How close is too close

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What you would limit from yourself or children

  • Friends/people: you know how much other people can affect your judgement and make you do things you

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  • Hobbies: Are all the hobbies that good for christians? Should we avoid certain ones?

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  • Entertainment (real life) full of ideas and such to corrupt our minds and give wrong ways to do

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  • Entertainment (Stories, games and fiction) In Bible we are adviced to stay away from all kinds of ma

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  • We should avoid everything non christian influence at all costs to remain clean and good for God

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  • Something else not mentioned above

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tjogs

Senior Member
Jun 28, 2009
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So the question is should we as christians and parents (if/when we have children) to protect ourselves and our children from non christian influence and if yes then how much?
By influence I mean school, friends, hobbies, entertaiment (books, movies, games etc.), place where we live and so on.
 
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Helloimandrewyo

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Man, i really wouldn't want to protect myself or kids from non-christian influences at all. I think as a parent, i would want to be more of a guide then someone who is just throwing down rules. We are commanded to be in the world, but not of it. Take in mind that i don't plan on letting my kids do whatever they do, but the reality is if you are sheltered from reality all your life, once you are exposed, you won't be able to handle it. I hope for my kids is that they are well rounded individuals.

I don't forsee them being well rounded if they only know one half of life.
 
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barukhmalachi

Guest
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The bible says raise our children in the way they should go and they will not depart from it. That's saying to teach them about god and be the example for them. Engrave the christian life into them and be their example. You can't shelter a kid or person from the world, and they may stray but when they mess up enough they will come back to the values and what they have seen and been taught. Someday they will see the error in the way of the world and realize better gods truth after their own trials and errors.
 
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Helloimandrewyo

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The bible says raise our children in the way they should go and they will not depart from it. That's saying to teach them about god and be the example for them. Engrave the christian life into them and be their example. You can't shelter a kid or person from the world, and they may stray but when they mess up enough they will come back to the values and what they have seen and been taught. Someday they will see the error in the way of the world and realize better gods truth after their own trials and errors.

Agreed, well put my dear fellow.