It is enabling a mental illness, in my opinion. People who are so unhappy with themselves are mentally ill. It is like the reverse of pride, like an inverted pride that is a delusion. God loves us as we are. “Just as I am, without one plea, but that Thy blood was shed for me. And as Thou bidst me come to Thee, O Lamb of God, I come, I come.”
If a person despises themselves so much, they seek to change gender, it means the person does not know the love of God- the all encompassing love of God who loves us just as we are.
It is just very sad.