but it makes for a lonely exsistance. What do you think?
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Judging from this and your blog entries, although not much to go on, I'm guessing because your depressed and always thinking about you, instead of anyone else. You can be friendly, and even make friends that way, but once people catch on that the entire conversation will be about you, and only you, they flee.
 
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oldethennew

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JOHN 12:35.
Then Jesus said unto them, Yet a little while is The Light with you. Walk while ye have The Light,
lest darkness come upon you: for he that walketh in darkness knoweth not whither he goeth.

12:46.
I Am come A Light into the world, that whosoever believeth on Me should not abide in darkness.
 
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everlasting_melody

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If i was in this situation i would just start declaring to myself over and over every day that i have the favor of the lord on me. Jesus drawed people to him, and jesus lives in me, therefore people will be drawn to me :):)

The words you speak have the power to change things :):) It will also change your mind, your surroundings, and what you see :):)
 
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