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i have a friend right now who's acting much like that. she even told me that she doesn't want boys and are not really attracted to them,. im trying to help her out because i know it;s not how it shpuld be. but im not yet certain how i will succeed, because im afraid that she might take it the other way and misunderstand me.
as for you my sister in Christ. you have the wisdom from GOD. you should know what's right to do.
as for you my sister in Christ. you have the wisdom from GOD. you should know what's right to do.
I think crushes are often just admiration that is not understood properly. I think it is fine to admire other people for different aspects of who they are. It could be their physique, personality or anything else. That does not automatically infer a sexual tendency or preference. Shakira and Selma are both gorgeous women. Recognizing that does not mean that you are a sinner. It may simply be a genuine appreciation of their beauty. The world pushes something innocent like this further and calls it a crush or something sexual. But we are not of this world.
Titus 1:15-16 To the pure, all things are pure, but to those who are corrupted and do not believe, nothing is pure. In fact, both their minds and consciences are corrupted. They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good.
Which do you think you are of those two? I think you want to please God. Your questions hint at that
God bless.
Titus 1:15-16 To the pure, all things are pure, but to those who are corrupted and do not believe, nothing is pure. In fact, both their minds and consciences are corrupted. They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good.
Which do you think you are of those two? I think you want to please God. Your questions hint at that
God bless.
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Rom 1:24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
Rom 1:25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
Rom 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
Rom 1:25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
Rom 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
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yes God loves you, but HATES the sin that you are entangled in. if you have to ask the question and have doubt, then deep down within yourself you already know the answer. but if you believe that He loves you, ask Him to forgive you and strenghten you where you are weak. believers don't like to say it, but we all have one issue or another that we are facing in this journey called life. it is only God, and God alone who can and will deliver us. nobody that has life in their body has made it to glory yet. we are still waiting for the coming of the Lord. sin is sin, there is no greater or smaller sin. SIN IS SIN!!!!!! God bless and just keep praying, He will deliver if you want to be delivered.
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Be careful here. We are all sinners, so your post could therefore imply God hates everyone; especially to a new believer (though I'm not saying you're outright wrong).
"The sobering fact is that God is so holy and righteous that He hates the sinner (Psalm 5:5; Lev. 20:23; Prov. 6:16-19; Hos. 9:15). Some say that we should say that God only hates the sin but loves the sinner. But, the above scriptures speak contrary to that. But it is also true that He is love (1 John 4:8). It is better to accept the love of God found in Jesus than to reject it and suffer His wrath." (http://carm.org/does-god-hate-anyone)
"The sobering fact is that God is so holy and righteous that He hates the sinner (Psalm 5:5; Lev. 20:23; Prov. 6:16-19; Hos. 9:15). Some say that we should say that God only hates the sin but loves the sinner. But, the above scriptures speak contrary to that. But it is also true that He is love (1 John 4:8). It is better to accept the love of God found in Jesus than to reject it and suffer His wrath." (http://carm.org/does-god-hate-anyone)
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Define "crush". If you find yourself fantasizing and lusting after these women, be they male or female, it's a sin. Homosexuality is another sin in itself.
What you describe here sounds more like adulation, and not so much lust.
Regardless, the real question is: will you accept Him? God is love, and won't reject you if you come to Him through Jesus Christ. Nonetheless, you are to repent of your iniquities.
What you describe here sounds more like adulation, and not so much lust.
Regardless, the real question is: will you accept Him? God is love, and won't reject you if you come to Him through Jesus Christ. Nonetheless, you are to repent of your iniquities.
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ok, God created you correct? he knows what you're going to do before even you do right? that means he created you with homosexual tendencies to see how you will respond to it. Yes i know that means God is just tormenting you, but aside from that, be who you want to be. You have only one life here so make the best choices you can that will make you happiest in the long run.
God wouldn't have created you with homosexual thoughts if that wasn't the person he didn't want you to be. - i know that statement is going to make a lot of people mad but before you chew me out think of this: would God have allowed a child to have down's syndrome without first wanting the child to be that way?
God wouldn't have created you with homosexual thoughts if that wasn't the person he didn't want you to be. - i know that statement is going to make a lot of people mad but before you chew me out think of this: would God have allowed a child to have down's syndrome without first wanting the child to be that way?
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Crushes aren't the same thing as a relationship. They are just crushes. It depends how serious they are. Do you like men too?
I am not in a position to tell you whether or not God would accept you or not. That's not a human's job!! But if I had to guess, I'd think you'd have to do a lot worse than have female crushes for Him to reject you.
From a biblical perspective, God says no to gay relationships. To put it mildly, it's not recommended, lol.
I don't have a very strong opinion on it myself...but for the most part, I'd guess it's harmless if it's only a faraway crush.
And of course, if you want a solid answer, you would be better off asking God yourself. =)
I am not in a position to tell you whether or not God would accept you or not. That's not a human's job!! But if I had to guess, I'd think you'd have to do a lot worse than have female crushes for Him to reject you.
From a biblical perspective, God says no to gay relationships. To put it mildly, it's not recommended, lol.
I don't have a very strong opinion on it myself...but for the most part, I'd guess it's harmless if it's only a faraway crush.
And of course, if you want a solid answer, you would be better off asking God yourself. =)