Hi guys, I’m new to the forum and came looking for some advice. My husband is always perving on other women, which I keep getting told is normal for men. Things got really bad at one stage, at church there is this one woman in particular that he used to continuously stare at. She actually sat at the back and we sit in the front, he was always turning around to look at her. After a while though she moved seats up near the front to the side, which made things worse as he then sat there the whole service looking at her. After a year and when I had decided it was really getting to me and I had had enough I confronted him about it. He then proceeded to tell me he didn’t know why he looked at her and if he did he would tell me. So I let it go after I explained he was sending the wrong signals to her as she had noticed it as well and how it made me feel silly. So after a couple of months it was brought up again and he said this time he saw the passion he once had in her. I feel as if he thinks im stupid as I know very well he was attracted to her, it was blatantly obvious and I feel as if he’s lying to me. I feel as if my self esteem has really dropped due to that and the fact he can’t help but check every woman out who’s wearing next to nothing. I’m one of those people who are loyal right down to not checking out other men etc I’m totally devoted to my husband. I think I need help in dealing with this as I don’t want him to be turned off by my emotions. From a Christian point of view as I’ve had plenty from non Christian’s telling me it’s natural and fine for men to do this, is this normal for me and do we as women have to try and find a way to squash the hurt feelings. TIA