ive not long come out of a relationship of 4 years. I'm trying to deal with it but its difficult, how did you get over someone and how long did it take? more so I'm living on my own (and my dog) , I have never lived on my own, I like having someone to look after, I'm very mothering if you like, I cant have him back, my heart misses what we were in the beginning but .. it can never be again, and coming to terms with that and having to see him once or twice a week is difficult. hes not the person I fell in love with. I pray to God to help me let him go completely but keep my heart whole, so far, he hears my prayers <3