Confused everyone hates me

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Apr 17, 2018
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Oh well it is wat it is ppl wanna hate me and ignore me that is fine
 

blue_ladybug

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What are you talking about? This is your first post. No one's ignoring you, you just haven't said anything yet...
 
Apr 17, 2018
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I have message people but forget it it don't matter sorry to bother anyone here bye
 

melita916

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Hey, Collin. A lot of people don’t reply to PMs from someone who hasn’t posted in the forums. I recommend posting more frequently so others can get to know you. :)
 
Apr 17, 2018
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I'm starting too but really still am not getting no where it is ok
 

blue_ladybug

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Yes, Collin, people usually don't respond to PM's if they don't know the person PM'ing them. Like Melita said, start posting in the forums and ask your questions there. :) Just don't keep starting threads like this that say people are ignoring you and hate you.
 

tourist

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Hey, Collin. A lot of people don’t reply to PMs from someone who hasn’t posted in the forums. I recommend posting more frequently so others can get to know you. :)
This is the best approach to meeting new people and getting to know them.
 

blue_ladybug

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Well, that could be because so far, you've only made posts complaining because people are ignoring you. If you'd get to the point and tell us what you need help with, you'd be getting somewhere. :)


I'm starting too but really still am not getting no where it is ok
 

Noose

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Hi Collin, don't look it at it that way, i think you need help. Help isn't going to come until you share your problems.
 

tourist

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I'm starting too but really still am not getting no where it is ok
Just relax and be yourself. Write a few posts. Get yourself out there where people can see you. It's often hard when first starting out because you are unknown to everyone. I lot of us have been here years. It's very much a family. You can fit it too. Give it a chance.
 

melita916

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How can we help you, Collin? Is there something you want to share with us?
 
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La_Vie_En_Rose

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Everyone hates me, but I am not confused as to why, lol. If you think people hate you, you can either let it bother you or shake it off, it doesn’t bother me to be a pariah. A part of me enjoys it, actually.
 

tourist

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Everyone hates me, but I am not confused as to why, lol. If you think people hate you, you can either let it bother you or shake it off, it doesn’t bother me to be a pariah. A part of me enjoys it, actually.
I don't hate you. :)
 

Tommy379

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Everyone hates me, but I am not confused as to why, lol. If you think people hate you, you can either let it bother you or shake it off, it doesn’t bother me to be a pariah. A part of me enjoys it, actually.
No one hates you. That's all in your head.
 
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AuntieAnt

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I like what Melita said in her comment, share something about yourself with us. It gets pretty boring in here sometimes. Maybe you can brighten things up. :)

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NoNameMcgee

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Everyone hates me, but I am not confused as to why, lol. If you think people hate you, you can either let it bother you or shake it off, it doesn’t bother me to be a pariah. A part of me enjoys it, actually.
i dont hate you




(collin i didnt ignore you and i dont hate you i responded to every message you sent until you said you had to go)
 

BillG

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Feb 15, 2017
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I have message people but forget it it don't matter sorry to bother anyone here bye
I was one who you pm'd and I did not respond.

It has nothing to do with hating you at all.

Most people will not respond from a message out of the blue from someone they do not know or have not talked with on the forums.

Settle in, engage with people and get to know them and let them get to know you.
 
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La_Vie_En_Rose

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I was not going on a fishing expedition when I made my post. My point is, I am not everyone’s cup of tea. And that is fine. Not everyone is my cup of tea. That is the way life goes. It is perfectly fine to not be loved by one and all. I am sure Churchill was not loved by Hitler and vice versa.

It took me a long time to learn this (like 38 years).
 

BillG

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I was not going on a fishing expedition when I made my post. My point is, I am not everyone’s cup of tea. And that is fine. Not everyone is my cup of tea. That is the way life goes. It is perfectly fine to not be loved by one and all. I am sure Churchill was not loved by Hitler and vice versa.

It took me a long time to learn this (like 38 years).
Me neither.

Fancy a coffee:cool: