First of all welcome, secondly, I know the person, and read what they said on the other thread. She was not judging you, she has one of the biggest hearts. You know this thread will only start and cause trouble, even if that isn't your intention. I'm not sure what made you have such a bad day, but you should calm down and not take it out on her or anyone else. Lastly, if you don't want others responding and giving advise and opinions, then you shouldn't post on the threads. That's what they're for, next time try going in the chat rooms, and talk with others there, maybe even in private chat. Also, you might want to tone it down some on how you responded and talked towards that other young lady, she was only trying to help you. Just some thoughts, God bless.