ARE YOUR FRIENDS FRIENDS OF GOD? (Video)

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Yeah asking about religious beliefs has set my foot in my mouth so to speak many times,best to tread carefully.
What? I thought that was what Christians were supposed to be addressing with the unsaved... Best to avoid that persecution though... That was for the old-time saints. (Can you imagine Jesus or one of His apostles saying such a thing?)

Christians shouldn't ask about other people's religious beliefs...We should talk about sports and shopping; keep ourselves safe and comfortable. Forget taking up our cross daily; we'd rather be liked and have an easy and pleasant life in this world. We've forgotten (and would be pleased to ignore) the truth that suffering for Christ's sake is what we are called to as Christians---and not a comfortable and easy life in this world.

John 15:18-21; Philippians 1:27-30.

 
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IIRC I answered you sufficiently on your other post sister. Believe me, I've read everything you've written on these issues, so no need to guess that I didn't understand it. I understand everything you're trying to convey but see you as in error on several issues.

What I want you to see in that thread is you really do not show a true understanding of what an apostate is. I explained to you there an apostate is not a Christian. You simply overlooked these glaring errors you've made and just carry on without correcting yourself Biblically.

Do you think you could perhaps slow down in your misplaced zeal and use accurate Biblical language and descriptions and accept correction? I answered your OP over there at length, answering each and every point you made and received nothing substantial in response from you. Basically it was ignored and you blew it off.

Take time to understand your position on calling Christians apostate as being unbiblical. Could you correct that so we can continue in Biblical dialog based on said correction to your understanding? Either that or you're just wasting our time.

What I have said about Christians and apostasy is neither unBiblical nor incorrect, so why would I change my position? It is not my desire, or the Lord's will, for me to go back and forth with you about the things I've already addressed with you, which you do not understand. That's not my being proud, just stating facts.

Your posts on the 31 Signs You Might Be Apostate thread were either irrelevant, foolish, contentious, or erroneous; that was my reason for not responding to them. What I believed warranted a response, whether for your own sake or for the sake of other people who would read them, I addressed.

Either we are right or we are wrong: Scriptural truth is not subjective, and God is the one who must give us correct understanding of His word. If you believe that I am wrong, why bother continuing to come to my threads? My position is not going to change. You are wasting your own time.


 
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Actually the majority of your time is spent condemning others as lost, that, and you just contradicted yourself up above. Anyone can see this. I don't say it to condemn, but in hope that you might change your mind and actually see it for yourself.

You've called Christians apostate in another thread. Now this thread is doing the same type of thing, you're predetermining who is lost/saved/apostate &c. You expect that the lost should act as if saved in behavior, and if so it's all good, then we can be their friends. It is how you spend your time sister and shows the basis of your position.

Actually, I'm reiterating what the Scriptures teach about the unsaved, the saved and those who fall away from their faith after being saved. I'm not "predetermining" anything. Either we understand what the Scriptures teach about these things or we do not. (Not all unsaved people are "lost", by the way. Some are lost sheep and some are goats. The goats are not lost. God knows who is who. My business is not with the goats but with the sheep, as I've explained already. You're still confused, apparently.)

If you really believe that I want unsaved people to act like Christians, you obviously don't understand my posts. Others understand them. You do not. That is something only God can fix. I've addressed this particular issue (about sheep and goats and apostate Christians) enough with you.

Perhaps in your objective to correct, condemn and talk down to others, it is a way of God showing you that you need to be corrected?

Your presumption/judgment of my objective and your perception of what I am doing (talking down to others) are incorrect. If anyone is condemned by my posts it is by their own conscience and/or the Holy Spirit, and the word of God, not by me.

Keep in mind dear sister what Paul said in 1 Corinthians 5:9-10. He didn't instruct us to not associate (keep company) with the lost who behave in wicked sin, but not to associate with any professing believer who lives this way. Do you accept or reject this plain truth?

Both of these were addressed in the video. The fact that you think I confused the two shows that you either didn't pay close enough attention to the video or that you misunderstood---or deliberately overlooked---what I said.

We can associate with the lost and sinful. No, I didn't say "hang out" with them, no, I didn't say "partake in their sins," no, I didn't say "compromise our walk" or anything of the sort. I used a Biblical description and allowance, Biblical language so please do not go extreme here and turn it into something not said.

You're basically repeating what I said in the video.

(I perceive that your misperception of my motives is impairing your ability to hear what I actually say. You hear things that aren't being said---and which others are not hearing---and don't notice or understand what is actually being said---which others do. This again is something only God can fix.)


Since this Biblical mandate is adverse to the gist of your OP, will you seek God to correct you here and accept his correction?
That wasn't the gist of the video; you just didn't understand the message. There's nothing for me to correct.
 
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That wasn't the gist of the video; you just didn't understand the message. There's nothing for me to correct.
But of course. You still don't understand what an apostate is, and you have much error in your teaching. You've taught in your video that the lost should act like sheep, and you still falsely teach that an apostate is a Christian.

Any person who doesn't like what you falsely teach is just "rejecting God" and "only God can fix them." We get it.
 
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Your posts on the 31 Signs You Might Be Apostate thread were either irrelevant, foolish, contentious, or erroneous; that was my reason for not responding to them.
My response was none of the above. I'd dare say that several saw your OP as such, so if you see any responses that seem similar it is only a reflection of your conscience concerning your OP.

With all your unChristian ad hominem aside, you cannot answer and will not receive any reproof or instruction. I also offered good material on your unBiblical thread for the benefit of others.

Let me ask, since it is the elephant in the room, do you see anyone else, other than yourself, as right with God, or saved? You get why I am asking this question, correct?

In addition you're bearing false witness and being disingenuous that others understood you and by saying I do not. No need to belittle others, don't you think you've done this enough?

Now, again, there is no such thing as an apostate Christian. Please prove from Scripture there is such a thing? Actually use your Bible, maybe? In all your diatribes here (and you're the one announcing your positions) you rarely use any Scripture, thus your conclusions are merely your opinion and are therefore subjective. There is no authority in your opinions or words they are just ramblings presupposing yourself to be correct without any Scriptural backing.

If you believe that I am wrong, why bother continuing to come to my threads?
Why bother? It is an attempt to correct your error. Would you rather all just bow to your OP and those who only agree respond?

It's your objective also, the reason you continue to post is because you believe nearly everyone else is wrong, but you, of course are right. "Christians" are a bunch of apostates according to you, you slam them and then prop yourself up in judgment over them. If they disagree they are bothering to respond -- in other words you cannot handle criticism and being shown you just may be wrong.

Thanks be to God that Jesus is a friend of sinners. You see yourself as above this in your sectarian religion and go around slamming believers by forcing them into whatever mold you wish them to be in, and also slamming lost people.

May God bless all those who have friends in the world who are lost, yet are not friends of the world. You conflate the two unfortunately.

Lastly, you responded to my statement here:


We can associate with the lost and sinful. No, I didn't say "hang out" with them, no, I didn't say "partake in their sins," no, I didn't say "compromise our walk" or anything of the sort. I used a Biblical description and allowance, Biblical language so please do not go extreme here and turn it into something not said.
With this:


You're basically repeating what I said in the video.
Dear sister, this may be what you think you said in your video, but it is not what you said, nor is it how you came across. Again, you hardly ever use Scripture. Please start using your bible and lose your ad hominem towards all others.
 

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I just watched your video in its entirety and thought that you did an amazing job in getting across your valid point. In my own case I have found that as I have grown spiritually there are fewer people that I would consider being friends with. There are times that this world can seem like a very lonely place but we always have a friend in Jesus.
 
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I just watched your video in its entirety and thought that you did an amazing job in getting across your valid point. In my own case I have found that as I have grown spiritually there are fewer people that I would consider being friends with. There are times that this world can seem like a very lonely place but we always have a friend in Jesus.
That's sad, really, that you have few friends, if any outside of Christianity. We should have friends who are lost, we are not to isolate ourselves from the world. I have several that are lost that I consider friends and am friendly to.

How is it "growing spiritually" when we become isolated from the lost and have no real lost friends to influence? :confused:

I think many spend too much time online, don't get out, and that the majority of their "christian life" is spent in a forum.

What do you see in the video that is valid and is Christianity? I'd like to hear exactly what she said that makes you feel it was valid. :)
 
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But of course. You still don't understand what an apostate is, and you have much error in your teaching. You've taught in your video that the lost should act like sheep, and you still falsely teach that an apostate is a Christian.

Any person who doesn't like what you falsely teach is just "rejecting God" and "only God can fix them." We get it.
No, they either know the truth about those things which are in fact true or they don't. "Liking" what I share has nothing to do with it.

Knowing or understanding something that others do not know or understand does not make the one who knows it proud for maintaining that what he or she knows is true, is. It either is or it isn't. And if you're convinced that it isn't, there's no reason to keep posting your belief, criticisms or misjudgments on my threads. Why not go your way, as you are free to do, rather than trampling the pasture and muddying the water for those who may wish to eat and drink?

A Hindu or a Muslim could very well say the same thing that you said about me

Any person who doesn't like what you falsely teach is just "rejecting God" and "only God can fix them."


about the gospel message and the teachings of Christianity. That doesn't make those things false, nor does it make those who know and insist upon them proud. It means that God hasn't shown the people who don't know the truth that those things are true and that what they believe to be true is actually false.

The same goes for spiritual truths that God has given one Christian understanding of and not another. There is objective spiritual truth, and God is the one who makes it understood. Once you know it, you know it, and it doesn't matter what other people believe about it. They either know the same, or they don't. That's all there is to it.

Your repeated use of "we" (as in "we get it"), in your posts, in speaking for others, rather than just for yourself, indicates to me a desire to be supported by other people, as in "We're all together against you". Based upon your posts on my threads and your responses to me, your problem is with me, because of what you believe about me (or what you actually think of yourself and project onto me). I suggest taking this to the Lord and taking a serious and honest look at the attitude and motives of your own heart, which are before His eyes. Following me from thread to thread and going back and forth with me won't fix the real problem.
 
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No, they either know the truth about those things which are in fact true or they don't. "Liking" what I share has nothing to do with it.
Could you, asking again, show from Scripture than an apostate is a believer, and also start actually using Scripture?

Also, my alluding to "we get you" is concerning several responses in your threads where several have disagreed with your entire premise.

Now, lastly, this thing about the motives of your heart being judged by myself, first take a look at each of your OP's that are designed with that exact objective in mind towards others. You see this, correct? Or, do you deny this as well? The point is you are the person who is against others, that much is apparent.

No need to be sanctimonious, your motives and condemnation of others is readily witnessed here. I would really appreciate it if you'd use Bible to make your point, and prove from Bible that apostates are Christians. So far you've been dodging this! :)
 
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My response was none of the above. I'd dare say that several saw your OP as such, so if you see any responses that seem similar it is only a reflection of your conscience concerning your OP.

With all your unChristian ad hominem aside, you cannot answer and will not receive any reproof or instruction. I also offered good material on your unBiblical thread for the benefit of others.

Let me ask, since it is the elephant in the room, do you see anyone else, other than yourself, as right with God, or saved? You get why I am asking this question, correct?

In addition you're bearing false witness and being disingenuous that others understood you and by saying I do not. No need to belittle others, don't you think you've done this enough?

Now, again, there is no such thing as an apostate Christian. Please prove from Scripture there is such a thing? Actually use your Bible, maybe? In all your diatribes here (and you're the one announcing your positions) you rarely use any Scripture, thus your conclusions are merely your opinion and are therefore subjective. There is no authority in your opinions or words they are just ramblings presupposing yourself to be correct without any Scriptural backing.



Why bother? It is an attempt to correct your error. Would you rather all just bow to your OP and those who only agree respond?

It's your objective also, the reason you continue to post is because you believe nearly everyone else is wrong, but you, of course are right. "Christians" are a bunch of apostates according to you, you slam them and then prop yourself up in judgment over them. If they disagree they are bothering to respond -- in other words you cannot handle criticism and being shown you just may be wrong.

Thanks be to God that Jesus is a friend of sinners. You see yourself as above this in your sectarian religion and go around slamming believers by forcing them into whatever mold you wish them to be in, and also slamming lost people.

May God bless all those who have friends in the world who are lost, yet are not friends of the world. You conflate the two unfortunately.

Lastly, you responded to my statement here:


With this:

Dear sister, this may be what you think you said in your video, but it is not what you said, nor is it how you came across. Again, you hardly ever use Scripture. Please start using your bible and lose your ad hominem towards all others.
I'm going to leave this post alone and let others draw their own conclusions and form their own opinions---by watching the video and reading my posts on this thread and my other threads, if they so desire---as you have done for yourself.
 
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Now, I did enjoy your video where you sing about loving and caring for others. You have a nice voice! :)
 
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Could you, asking again, show from Scripture than an apostate is a believer, and also start actually using Scripture?

Also, my alluding to "we get you" is concerning several responses in your threads where several have disagreed with your entire premise.

Now, lastly, this thing about the motives of your heart being judged by myself, first take a look at each of your OP's that are designed with that exact objective in mind towards others. You see this, correct? Or, do you deny this as well? The point is you are the person who is against others, that much is apparent.

No need to be sanctimonious, your motives and condemnation of others is readily witnessed here. I would really appreciate it if you'd use Bible to make your point, and prove from Bible that apostates are Christians. So far you've been dodging this! :)
If your use of 'we' refers to people who share your point of view on something, or to those who simply disagree with me on something (even if they don't share your own point of view), it would still be better to speak for yourself and let others do the same. Bear in mind that the fact that someone disagreeing with me does not mean that they agree with you. Nor does someone agreeing or disagreeing with what I share make it either correct or incorrect. It either is or it isn't; it's not a majority rules situation.

I use the Scriptures plenty. (This isn't the Bible Discussion forum by the way.) It doesn't make any difference to those to whom God has not given correct understanding about things which I share that are true, which He has not shown them to be so. The Bible alone does not give understanding, however well we may know what it says: God does.

A major point of my posts is to convict whomever may need to be convicted, so that those who need to make changes will do so, because that is what God wants and because it is to their potential benefit to do so (and to their potential detriment not to do so). My posts are in agreement with the teachings of the Scriptures themselves. Some understand and agree with them, some don't. Calling Christians who need to wash their robes to do so and to prepare themselves for the Tribulation is part of my God-given calling. That's why I do it, and not for unrighteous or selfish reasons.

I live in full knowledge that my ways are before the Lord, to Whom I expect to give account, and I live to please Him; and I have---and strive to maintain---a good conscience toward Him in all things, as all Christians should. My admonitions and indictments (which are general, as only God knows to whom they apply personally; I don't know what the individuals reading my posts are doing or what is going on their hearts) are for Christians who do not have a good conscience toward God and need to make things right with Him. I also encourage those who know that they are doing what pleases Him and desire to do so to continue.

My comment about your perception or judgments about my motives and character is based upon the content of your posts: "Sanctimonious" "Talking down to others" and other such wording and comments about my presumed motives and character.
You're entitled to your opinions, but your perceptions and judgments of me are inaccurate.

Neither defending my character and motives or readdressing subjects I've already explained in detail, here or on other threads, is the purpose of this thread. So, if this is all you have to say, you've said it. It's enough, as far as posts to me are concerned.
 
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Now, I did enjoy your video where you sing about loving and caring for others. You have a nice voice! :)
I appreciate the compliment; but genuine love is not always pleasant. Everything Christians do should be done in love, but that doesn't mean that what we do in love will always be pleasant or appreciated by others.

Medicine tastes bad but does good. Syrup tastes good but does nothing (or harm if it makes you fat and gives you cavities...)

The same heart of love that produces songs of genuine love for others and for the Lord, also produces the unpleasant content of my threads.

The same Jesus who blessed babies and healed the lame, blind and sick, also gave the rebukes to the five churches in the book of Revelation. And He did it all in love.

The same apostle Paul who praised and wept over the churches and wrestled for the believers in prayer, also commanded a member of the Corinthian church to be handed over to Satan for the destruction of his flesh so that his spirit might be saved in the day of the Lord---and then, urged the church to forgive and comfort him when he repented. And he did it all in love.

What is pleasant is not always loving, and what is loving is not always pleasant. What is done by faith, in love, is always the right thing to do, whether other people like it or not.
 

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That's sad, really, that you have few friends, if any outside of Christianity. We should have friends who are lost, we are not to isolate ourselves from the world. I have several that are lost that I consider friends and am friendly to.

How is it "growing spiritually" when we become isolated from the lost and have no real lost friends to influence? :confused:

I think many spend too much time online, don't get out, and that the majority of their "christian life" is spent in a forum.

What do you see in the video that is valid and is Christianity? I'd like to hear exactly what she said that makes you feel it was valid. :)
Something about bad companions corrupt good morals. I think that I found it hard to relate to my friends after awhile. Like yourself I don't believe that we should isolate ourselves from those that we consider to be lost as we may be the means for these to know a little about God by the example we set and the consideration that we show. After a period of time I found it to be draining to hang around people that could not care less about spiritual matters as related to God. Thinking back, I realized that I probably was just as unrighteous as these friends were and was no better than then them. Maybe I was being judgemental towards them. That was probably the case. Even Jesus called Judas his friend and that was a guy with serious issues also.