Thinking about the good times during my marriage.

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10-four

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Okay so I called her and flat out asked her was she getting married in June and her response was and I quote " Ten.Who I decide to marry or date isn't any of your beeswax"
Which made me laugh.
Then she asked how I was doing and mentioned that she saw one of my sisters while she was out and about and my sister told her that she'd like to come to the wedding and help out with the wedding plans and e.t.c and my ex wanted to know if I was Okay with that and of course I said yeah but then I called my sister and asked her why she was such a Judas and an argument broke out but we made up before ending the call.Well I just wanted to share that to my thread.I know it sounds petty but I was in a petty mood that day.
 
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JosephsDreams

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Sounds like a soap opera. Call the networks, you may be able to make a bundle with a reality TV show.
 
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LittleMermaid

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10-four said:
Okay so I called her and flat out asked her was she getting married in June and her response was and I quote " Ten.Who I decide to marry or date isn't any of your beeswax"
Which made me laugh.
Then she asked how I was doing and mentioned that she saw one of my sisters while she was out and about and my sister told her that she'd like to come to the wedding and help out with the wedding plans and e.t.c and my ex wanted to know if I was Okay with that and of course I said yeah but then I called my sister and asked her why she was such a Judas and an argument broke out but we made up before ending the call.Well I just wanted to share that to my thread.I know it sounds petty but I was in a petty mood that day.
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This might sound crazy...but if the divorce was your fault...and you obviously still love her, why don't you go and tell her that? Sure, she's getting married but she isn't married yet. As Rachel Green once said "it's not over until someone says I do!" Tell her how you feel, get on your knees, and ask for another chance. She was your wife and you have children with her. I know it's weird because she's with someone else now but I really don't think you have anything to lose.

And it is your business who she marries. This new guy will be your kid's step-dad and will be living in the same home as your child/children. Please go and confess your love to her. It's not too late. Don't wait another year because then it will be too late. If she rejects you, then at least you can move on knowing you did what you could to keep her this time around.
 
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10-four

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JosephsDreams said:
Sounds like a soap opera. Call the networks, you may be able to make a bundle with a reality TV show.
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Yeah it does sound like a good idea for reality t.v.Hey you know what JosephDreams...I didn't want to bare my soul at first because of the very real possibility that someone might make fun of me.But I decided to take the chance and come on here and do it anyway.I used to have problems opening up but since I've met the Lord I can open up with the hopes that my testimony might help or reach someone else.
 
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10-four

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LittleMermaid said:
This might sound crazy...but if the divorce was your fault...and you obviously still love her, why don't you go and tell her that? Sure, she's getting married but she isn't married yet. As Rachel Green once said "it's not over until someone says I do!" Tell her how you feel, get on your knees, and ask for another chance. She was your wife and you have children with her. I know it's weird because she's with someone else now but I really don't think you have anything to lose.

And it is your business who she marries. This new guy will be your kid's step-dad and will be living in the same home as your child/children. Please go and confess your love to her. It's not too late. Don't wait another year because then it will be too late. If she rejects you, then at least you can move on knowing you did what you could to keep her this time around.
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Thank you for saying this to me.Well Katie and I are on amicable terms and I did think about asking her for another chance long before this other guy came into the picture but I always chickened out because I felt like she hadn't forgiven me for the things I've done when we were married.It was she who initiated the divorce. But like you suggested I think I may just call her tonight and tell her how I feel.What could it hurt?Thanks.
 
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