Goodbye to my Husband

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winnieoy

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Dear Kevin,
For years my heart and soul was unrest wondering why you were always upset and nasty to me and my kids. And I want to thank god for really waking me up to the {who} you really are. My heart and soul is at peace now knowing I will never again be lied to, and be cheated on. I will never again have you steal from me, have things taking away from me or wonder why you were always upset and nasty towards me and my kids. You see in a man's world you seem perfect to your mistress eyes, catering to her needs and wants, but in gods' world I don't think he would consider you perfect. You have let your lust for other women take over your soul and for that you will never find happiness. You threw me and the family that god had given you away, and thinking that by replacing us with your mistress and your baby you had with her will seek happiness but I bid you wrong. As I see it your soul will forever be empty and unhappy. You see Kevin, my god has taught me so much. He taught me that I am not perfect by no means and not to throw judgement against you. He especially taught me to forgive you, forgive her and more importantly to forgive myself for thinking that I was the blame for all the havoc you created in my life and our kids lives. Like I said earlier in this letter my heart and soul is at peace now and bid you goodbye forever.
 
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mj007

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Try starting it as:

Dear Kevin,

I am grateful you existed in my life because...

This might align the thought to God, more than to your own self-thoughts of bitterness, hatred, judgement, resentment, which when you express (subconsciously and not openly) may give you a feeling of satisfaction and power over what you don't accept but won't last. And you cannot sugar coat it by then saying what you believe is the loving thing to say.

Just saying this, in peace and love. Seems you are trying to force it to the back of your mind and replace it, rather than face it with a more loving perspective, and ONLY a loving perspective. Love doesn't exist in contradiction. Perfect love casts out fear, Imperfect love and fear put together is chaos.

winnieoy said:
Dear Kevin,
For years my heart and soul was unrest wondering why you were always upset and nasty to me and my kids. And I want to thank god for really waking me up to the {who} you really are. My heart and soul is at peace now knowing I will never again be lied to, and be cheated on. I will never again have you steal from me, have things taking away from me or wonder why you were always upset and nasty towards me and my kids. You see in a man's world you seem perfect to your mistress eyes, catering to her needs and wants, but in gods' world I don't think he would consider you perfect. You have let your lust for other women take over your soul and for that you will never find happiness. You threw me and the family that god had given you away, and thinking that by replacing us with your mistress and your baby you had with her will seek happiness but I bid you wrong. As I see it your soul will forever be empty and unhappy. You see Kevin, my god has taught me so much. He taught me that I am not perfect by no means and not to throw judgement against you. He especially taught me to forgive you, forgive her and more importantly to forgive myself for thinking that I was the blame for all the havoc you created in my life and our kids lives. Like I said earlier in this letter my heart and soul is at peace now and bid you goodbye forever.
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winnieoy

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Hi MJ007,
Thanks for your response and helping me revise it.
 
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mj007

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It was just a thought, whether you make that choice is up to you. You don't need to spend too much time suffering more deeply than you did in a past that has been and gone. Some people suffer bitterness for many years, or even, until the day they die.

Where there is pain, I forgive those who brought me pain. This is not saying I welcome pain, but pain has a purpose, to bring us closer to God.
Where there is pain, I am grateful for those who brought me pain. This is not saying I welcome pain, but pain has a purpose, to bring us closer to God.

But when we think someone does not deserve our forgiveness, or our compassion, because of the pain they brought us, it brings a deeper pain. But do we look at who brought the deeper pain? Because, it is our self and not the other person.

The truth will set you free. Love that which you 'deem' to be the enemy, because in seeing only an enemy in another, we have become an enemy to ourselves. Out of alignment with God.

winnieoy said:
Hi MJ007,
Thanks for your response and helping me revise it.
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